My advice to you Phat, is not to hang around unbelievers too much. For what relation does light have with darkness? When I hung around with unbelievers, eventually I almost became one, and started understanding their arguments, and agreeing.
Heaven forbid!!!
You do realize that Jesus himself hung around sinners ALL day long, right? And that he said it was the lost who need salvation?
But when you are in the mud it doesn't seem dirty. First step out of the mud, and give that time to God, Phat, and it will start to look dirty once more.
Has it ever occured to you that it may be you that is filthy or that your position is wrong? There is that distinct possibility. Have I been as clear as mud on my position?
"Fix reason firmly in her seat, and call to her tribunal every fact, every opinion. Question with boldness even the existence of a God; because, if there be one, he must more approve of the homage of reason, than that of blindfolded fear." Thomas Jefferson