shyangel, please use the 'reply' button at the bottom of the message to which you're replying rather than use the general 'post reply' button at the bottom of the page. Doing so insures that others will be able to quickly link to the post being replied to. Doing otherwise can be confusing and is thus considered bad form.
I point this out because I wanted to respond to the same post you've quoted. I'll have to fish through the thread to find it. It's okay because I don't think you knew, but please in future observe this rule.