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New Cat's Eye
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Message 242 of 301 (296799)
03-20-2006 1:06 PM
Reply to: Message 204 by ringo
03-17-2006 10:58 AM


Re: ringo goes off half-cocked
Your moral obligation depends on the condition she is in, not on how she got into that condition.
I disagree. I feel that I am more morally obligated to help someone who gets screwed over than some who screws up themselves.
Neither a carrot nor a fetus is considered a "member of society".
But the people who are strongly opposed to abortion consider the fetus a member of society and the abortion of that fetus murder.
If society forces her to carry the pregnancy to term, they are morally abligated to care for the child. I may be stating it badly, but it seems blindingly obvious to me.
I would agree with this, like I’ve type before, if a woman is pregnant and an anti-abortion law becomes effective. But, if the law is in place already and she knew before she got pregnant that if she did she would not be allowed to have an abortion, then the responsibility is removed from the society and placed on the mother.
That's where the OP question comes in. A rapist forces himself on a woman. If a woman is forced to carry a pregnancy to term, society is forcing the pregnancy on her. She is being raped by society.
Which is why the phrase “except in cases of rape or incest” should be included in an anti-abortion law.

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Message 245 of 301 (296806)
03-20-2006 1:31 PM
Reply to: Message 243 by crashfrog
03-20-2006 1:15 PM


Re: ringo goes off half-cocked
Getting pregnant isn't a choice, though.
But it IS a result of the choices you make.
I mean you don't choose to allow an ovarian follicle to release a fertile egg; you don't choose to allow your endometrium to accept a fetrilized egg. All these are things your body might do against your will after an act of sex, which you may or may not have chosen to do in the first place.
Yeah, so when you have sex and you don’t want to get pregnant, you should be careful about it. And if abortion is illegal, then you should be even that much more careful, as one of the methods of dealing with the pregnancy is removed. But if that method has been removed, I don’t think that the rest of the society should pick up the slack in the responsibility. The people having sex should be more responsible.
Now I realize that you can be the most careful possible and still get pregnant. That is one of the risks you take, and should understand, when having sex. If abortion is made illegal, you should understand that sex has become more risky, and be more responsible, not put the responsibility on someone else.
How do we substantiate rape or incest?
I don’t know. Surely we have some method of determining when a person has been raped in the judicial system. Some method could be created but I cannot present one.
Seems like "only in case of rape or incest" doesn't prevent that many abortions.
The illegality would prevent the abortions, that phrase would allow them. I don’t think it would allow that many though. Its not like your gonna say, “Oh damn, baby, you’re pregnant. Let’s just tell them that I raped you so we can get an abortion.”

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New Cat's Eye
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Message 246 of 301 (296807)
03-20-2006 1:39 PM
Reply to: Message 244 by Dan Carroll
03-20-2006 1:20 PM


Re: ringo goes off half-cocked
So if society limits the available options for women, the only thing it has to do to avoid dealing with the reprecussions is say "hey, we told you we were limiting your options?"
So the Patriot Act was passed and allowed for people to get searched for 'reasonable suspicion’ instead of ”reasonable cause’. Now, lets say someone gets searched for terrorist suspicion but they only find illegal drugs. Should society take on some of the responsibility of that person because it got harder to carry drugs around or should that person be more careful when carrying drugs?

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New Cat's Eye
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Message 253 of 301 (296815)
03-20-2006 2:14 PM
Reply to: Message 247 by crashfrog
03-20-2006 1:43 PM


Re: ringo goes off half-cocked
I don't get what you're trying to say, here.
If you’re down in East St. Louis at 3 o’clock in the morning and you get mugged by a crack dealer you’re going to get a lot less sympathy than if a crack dealer mugs you in front of your house in Columbia, MO. You made some poor choices that resulted in you getting mugged and the rest of society is less responsible for your protection if you are putting yourself in dangerous situations.
They made a reasonable choice and are now mitigating the undesired outcome of that choice. I don't see the problem.
The problem is that some people see abortion as murdering a person.
People take risks all the time. People do risky things. Walking out on the street is riskier than staying indoors. But people also have a right to mitigate those risks.
But you should still stay out of E’Saint at 3 am . .
So, if a woman is out after dark and is raped, it's her fault for doing something she knew was risky, and she shouldn't put the responsibility on her rapist?
No, you shouldn’t put the responsibility on people who are staying out of the hood.
Yeah. It's called "trial." You're going to make a woman wait until conviction before she can abort the abomination gestating within her? You're a sick person.
I’m wasn’t saying it was the best way. I don’t know how that would be handled and I’m not prepared to come up with a way to do it.
Unless you're an idiot who can't compare two numbers, this is nothing more than a dishonest screen to conceal your desire to prevent all abortions behind a facade of reason.
Neither of those are true.
Making abortions illegal doesn't prevent abortions.
I think it would.
Your law against abortion stands to make one out of every three women criminals.
They wouldn’t be criminals if they didn’t break the law.
Why not? Why not have my wife show up, say "I was raped but I don't know who did it", get the abortion, and then refuse to complain to the police?
There’s a lot of loop-holes in our laws.

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Message 254 of 301 (296816)
03-20-2006 2:15 PM
Reply to: Message 248 by crashfrog
03-20-2006 1:45 PM


Re: ringo goes off half-cocked
What was your point, exactly?
That sometimes your options are limited and society doesn’t pick up the slack.

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New Cat's Eye
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Message 255 of 301 (296817)
03-20-2006 2:19 PM
Reply to: Message 251 by ringo
03-20-2006 1:58 PM


If someone steps on a knife that shouldn’t have been there, they are less responsible for being cut than a guy juggling knives. It does matter how it came about, as it matters if the woman was raped or not.

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Message 256 of 301 (296819)
03-20-2006 2:21 PM
Reply to: Message 252 by ringo
03-20-2006 2:09 PM


Re: ringo goes off half-cocked
How is a fetus conceived by rape less of a member of society?
But its not about them being less of a member of society. Its about aborting the child as being the lesser of two evils versus forcing a woman who was raped to have the kid.
ABE:
If a woman gets pregnant as a result of her actions, then I dont think abortion is the answer. But if someone forces her to get pregnant, then they've removed her responsibility and she should not be forced to be pregnant. Its not that a child that is the product of rape is less a member of society so its ok to abort it.
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Message 258 of 301 (296823)
03-20-2006 2:32 PM
Reply to: Message 257 by ringo
03-20-2006 2:28 PM


Re: ringo goes off half-cocked
If the fetus is not a member of society, why does society have a responsibility to protect it? Does society not have a greater responsibility to the woman, who is a member?
The people who think abortion should be illegal consider the fetus to be a member of society and consider the abortion of that fetus to be murder.

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Message 262 of 301 (296839)
03-20-2006 3:29 PM
Reply to: Message 259 by ringo
03-20-2006 2:33 PM


You didn't answer the question: If a person needs help - say medical attention - which has the higher priority? Give them the help they need? Or find out who's to blame?
Give them the help they need.

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New Cat's Eye
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Message 263 of 301 (296840)
03-20-2006 3:33 PM
Reply to: Message 261 by Dan Carroll
03-20-2006 2:42 PM


Re: ringo goes off half-cocked
In conversation? Sure. In a court of law? Nope. Still the fault of the crack dealer.
I wonder if there would be any difference in the court cases for the situations I described...
ME writes:
You made some poor choices that resulted in you getting mugged and the rest of society is less responsible for your protection if you are putting yourself in dangerous situations.
Legally? Not true.
Agreed. But in actuality, I think the difference would present itself.

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Message 265 of 301 (296847)
03-20-2006 4:09 PM
Reply to: Message 264 by Dan Carroll
03-20-2006 3:49 PM


Re: ringo goes off half-cocked
Me writes:
If you’re down in East St. Louis at 3 o’clock in the morning and you get mugged by a crack dealer you’re going to get a lot less sympathy than if a crack dealer mugs you in front of your house in Columbia, MO.
In conversation? Sure. In a court of law? Nope. Still the fault of the crack dealer.
I wonder if there would be any difference in the court cases for the situations I described...
Don't really know how to answer this. It's like asking, "I wonder, if I was holding a rock in my hand and let it go, if there'd ever be a situation in which it would fall up?"
Nope.
Well we can just stop right there. There's no reason to continue discussing this. There's no way those cases would not be different and the explanation would be off topic.
We're talking about what should and should not be legal, aren't we?
There was a little more to it than that.

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Message 271 of 301 (296854)
03-20-2006 4:46 PM
Reply to: Message 266 by crashfrog
03-20-2006 4:21 PM


Re: ringo goes off half-cocked
Like I said nobody else is under an obligation to untangle the contradictions in your own position. It's your job to either do so or abandon an untenable position, if your desire is to be intellectually honest.
My position has been reworded to fit metaphors, takin out of context, and had words added.
Its hard for me to even see what position I'm defending anymore.

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Message 272 of 301 (296855)
03-20-2006 4:47 PM
Reply to: Message 270 by crashfrog
03-20-2006 4:45 PM


Re: ringo goes off half-cocked
The problem here is that CS thinks that making abortion illegal will make people think that abortion is wrong
I don't think that.

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Message 274 of 301 (296863)
03-20-2006 5:00 PM
Reply to: Message 273 by crashfrog
03-20-2006 4:54 PM


Re: ringo goes off half-cocked
The position you're defending is that sluts should be punished.
But I didn't even say that.

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Message 279 of 301 (296885)
03-20-2006 5:38 PM
Reply to: Message 275 by crashfrog
03-20-2006 5:09 PM


Well something went wrong somewhere.
I just summed up your position using concise and plain language. You were very careful to present your position in as guarded terms as possible, but the meaning came through very clearly.
But you're wrong about my position.
Why else would you so adamantly oppose abortion to the extent that you would make one-third of all women criminals, yet be oh-so-careful to avoid an undue burden on those who were impregnated not by an act of sex they had for pleasure but during a sexual assault?
I already said that I think that abortion should be legal. I also said, well...typed, that if abortion was made illegal, then I understand why the case of rape would be excluded. It is because the woman was not responsible for getting pregnant and forcing her to keep that pregnancy is less worse than aborting the child. If the woman is responsible for getting pregnant and abortions are illegal, then I don't think that society is obligated to take responsibility for her pregnancy because of the illegality of abortion.

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