These seem like nothing more than empty phrases you're throwing out, again all with an eye towards making yourself feel better.
What's the best way help a kid in bad area from falling into crime?
1. Ask him to identify himself as a potential criminal?
2. Provide him with the education to help him avoid criminality?
Same with young men and rape? Yes?
As for "making myself feel better". I'll say this again, so read it carefully lest you persist in misrepresenting me.
I accept the potential in men (including myself) to commit acts such as rape. I do not accept that need for me to identify myself as a potential rapist any more than than a person of either sex feels the need to identify themselves as a potential murderer.