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Author Topic:   Hate the sin but love the person...except when voting?
ICdesign
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Message 111 of 391 (596991)
12-18-2010 9:51 PM
Reply to: Message 1 by onifre
12-14-2010 6:24 PM


oni writes:
ICDESIGN is a hypocrite who feels that only some people who sin should be loved and allowed to live and enjoy the freedom awarded to everyone else.
Excuse me there Oni but just because I use my freedom to vote against a behavior that I find offensive does not mean I hate the person committing that behavior any more than I would hate my child for committing an act I felt worthy of a spanking.
In my opinion the hypocrisy is in you telling me I don't have a right to stand against a behavior
I disagree with. Hey, if two guys want to blow each other in the privacy of their own wherever and use their outies as innies, that is their choice. I don't hate a person who engages in this behavior.
Just because I vote against calling it normal behavior doesn't mean I am against the person. Its against the behavior and that is a huge difference.
With your way of thinking you are saying the behavior IS the person so I am hating the person.
Well you are absolutely wrong on both accounts. I don't hate the person and the behavior is not the person.
I disagree with the idea that a society should put their stamp of approval on a perverted lifestyle and calling it OK and normal in the name of being politically correct.
Try running down the street with no clothes on and see how far you get. What's wrong with that? Why don't you have the right to do that? Because a society with morals made a law against it, because it is offensive to decent people, that's why!
IC

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ICdesign
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Message 114 of 391 (596998)
12-18-2010 10:32 PM
Reply to: Message 113 by subbie
12-18-2010 10:06 PM


Re: The Golden Rule
subbie writes:
would you want others to prohibit you from marrying the person you love?
That is a good question that I would be glad to answer for you subbie.
Our society determined back before all this PC crap started up that it was normal and decent that marriage should be between a man and a woman. If gay people want to be in love and live together that is a choice they have a right to make. To rewrite the law and change what we as a society declare to be normal and OK is an entirely different issue.
If I am in love with my dog and live with it as a spouse that may be my right but I don't have a right to ask society to call it normal and give me a thumbs up.
I say we have already drawn the line in the sand about what is normal and decent and there is no need to change it.
Ic

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ICdesign
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Message 120 of 391 (597019)
12-18-2010 11:56 PM
Reply to: Message 115 by subbie
12-18-2010 10:34 PM


Re: The Golden Rule
subbie writes:
would you want others to prohibit you from marrying the person you love?
I think I did answer the question subbie.
I think same sex relationships are unnatural and wrong on many levels. I believed this long before I became a Christian. If people want to engage this behavior they have a right in this country to engage. I disagree with society giving this behavior a thumbs up and sanctioning this type of a union as normal. Its not a matter of marriage benefits to me. Its a matter of calling wrong right. I have a right to express my opinion about this issue as does everyone else.
I am a man. If I loved another man I would not expect expect society to change the law to accommodate my unusual desires.
The Golden rule isn't a blank check to twist into whatever you desire just because it seems OK to you. Its referring to being kind to others. Its not a license for anything goes.
IC

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ICdesign
Member (Idle past 4827 days)
Posts: 360
From: Phoenix Arizona USA
Joined: 03-10-2007


Message 121 of 391 (597020)
12-19-2010 12:03 AM
Reply to: Message 116 by DrJones*
12-18-2010 10:40 PM


Re: The Golden Rule
DrJones writes:
Right, like when we held the line against interracial marriage.
Racial issues are attacking a person.
Homosexual issues are attacking a behavior. That is the difference none of you seem to be able to grasp.

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ICdesign
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Posts: 360
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Message 124 of 391 (597023)
12-19-2010 12:11 AM
Reply to: Message 122 by subbie
12-19-2010 12:04 AM


Re: The Golden Rule
subbie writes:
I asked would you want it.
I probably would want it yeah. If was a rapist I would probably want everyone to tell me that was OK too. "Hey, I never really hurt anyone. If she is dressed sexy I have determined she wanted it".

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ICdesign
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Message 143 of 391 (597054)
12-19-2010 10:09 AM


Well I am shocked. You mean people on this Forum disagree with what I believe? Your telling me I am wrong and you believe the exact opposite of what I think is right?
WOW, I don't know if I have the will to go on ....

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ICdesign
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Message 145 of 391 (597057)
12-19-2010 10:27 AM
Reply to: Message 142 by subbie
12-19-2010 9:58 AM


Re: The Golden Rule
And there it is, for all to see
Obviously, I was just making the point that everybody wants approval or justification for what they think is OK.
That was my tongue in cheek of how far you can take the Golden Rule. "Hey, I would want her to jump my bones so I am going to do un to her"
Just because a person "wants" something doesn't mean its my obligation to let them have it in the name of being nice.

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ICdesign
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Posts: 360
From: Phoenix Arizona USA
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Message 147 of 391 (597059)
12-19-2010 10:32 AM
Reply to: Message 144 by subbie
12-19-2010 10:19 AM


Not just wrong, Abbott, but a hypocritical lair. You don't believe in the Golden Rule, and you certainly don't love the sinner but hate the sin. You are a font of hatred and bigotry, the very worst that humanity has to offer.
You are breaking the Forum rules by attacking my person.
I have explained my position and I have a right to my opinion.
YOU are the person filled with hate not me.

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ICdesign
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Posts: 360
From: Phoenix Arizona USA
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Message 160 of 391 (597089)
12-19-2010 3:22 PM
Reply to: Message 149 by subbie
12-19-2010 10:35 AM


subbie writes:
I hate hatred. I hate intolerance. I hate bigotry. And I hate those who wish to impose their hatred, intolerance and bigotry on others.
I rest my case. You hate, you hate, you hate! You hate those who oppose your way of thinking. You hate God and you hate Christians.
If you want to tolerate any and every type of behavior people are willing to commit that is your spineless choice.
I do not roll over and tolerate the things I disagree with. If you want to hate me for that go right ahead.
are you man enough to stand behind your opinions and tell us once and for all that you hate fags?
I have stated I do not hate homosexuals. You are the degenerate calling them fags, not me.

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ICdesign
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Posts: 360
From: Phoenix Arizona USA
Joined: 03-10-2007


Message 162 of 391 (597093)
12-19-2010 4:21 PM
Reply to: Message 161 by jar
12-19-2010 3:42 PM


Re: Before you rest your case ...
jar writes:
The topic is not about homosexual behavior.
Actually jar the thread is titled "Hate the sin but love the person..except when voting?"
This is in regards to homosexuality being about the behavior and not the person committing the behavior. It suggests I hate the person if I vote against same sex marriage. I have stated very clearly what I believe and why I believe it in my posts. If you still don't get it may I recommend night school.
We live in a democracy where we have the right to vote for what we think is good and right.
That is what I intend to do. ......no further comments.
IC
Edited by ICDESIGN, : No reason given.

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ICdesign
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Posts: 360
From: Phoenix Arizona USA
Joined: 03-10-2007


Message 215 of 391 (597316)
12-20-2010 8:23 PM
Reply to: Message 164 by ringo
12-19-2010 5:10 PM


Re: Before you rest your case ...
ringo writes:
Democracy is not an excuse for violating the Golden Rule.
This is such an idiotic statement I can't give you a pass on it ringo.
How can you possibly vote for anything without going against the opposing view.
The Golden Rule is entirely about trying to be kind to others in your day to day living. It does not mean we are to be weaklings and not fight for what we believe is good and right. Do you think Jesus was worried about the Golden Rule when he overturned the tables of the money changers and the seats of those who were selling doves in Matthew 21:12?
If I see some pig beating and raping a woman I will beat his ass with a baseball bat if I have to to get him to stop. The Golden Rule has its place and so does being a man and fighting for what is right.
The bible says homosexuality is a sin that God condemns and I will battle against it on all fronts.
If a group of people decide they are offended with marriage between a man and a women they have every right to voice their view against it. The Golden Rule does not apply in this arena and
those of you who think it does are hypocrites every time you go to a voting booth.
I am really sick of this dumb discussion now so I am gone,
IC

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ICdesign
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Posts: 360
From: Phoenix Arizona USA
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Message 224 of 391 (597335)
12-20-2010 9:55 PM
Reply to: Message 223 by ringo
12-20-2010 9:00 PM


Re: Before you rest your case ...
ringo writes:
Of course He was. If He did something wrong, He would have wanted to be corrected.
Wow this is like trying to teach a preschooler a simple truth here...Sigh...
So you think Jesus would want to be corrected in this fashion "IF" he were in need of correction then? I personally have never met anyone who desired to be publicly embarrassed and humiliated in this fashion.
The question here isn't whether or not you have a right to do it but whether you do it out of hate. If you violate the Golden rule to do it, you're probably doing it out of hate.
That's right, all of you have been judgmentally accusing me of hate when I never once made a hateful comment. I have clearly stated over and over I DO NOT HATE THEM.
I'll say it again. The Golden Rule does not apply in the voting arena. Hate of a person is wrong yes.
Disagreeing with an issue does not mean you hate the person. What is the matter with you people here?
The Golden Rule is doing unto others as you would have them do unto you.
Would you want someone to vote against you or the idea you are promoting? No you wouldn't.
IC

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ICdesign
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Posts: 360
From: Phoenix Arizona USA
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Message 266 of 391 (597404)
12-21-2010 10:07 AM
Reply to: Message 230 by ringo
12-20-2010 11:18 PM


Re: Before you rest your case ...
ringo writes:
ICDESIGN writes:
So you think Jesus would want to be corrected in this fashion "IF" he were in need of correction then?
Of course He would.
You would rather look like a bag of hammers than admit your wrong wouldn't you ringo?
If you don't want them to vote against your marriage, don't vote against theirs. Taking something away from somebody else that you want for yourself is a hateful action. By their fruits ye shall know them
But as I stated before, I welcome them to vote against my marriage if they are against it because I acknowledge their right to participate in our Democracy. And further more I wouldn't accuse them of hating me if they did vote against it.
Do you ever vote ringo? If you do I have to assume that you always do so out of hate.
Everything you are against is hatred. You and your buddies on this site think from a foundation of hate and that's why you assume everyone else does the same. How pathetic !!
IC

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ICdesign
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Message 299 of 391 (597486)
12-21-2010 9:54 PM
Reply to: Message 298 by crashfrog
12-21-2010 7:50 PM


Re: No one can give a reason
crashfrog writes:
The Bible never says, in fact, that gay men and women won't go to heaven
1 Corinthians 6:9 "Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God.
Did this miss any of us? If so please see Romans 3:23
Tell us then Crashfrog, since you are an expert on what the bible teaches; how does a person earn the right to enter the kingdom of God?

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ICdesign
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Posts: 360
From: Phoenix Arizona USA
Joined: 03-10-2007


Message 339 of 391 (597575)
12-22-2010 2:03 PM
Reply to: Message 302 by crashfrog
12-22-2010 1:51 AM


Re: No one can give a reason
crash writes:
Well, no. I would say that Corinthians is intended, as you supposed, to cover all human beings.
Well, no what? It says plain as day homosexuals will not inherit the kingdom of God. You were wrong when you said the bible does not say gay's will not go to heaven. Of course, I never expected you to be man enough to admit you were wrong.
not the scripture of anonymous epistle writers
1Corinthians is not an anonymous epistle. You can discover that if you read the first verse.
Hebrews is the only book of the bible with an unknown writer.
Iano acts like Matthew 19:23-24 says "it is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for a gay man to enter the kingdom of Heaven." But that's not what it says at all - it specifies "rich men", and of all the words of Jesus in the Bible, rich men are the only class of person so specified.
I thought Iano covered this well enough in Message 304 but let me say this; its just as hard for a liar to enter heaven as a homosexual or any other sinner. The homosexual is named specifically several times throughout scripture because homosexuality is a specific sin.
I think that's telling, and I think it indicates that the God of the Bible (and the ministry of Jesus) is a hell of a lot more concerned about how fairly you're treating your fellow men, women, and children than he is about what kind of sex you're having.
Once again you are entirely wrong. Sexual immorality is one of the most condemned and talked against sins in scripture.
No one can earn entry into the kingdom of God, IC. You can only disqualify yourself from the grace of Christ by not being Christlike.
Actually Crash, you surprised me here and were actually half right about something for a change. You painted yourself into a corner though. On the one hand you are saying no one can earn entry into the kingdom of God. On the other hand you are saying you can qualify by being Christlike enough. You can't have it both ways.
I can walk you through the actual truth as to what the scripture does teach but I would like to see your answer first.
IC

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