About adopting children. I fully intend to one day. I haven't yet. But if you oppose, say, the death penalty (which I do, btw) are you then personally responsible to house and guard all criminals? If you make a donation to a homeless shelter, are you a hypocrite if you can't take in every homeless person on the street? If you refrain from killing someone, or stop someone else from killing someone, does that make you responsible for that person? I'm the first to advocate for free daycare, foster care, affordable services, and if this meant higher taxes, I would pay them. For every baby that is aborted in the US today there are over a million couples waiting to adopt- it is very hard to adopt a baby in America today- that's why so many go overseas.
As for a mother having only legs, a stomach, and a cervical canal, that is not all I see when I look in the mirror. I certainly don't think women are subordinate somehow incomplete, being that I am one. I have a great value for individual women as distinct human beings. Each woman has a right for reproductive freedom. She has a right to choose whether or not to have sex. A right to choose whether or not to use birth control, to decide which kind. A right to use a 'rape kit' to prevent pregnancy in case her right is violated. She also has a right to life. Her life should never be destroyed by anyone for any reason- not if she commits a capital crime, not if she is threatened by a criminal, not if she is in the wrong place at the wrong time- not even if she is in her mother's womb. Because the fetus in the womb is the baby outside the womb is the little girl is the teenager is the woman. They are all the same person in different stages of development.