So what does it mean to love? Does perfect love include boundless tolerance? If my teenager is in church and is making out with his girlfriend in the back pew, am i to giggle and turn the other way?
What does tolerance mean, and what behavior is intolerance? You are the teenager's parent and are responsible for the teen. So for you, ignoring the making out is some kind of endorsement. Further, the behavior in church
is church business, so if the usher interferes, he is not showing intolerance either.
But failing to persecute random people that aren't in your house or who aren't your kids is not any kind of endorsement or tolerance of their behavior. Not yelling 'God hates gays' isn't tolerance of gays, it's simply behaving as if you had been brought up somewhere other than a cave. You might even argue that such non-actions are required by Jesus example from John 8:7. (Unless you are using the conservapedia Bible.)
Under a government which imprisons any unjustly, the true place for a just man is also in prison. Thoreau: Civil Disobedience (1846)
I would say here something that was heard from an ecclesiastic of the most eminent degree; ‘That the intention of the Holy Ghost is to teach us how one goes to heaven, not how the heaven goes.’ Galileo Galilei 1615.
If there is no struggle, there is no progress. Those who profess to favor freedom, and deprecate agitation, are men who want crops without plowing up the ground, they want rain without thunder and lightning. Frederick Douglass