Stile writes:
Of course it isn't the big picture. But it is a very clear picture of the problems existing in Religion. And of course these problems exist elsewhere. Yet, Religion is an extremely large part of our culture, and should be held accountable to stand by it's own lessons.
Religion is accountable. Many churches are attempting to stand by one teaching in the face of the fact that it produces discriminatory effects that were not foreseen.
Not allowing gay people to marry is wrong. We allow straight people to marry. If we do not allow gay people to marry, we are saying "gay people are not equal to straight people".
Again, if this is your only example of how immoral it can be to 'hand our morality to God' (as you say) it is not a good one and doesn't prove anything except that people have different opinions about what marriage is. If that is clouding, well, I don't know how else to express it.
So anyway I don't want to talk gay marriage. I only intervened to say that the idea of God morality leaving too much to chance was off base to me, because especially from an atheist point of view where there is no God and hence no God-given morality, it seems apparent that all morals come from societies regardless of what we god people say.
Sounds extremely contradictory to "Do unto others..."
The fact remains that some Religions, right now, are very loudly saying "I am allowed to marry the person I love, but you are not."
Stop your playing with words and generalizing and face the issue. This is clearly, and obviously wrong. It is not complicated. All you have to do is treat people equally.
Oh, but the issue was very general, and now your beef with religion seems to centralize around this one issue that is extremely contemporary and not easily resolved. If you think you are going to make a case for all religious folks to be against gay marriage, and all atheists pro gay marriage, you will fail. Since this is the case it is not religion but society in general that has hang-ups.