TL is saying there are lots of Christian not behaving like Christians.
No, he's saying that the current state of Christianity is not successful at producing Christians who act like Christians. He asserts that this is because the church isn't getting the messageof Christ to Christians; you assert that they're not following the message because they aren't
really Christians.
That's a quibble about the details, but I don't see how you fundamentally disagree. Christian churches aren't turing out people who live like Christians. Isn't that what they're supposed to do?
Its a narrow gate Crash. But that's not Christs messages fault. God wants that none should perish. But he's not going to twist their arms.
Why is it a matter of arm-twisting to you? If the way that you believe is so great, shouldn't it attract followers on its own merits? If the way that you believe has such a positive effect, shouldn't that be enough to attract followers who then reap those benefits for themselves?
Why should the way of Christ be so opprobrious? Is that really what you believe? That Christ has called you to live in inequity and failure? In seperation instead of fellowship? Is that the example that Christ set for you?