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Author Topic:   Hate the sin but love the person...except when voting?
New Cat's Eye
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Message 10 of 391 (596675)
12-16-2010 1:17 PM
Reply to: Message 1 by onifre
12-14-2010 6:24 PM


Opinions, anyone...?
Always!
Hey, you still cruising? How's that holding out for ya?
And here's where I see the hypocrisy.
I believe that voting to stop homosexuals from getting married is NOT hating the sin, but in fact hating the "sinner." The denial of marriage ONLY affects the lives of those who want to get married. So by denying that right to someone, you are taking it out on the "sinner."
I think premise 2 is false:
The denial of marriage ONLY affects the lives of those who want to get married.
If homos are allowed to get married, then they can get on their spouse's health insurance. The amount of people covered by health inssurance affects the cost of health insurance for everybody*. Ergo, the denial of marriage affects the lives of more than just those who want to get married. Therefore your conclusion is false.
*whether this is better or worse is beside the point
In fact, the ONLY way to hate the sin is really by just personally hating the sin. Any action taken shifts the hate onto the person it affects.
Not necessarily (as exposed above). For example (made up), a person who hates the sin, but not the sinner, could also really want to keep thier health insurance costs up, so they might vote against homo marriage for that reason. This wouldn't necessitate that they hate the sinner.
Generally though, I think hard-core conservatives are against any kind of change whatsoever. I don't see a vote against homo marriage, as an attempt against any change at all, as necessarily being hate against the persons.
It might very well be in some cases, but not necessarily, and your deduction isn't sound.

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New Cat's Eye
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Message 16 of 391 (596702)
12-16-2010 3:40 PM
Reply to: Message 11 by onifre
12-16-2010 2:04 PM


Ergo, the denial of marriage affects the lives of more than just those who want to get married. Therefore your conclusion is false.
Well my premise was that the denial of marriage affected only those who wanted to get married.
And my point was that the denial of marriage affects more than just those who wanted to get married.
But sure, allowing them to get married affects society, but on that point who gives a shit? Everything affects society, that doesn't stop us from doing it.
If everything effects society, then denying marriage does too. Its not that it stops us from doing it, its that stopping or slowing change, of any kind, is a reason to deny marriage that doesn't involve hating the sinner.
I just meant denying them only affects them.
And I showed that wasn't true.
Wouldn't the non-bias thing be to be against ALL marriage? Why only gay marriage?
Because heteros can already get married. There's no change there. Allowing gay marriage would be a change.

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New Cat's Eye
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Message 17 of 391 (596703)
12-16-2010 3:45 PM
Reply to: Message 13 by Theodoric
12-16-2010 2:35 PM


Therefore heterosexuals shouldn't be allowed to get married either.
Irrelevant.
Not necessarily (as exposed above). For example (made up), a person who hates the sin, but not the sinner, could also really want to keep thier health insurance costs up, so they might vote against homo marriage for that reason.
This makes the assumption that higher health care costs would be the results. Your premise is flawed in many ways. Maternity care is a very high percent of costs for insurance companies. Homosexuals usually do not have maternity costs. Also, the bigger the pool of people insured the lower the cost of insurance. This is why smaller groups have higher premiums. So getting homosexual partners on to a plan could conceivable lower premiums.
It makes the assumption that lower healthcare costs would be the result. The made-up person wants to keep the higher cost so he votes against the marriage to maintain that because allowing it would lower the cost.
Your argument is very flawed and shows the logical gymnastics that those who want to be bigots are willing to go to justify and rationalize their behaviours.
You're argument is just plain wrong and shows just how blinded you'll allow yourself to be by your desire to vilify those who are different than you... bigotry in its own right.

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New Cat's Eye
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Message 18 of 391 (596704)
12-16-2010 3:47 PM
Reply to: Message 14 by subbie
12-16-2010 3:01 PM


If homos are allowed to get married, then they can get on their spouse's health insurance. The amount of people covered by health inssurance affects the cost of health insurance for everybody*. Ergo, the denial of marriage affects the lives of more than just those who want to get married. Therefore your conclusion is false.
*whether this is better or worse is beside the point
Unsupported assumption. If you can't even determine if the effect would be positive or negative, there's no way to establish that there would be any change at all.
I didn't mean to imply that we couldn't determine if the effect would be positive or negative, just that it didn't matter to the point.
I'd say that the result would be positive based on the assumption that the more people that are insured, the less the cost is to everybody... but I could be wrong.

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New Cat's Eye
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Message 20 of 391 (596709)
12-16-2010 4:03 PM
Reply to: Message 19 by Theodoric
12-16-2010 3:54 PM


Not at all it goes directly to the point you are attempting to make.
You got any evidence for that assertion?
What would the purpose of this be? Why is there an assumption of higher or lower costs? Here is where your argument falters. Why is there an assumption of health care costs changing?
The more people who are insured, the less it costs for everyone.
Is that not true?
Please show me where there is vilification in what I said.
quote:
Your argument is very flawed and shows the logical gymnastics that those who want to be bigots are willing to go to justify and rationalize their behaviours.

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New Cat's Eye
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Message 23 of 391 (596717)
12-16-2010 4:39 PM
Reply to: Message 21 by Theodoric
12-16-2010 4:06 PM


Did you think that comment was directed at you?
It was in a reply to me.
I thought you were talking about some hypothetical person.
I was. But I still don't see anything about them that justifies your vilification.
Are you saying that bigots do not go through logical gymnastics to justify and rationalize their behaviours?
I haven't said that, no.
Bigots have logical reasons for their behaviours?
Of course they could.
Alright, if you want to defend mindless bigotry I guess that is your right. Unless I am misunderstanding you here and your are not defending mindless bigotry.
I'm providing an argument against a position. Are you not familiar with debating!?
What's with all your vitriol?

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New Cat's Eye
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Message 24 of 391 (596720)
12-16-2010 4:47 PM
Reply to: Message 22 by onifre
12-16-2010 4:30 PM


No it doesn't. I know what you're saying you're just wrong in saying it. Denial of marriage leaves things as is, it only affects those who can't get married. Denying them marriage is business as usual, no change positive or negatively. Nothing happened.
Oh, I see what you're saying.
But still, keeping things the same is what has happened as a result of the vote against it. That is a valid reason for the vote that doesn't include hating the sinner.
Right, the society of gay people affected by it. And only them. Everyone else is unaffected since nothing happened.
A lack of change was maintained, that's what happened.
Granted, this wasn't what I was originally thinking, and I clearly see what I was missing you saying before. So I think you're right one the one part, as far as who is really affected or not, but you're still wrong that voting against it necessitates hate against the sinner.
So your hypothetical involves people who right now are furious at the high insurance prices from all the hetero's married, and the addition of gays is just too much to handle? Really?
Actually, its the opposite. They're wanting to maintain the higher price so they vote against the homo marriage because that would lower it
Ok...I'll have to accept it, even though it is completely bogus.
So... I still win

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New Cat's Eye
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Message 27 of 391 (596727)
12-16-2010 5:01 PM
Reply to: Message 25 by Theodoric
12-16-2010 4:48 PM


And I am providing an argument against your position.
No, you're not!
What is your position and how is it against mine?
All you're doing is trying to find flaws in my argument. That is not taking a position nor providing an argument.
You haven't provided anything at all that is useful in a debate.
Not agreeing with you is vitriolic?
No, this is the vitriol:
quote:
Alright, if you want to defend mindless bigotry I guess that is your right.
quote:
You really need to keep your personal feelings about me(yet you don't even know me) out of the debate. But that will never happen will it.
quote:
Your argument is very flawed and shows the logical gymnastics that those who want to be bigots are willing to go to justify and rationalize their behaviours.

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New Cat's Eye
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Message 28 of 391 (596728)
12-16-2010 5:05 PM
Reply to: Message 26 by Theodoric
12-16-2010 4:57 PM


Re: Please explain
You have yet to explain why someone would vote against gay marriage in order to keep there health care cost from getting lower.
They work for an insurance company. Its in tough times...
maybe there is something key I am missing here. The whole argument seems rather illogical. But then again there maybe something I am missing.
Obviously.
Oni's claim was that a vote against gay marriage necessitates hating the sinner. I am taking the position against that and provided an argument for why it isn't true, along with an example. Its called a debate.
I'm not really sure what you are doing in this thread... I think I'm going to call it: "being a little bitch".

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New Cat's Eye
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Message 32 of 391 (596746)
12-16-2010 6:29 PM
Reply to: Message 29 by Theodoric
12-16-2010 5:40 PM


Re: Please explain
You obviously have a problem whenever anyone questions your logic.
Wrong, I'm getting along with oni just fine.
You yourself admit that there is no way to know how it would effect insurance.
No, I haven't. In fact, I've said the exact opposite.
Your example is extremely out there.
It was just a part of a refutation of an absolute statement. He said "ONLY", I provided an exception.
If you really think the reason that more than a few people would vote this way then more power to you.
Well if you bothered to read what I write, you would've seen that I expounded my claim to a general point. But sense its apparent that you're not interested in debated, I'll just ignore you now.

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New Cat's Eye
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Message 33 of 391 (596747)
12-16-2010 6:36 PM
Reply to: Message 30 by bluescat48
12-16-2010 5:56 PM


Re: half a dozen of one 6 of the other
Because heteros can already get married. There's no change there. Allowing gay marriage would be a change.
Either I am losing something in the translation or this statement is missing something.
I think you're missing something. Oni claimed that any vote against homo marriage would be hating the sinner. My general point is this:
quote:
Generally though, I think hard-core conservatives are against any kind of change whatsoever. I don't see a vote against homo marriage, as an attempt against any change at all, as necessarily being hate against the persons.
Allowing gay marriage would be a change. Yes for Homosexuals, but where is the change for Heterosexuals? The Heterosexual marriage doesn't change, or if it does, how?
Whether or not their marriage changes is beside the point. One of the changes for heteros would be lower health insurance costs, because more people would be insured (yes, a good change, but a change nonetheless). Further, there are over 1000 laws that mention the word "marriage" in them. To say, out of incredulity, that there would be no effect on heteros, not stricly just their marriages, is naive. As oni said: everything affects society.
People fighting change, by voting against homo marriage, is not necessary hating the sinner.

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New Cat's Eye
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Message 73 of 391 (596869)
12-17-2010 12:36 PM
Reply to: Message 37 by onifre
12-16-2010 11:38 PM


Re: Please explain
It was just a part of a refutation of an absolute statement. He said "ONLY", I provided an exception.
This is true.
There could be some person who is against gay marriage simply because they want insurance prices to stay high. And while very very unlikely, it does get around my absolute statement.
Right, its possible for people to vote against gay marriage without hating the sinner.
So on to my general point: Conservative who are simply against any change at all, and vote against gay marriage, are not hating the sinnner either.
I thought of another one...
Some of the conservative think that anything comming from the left is going to be bad for them so they oppose everything that the left has to offer. If they voted against gay marriage for that reason then they wouldn't be hating the sinner either.
I think it exposes an irrationality on the left's part when they argue that anyone who doesn't agree with them about a particular issue must have hate towards the group that would be benefiting from the issue.
If you don't support gay marriage, then you hate gay people.
Nigga pleese!
Now, I realize you're talking about people who against it, and I agree that it is taking it a step further, but I still don't think it means that you hate teh gayz.

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New Cat's Eye
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Message 180 of 391 (597239)
12-20-2010 2:33 PM
Reply to: Message 35 by Theodoric
12-16-2010 8:16 PM


Re: Please explain
You yourself admit that there is no way to know how it would effect insurance.
No, I haven't. In fact, I've said the exact opposite.
So did you write this or not?
The amount of people covered by health inssurance affects the cost of health insurance for everybody*. Ergo, the denial of marriage affects the lives of more than just those who want to get married. Therefore your conclusion is false.
*whether this is better or worse is beside the point
That's just stupid!
Do you really think the line "whether this is better or worse is beside the point" is saying that there is no way to know if it'd be better or worse!? Really?
That car is fast, whether it is red or not is beside the point.
You just admitted that you cannot determine the color of the car.
What. The. Fuck.
So you are saying you know that homosexual marriage will lower health care costs.
Please, just read my posts.
Message 18
quote:
I didn't mean to imply that we couldn't determine if the effect would be positive or negative, just that it didn't matter to the point.
I'd say that the result would be positive based on the assumption that the more people that are insured, the less the cost is to everybody... but I could be wrong.
Message 20 <-- one...
quote:
The more people who are insured, the less it costs for everyone.
Is that not true?
1) Supposedly you believe health care costs will drop if gay marriage is allowed. You present know evidence to back this assertion and it seems to be a big part of your argument.
2) If health care costs go down, insurance companies will take a hit financially. You have shown no evidence that this is a valid or sane argument. Lowering health care costs could result in higher profits for insurance companies I don't think we know. If you do please provide evidence.
3)If health care costs go down you assert that individual employees of insurance companies will take a hit financially. Lower premiums may be result of lower claims which could mean a financial bonus to employees. But in actuality would probably have no affect on their pay whatsoever. I don't think we know. If you do please provide evidence.
Ugh, forget about the health insurance part. If was just a made up example to illustrate the broader point.
Oni in the OP writes:
I believe that voting to stop homosexuals from getting married is NOT hating the sin, but in fact hating the "sinner." The denial of marriage ONLY affects the lives of those who want to get married. So by denying that right to someone, you are taking it out on the "sinner."
In fact, the ONLY way to hate the sin is really by just personally hating the sin. Any action taken shifts the hate onto the person it affects.
I don't think that's correct. My Message 73 explains some exceptions:
quote:
Right, its possible for people to vote against gay marriage without hating the sinner.
So on to my general point: Conservative who are simply against any change at all, and vote against gay marriage, are not hating the sinnner either.
I thought of another one...
Some of the conservative think that anything comming from the left is going to be bad for them so they oppose everything that the left has to offer. If they voted against gay marriage for that reason then they wouldn't be hating the sinner either.
So there you go. That's my position: Voting against gay marriage is not necessarily hate against the sinner like the OP claims.

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New Cat's Eye
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Message 183 of 391 (597244)
12-20-2010 2:47 PM
Reply to: Message 182 by Theodoric
12-20-2010 2:38 PM


Re: Please explain
But as both Oni and I have stated it is a bogus point. YOur example does not make the argument you want it to make because you ahve no evidence that what you claim would happen would happen if gay marriage was enacted.
So you've totally avoided my actual position in this debate and are continuing to harp on a made-up example
Maybe you might want to try jumping on Oni too for saying your point is bogus.
He ain't a little bitch...
Besides, I did reply to him in Message 73 and am awaiting a reply.
Edited by Catholic Scientist, : No reason given.

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New Cat's Eye
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Message 187 of 391 (597260)
12-20-2010 3:36 PM
Reply to: Message 186 by Theodoric
12-20-2010 3:29 PM


Re: Please explain
Your position has no validity because your example was so ridiculous.
Non sequitor.
If you provided a real world non ridiculous example maybe your position would have some validity. Until then it holds no validity.
My general points stand alone, without any real life examples:
Conservatives who are simply against any change at all, and vote against gay marriage for that reason, are not hating the sinnner.
Conservatives who vote against anything that comes from the left, and vote against gay marriage for that reason, are not hating the sinner.
ABE
Oh yeah nice keeping up the personal attacks. Tells me a lot about the people I debate with.
Dicks fuck pussies.

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