Here's the deal:
1. Keep focused on the topic here in this thread. Imo, it appears you're doing fine debating your points, though I'm not sure that I've read the entire thread.
2. Regardless of your assessment of the manners of others, work on keeping your own above reproach.
3. If and when you have a
significant specific problem with the manners of others, including mods, bring it to the attention of admins in the moderation thread, rather than debating it here or wherever you're posting, so as not to inflame things here and elsewhere. If someone inflames, don't respond in kind. I'm not singling you out here. I've given Crashfrog the same advice, to which he responded in a kindly manner. We will work hard to iron these problems out for the good of all and to do it in a fair and balanced manner. This is what AdminPercy wants and that's why he's allowing us to resolve it short of flat out suspensions.

4. If and when you have a mod complaint, best to refrain from generalized criticisms as you're doing here. That's simply going to irritate them and make things more unpleasant for you. I've been remiss in area myself in the past and have been working on that. The more I work with them, the more I see that they're willing to work for improvement also.
5. Cheers!