I disagree. Preoccupation with Christ is what is necessary in reaching a full life. To do this you cannot be preoccupied with yourself. But you cannot understand this, because you have not experienced it. You may think you are living a full life, but you are only half alive. How do I know? I've talked to people like you who eventually converted and discovered what it truly meant to be occupied with Christ and I have experienced it myself.
And what of people that were once christians and stopped believing? I have yet to hear of an Atheist that has never believed in god at one point or another. If life is so very different and better if you believe in god why would these people ever stop believing?
If ten thousand persons with Ph.D.'s say porn does not harm kids this means they are secret pedophiles and brazen liars.
-Willowtree