No, it isn't "simply a way of looking". Science involves careful measurement and testing. It is not just looking, it is knowing what you are looking at by means of rigorous examination of data.
No, a theory is not an "educated" guess. A theory brings with it new concepts, new ways of understanding, new ways of investigating.
You have your opinion on the subject and I have mine. It apears to me that you hold "science" with a reverence. As if it is on a pedestal.
I see it for what it is. A tool and nothing more.
A theory can be very wrong and misleading. A wrong theory can send the entire science comunity on centuries long wild goose chases. Incorrect assertions are made on a daily basis. Peoples bias work to distort the meaning of facts on a daily basis. How many drugs are being pumped out onto the market prematurely and we are the lab? Science has it's implications both good and bad. We are the falible lynchpin. There is no avoiding that.
A "theory" is only as good as the source. Somehow you have mistakenly elevated the idea of a theory beyond the falible capabilities of the source.