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Stile
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Message 6 of 141 (516262)
07-24-2009 11:20 AM
Reply to: Message 1 by Blue Jay
07-23-2009 3:08 PM


Spiritual Atheist
Bluejay writes:
Is spirituality only a religious concept? Or is it broader than that?
Spirituality is a basic concept. Religion has accosted it and attempted to build a monopoly on it. But it can't, 'cause it's tough fighting reality.
What could it possibly mean outside of religious thinking?
Let me explain using Peg's Message 3.
Peg writes:
Galatians 5:22 tells us that the fruitage of the spirit is "love, joy, peace, long-suffering, kindness, goodness, faith, mildness, self-control." These are real qualities that many people possess to a certain degree. The degree that we display such qualities will show the degree of our spirituality.
so basically, a spiritual person is one who is guided by Gods spirit and acts in accord with the fruitage of that spirit. Everyone is capable of it because we are made in Gods image and we all possess the ability to display his qualities in ourselves if we chose.
Basically, Peg's right in that spirituality is "love, joy, peace, long-suffering, kindness, goodness, faith, mildness and self-control." Spirituality is all those virtues that we generally associate with the term.
Actually, I'm rather confused by the addition of "long-suffering" in there. That one doesn't make any sense to me. It makes me start singing Sesame Street songs: "One of these things just doesn't belong...", but hopefully the main point is there.
Where Peg (and most religions) mess up is Peg's second paragraph. For no reason at all they jump to a conclusion that these things are a result of being "guided by God's spirit" or some other nonsense. The fact is that all these attributes are available to all humans regardless of their beliefs. An atheist can be just as spiritual, or even more spiritual then a theist. It all depends on how "in tune" they are with the actual qualities, and nothing to do with how much they believe in their specific deities of choice. Spirituality is an inherent part of simply being human (having intelligence?) it does not come "from God" or any other external force/entity.
Is there anything real about it? Or is it just a poetic way of viewing the world?
Heh.
My answer is that spirituality is as real as poetry

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Stile
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Message 7 of 141 (516264)
07-24-2009 11:23 AM
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07-24-2009 11:20 AM


Trying to be clever
Saying that spirituality is only available through God is like saying driving is only available through Ford.
Each one may have popularized the usage in North America, but neither is the only, or best, method.

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Stile
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Message 22 of 141 (516587)
07-26-2009 10:11 AM
Reply to: Message 13 by Peg
07-24-2009 6:47 PM


Re: Spiritual Atheist
Peg writes:
We have to consciously display them (spiritual qualities). Lets say someone is hurling abuse at you for no reason and they have done something really nasty to you...you either blow your top and tell them in no uncertain terms you've had enough OR you quietly and respectfully explain your feelings showing restraint, humility & self control.
I completely agree with you.
Notice how you said nothing about God or religion in this paragraph.
Its not only about how we display those qualities, but also how we use our lives and what our emphasis on life is.
Can i call myself a spiritual person if my whole focus in life is on building my wealth for instance? Or if my focus is on self indulgence?
Again, I completely agree with you. And my answer to both your questions is "no."
Again, please notice that God or religion is completely irrelevent to the points you've just made.
The ability of being a spiritual person is an inherent part of being human (or having intelligence). God, or religion, is not required. For some people, God and religion can certainly be the best way to become a spiritual person. But certainly not for all, or even most people.
This is where you go wrong:
Peg from message 12 writes:
some people put more emphasis on the physical things of life and pay no attention to the things of God. So this sort or person cannot be a spiritual person even if they display some of those good qualities.
God and religion is absolutely not required at all. Every single one of the spiritual qualities you talk about are all available to all people.
Some people have reached heights in these qualities that would be impossible for those same people under the "guidance" of God or religion.
I do agree that for some people religion is a great avenue to spirituality. It's just not necessary or required. And it most certainly does not have any monopoly on the best path, such a thing varies for each and every person.
To say that God or religion is mandatory for spirituality is utter ridiculousness that borders on detrimental mental abuse.
If you are capable of describing a beneficial attribute that is unique to being part of religion or God, please do. You'll be the first. Good luck, because as far as I've been able to find, it just simply doesn't exist.

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Stile
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Message 23 of 141 (516590)
07-26-2009 10:25 AM
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07-25-2009 6:19 PM


Re: Trying to be clever
Phat writes:
Stile writes:
Saying that spirituality is only available through God is like saying driving is only available through Ford.
So then who are the other car companies?
I take it you kind of meant this as a rhetorical smirk. But, I'm going to explain just incase anyone actually can't think of any other source for spirituality.
"The other car companies" represent all the other (basically infinite) sources of spirituality in this world.
-friends
-family
-enjoyable activities
-achieving personal goals
-self confidence
-understanding other people
.
.
.
The list goes on and on. And, each element of the list is basically infinite in itself.
The path to being a spiritual person is different for each and every one of us. Just as "a favourite car" will be different for each and every one of us.
There is no right or wrong way.
There most certainly is no "one way" that is best for everyone.
I don't understand how "spirituality" is such an obviously subjective concept... yet some people actually believe there can exist a single, objective pathway (for everyone) to attain it. The idea is beyond ridiculous. It's ludicrous on the most basic level.
People are different.
Spirituality is extremely subjective.
I think it's blatently obvious that "how people obtain spirituality" is going to vary (greatly!) from person to person. I don't understand the mental process that must be ignoring such basic principles in order to think otherwise.

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Message 24 of 141 (516597)
07-26-2009 10:43 AM
Reply to: Message 10 by Blue Jay
07-24-2009 4:05 PM


Re: Spiritual Atheist
Bluejay writes:
You and Peg both seem to equate "spiritual" with "virtuous."
Actually, I'm attempting to avoid giving a strict defintion to the word "spiritual." Mostly because I don't have one
To me, "spirituality" is such an extremely subjective concept (kind of like "music" or "poetry") that a definition that actually encompasses all aspects would be so vague as to be basically useless.
Did you know that the actual, theoretical defintion of "music" is:
quote:
Any combination of any sounds or silences that anybody considers to be 'music'
How ridiculous is that for a definition? It's useless. Pretty much anything and everything "can be" music. There have been actual, serious recitals where people have paid to fill an auditorium to "listen" to a musical "genious"... who comes out on stage, sits at a piano... and doesn't hit a single key. Silence.. for like an hour or so... and then he gets up and leaves.
(My mistake, it wasn't "an hour" but only 4 minutes and 33 seconds, in the aptly named "song" 4'33" by John Cage in 1952. Regardless of the actual length, however, the point stands)
It's really the same thing for such subjective concepts as "poetry" and "spirituality." They don't have strict, difinitive defintions. They don't have such defintions because they are extremely subjective.
This is obviously in reference to people, and not to experiences or things.
Yes. Or "intelligence" at least. I think I'll just say "people" from now on, since it's getting tiresome saying "intelligence" all the time too.
Even those who say they had a spiritual experience. As far as I can tell, they simply mean they received spiritual feelings from that particular experience. I can absolutely confirm to you that the same experience may be considered "spiritual" by some, and not by others. There's certianly nothing "external to people" or "non-subjective" about spirituality.
I personally have little taste for poetry, so people who talk like the above always come of an extremely fake and fluffy. Does this make me a non-spiritual person?
Not at all. It just makes poetry a non-spiritual experience for you.
Is there anything you're passionate about?
Anything you receive bliss from?
Anything you get a sense of fullfillment from?
Anything you feel calm and serene about?
...any experience that causes such "spiritual qualities" is a spiritual experience for you.
Personally, I even find very-mundane things such as video games to be a spiritual experience sometimes. Mostly when I'm playing with friends, but sometimes even on my own.
There is no such thing as an objective "spiritual experience" that would make everyone feel spiritual. There are too many different kinds of people who feel too many different subjective feelings from too many different stimuli.
It is possible to be a human and not be capable of spiritual feelings, though. However, this is generally due to certain kinds of brain damage or under-development. Any basically-average human is fully capable of spiritual feelings from certain experiences.
Edited by Stile, : Found information on the "silent song" I was talking about.

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Message 29 of 141 (516907)
07-28-2009 8:04 AM
Reply to: Message 28 by jaywill
07-28-2009 2:39 AM


Close, but God still isn't required
jaywill writes:
And in we come into this world with a comatose human spirit which is damaged and impaired.
I agree with your sentiment, but not your wording. Your wording is similar to that used by abusive, power hungry leaders.
People may very well come into this world not knowing how to tap in to their spiritual side. But there is nothing damaged or impaired with the average human coming into this world.
Different people have different ways of dealing with the sense of the loss of the spiritual function of the human spirit.
Again, I agree with your main focus, but your wording seems incredibly abusive. I would phrase it more like "Different people have different ways of figuring out how to tap into their spiritual side... it's not the same for everybody because it's such a subjective concept."
Others react by misapplying other kinds of experiences to be "spiritual".
This sounds even more abusive in the controlling sense. Are you going to explain how people can identify "misapplied" spiritual experiences? Who gets to judge?
These are usually soulical experiences which they mistakenly regard as "spiritual". They could be very unusual or parapsychological experiences, for example hypnosis. Such deeper soulical abilities they may mistakenly regard as spiritual experiences.
Okay. So what, specifically, is the difference between "soulical" and "spiritual?" What feelings does one get from a spiritual experience that are not present from a soulical experience? Or are you saying that certain objective experiences are strictly spiritual or soulical? Are you saying that "hypnosis" is always soulical, but never spiritual... for everyone? Why is that? What makes an experience objectively spiritual, or objectively soulical?
Then others have truly spiritual experiences only because the comotose spirit has been healed and made alive. But in this case it takes time, patience, trial and error, and guidance from God and often from fellow spiritual people, to learn to discriminate between truly spiritual sense and something else.
Oh, I see. Only God can provide "true" spiritual experiences. Is this the same God that only has "true" Christians as followers? Can you explain the difference between a "guided by God" spiritual experience and a "non-God-guided" spiritual experience? Because I have never heard anyone, ever, explain an experience that atheists are incapable of. It would be interesting if you'd be so kind.
In other words, a new dimension to one's life has been added. But the person is not use to having it and must take a life time to learn to live with something they have never experienced. There is no quick and easy road. There is no shortcut to time and patience to learning to use the enlivened human spirit.
Actually, I completely agree with your sentiment here. Notice how it says nothing about God. That's because God isn't required for such things. At all. In any way.
However, I would hesitate before saying "there is no quick and easy road"... there are people who exist where such things comes easier to them then it does to the average person. I'm not one of those people... but they certainly do exist.
However, enlightenment as to the truly spiritual is a moral matter which involves the conscience. And a person may resist what the conscience tells them. In that case a person is willfully ignoring the spiritual to protect the self, preserve some ego realm.
I agree that "enlightenment to the spiritual" can be difficult when a person is trying to "preserve some ego realm."
Again, notice how when you are actually making sense about spirituality... you're not mentioning God or religion. That's because they're both totally irrelevent, and can sometimes even be detrimental roadblocks in the way of spirituality.
I latter came to understand that such a feeling was a sense of something missing in my being. That sense of something missing was the sense of the absence of a functioning spiritual component of my being.
I agree with your situation. I would simply describe it as you not yet knowing how to deal with your spritual nature. It's not that you were "missing" your spiritual side in a defective or undeveloped way. It's just that you were unaware of how to deal with it. That's all. Just a function of missing knowledge, not a function of missing anything physical, or needed to "heal" anything. General people are not born broken, such an idea is only used by power-hungy, abusive leaders.
I don't think that the answer is dispair that the perversion has made it impossible to discuss. I think what you say is true about perverted and religious overtones. But I think discrimination can be developed. One has to be willing to learn. One has to have a teachable attitude. And one has to tolerate patient trial and error. And one has to be accomodating to understand that those with more experience have so relatively and not absolutely. In other words they too may make mistakes.
Well said.
Notice, again, that you did not have to mention God or religion, because they are not required.

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Stile
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Message 34 of 141 (516949)
07-28-2009 1:03 PM
Reply to: Message 30 by jaywill
07-28-2009 9:20 AM


Saying it is one thing, showing it is another.
jaywill writes:
I think a more idealistic attitude would be to say nothing at all is wrong with humans. I think the first thing I would attempt with you to demonstrate "damage" or impairment of the spiritual component of man is to try to get you to admit something is wrong with us as we are born into this world. That may not be an easy task.
No, I don't think it will be an easy task at all, but I'm all ears (or eyes...).
Why do you think you can "get me to admit something is wrong with us as we are born into this world" without any evidence of such a thing? Why should I take your word for it? Why should I take the word of the Bible for it?
Why should I even consider the possibility? Especially when we can objectively see that there is absolutely no difference between a "very spiritual man" and a newborn baby (other than growth, of course). There is no organ, or portion of the brain, or aspect of the baby's body that is "incomplete" or "gains completion" upon being an adult. Actually, that's not quite true, there are plenty of "undeveloped" parts that become "complete" through puberty. But even describing those parts as damaged or impaired is a stretch that's not worth making.
I can show you that average human babies are born "completely human" and not damaged or impaired in any way. It isn't right for you to claim that people are damaged when you can't show it to be so. It's very close to lying. Although I'd lean towards you simply being mistaken.
I could for example say that you the hostil and the paranoid may be quick assume a motive of abuse here? Maybe your reaction is an ingrained hostility to ideas of spirituality not consistent with your beliefs.
And maybe my reaction is simply because you keep saying humans are born damaged and impaired, without giving any actual reason to take you seriously. Also when all the evidence ever collected all shows you to be mistaken and that babies are born as perfectly healthy humans.
But, if you want to believe I'm attacking your idea simply because of some inner-battle you believe I'm going through, that's your choice. Not very spiritual or honourable of you, but your choice.
Spirituality and being moral may not be a choice that all humans make once they are adults. This is true. But such a thing certainly doesn't give any credence to the idea that human babies are somehow born defective.
1.) After having taped into some form of power/ ability or new realm of consciousness, how do you KNOW that that is truly a spiritual experience?
The same way you do.
Spirituality is subjective. Like having a favourite colour. How do I KNOW that green "really is" my favourite colour? It's subjective I know simply because I'm me.
I don't think your "true spiritual" vs. "mistaken spiritual" vocabulary is useful in any way. With such a subjective concept as "spirituality", you cannot make such divisions. You can, however, ask how I KNOW my spiritual feelings are the same as yours. And, of course, my answer would have to be that I do not know. However, I can say that everything you describe as being a part of "a true spiritual experience" are things I also feel during my spiritual experiences.
2.) Why should taping in be normal as breathing? You protest that nothing is wrong. At the same time you assure us that we can tap in to the spiritual.
But why is it not simply a passive given if there is no impairment ?
Why then is the flow of the spiritual as natural in man as the heart beat or breathing?
Who says spiritual feelings aren't as normal as breathing? Or passive? And I think that "the flow of the spiritual" is as natural in man as the heart beat or breathing.
It's the feeling of losing yourself when you're having fun.
It's the feeling of loving your spouse and knowing they love you.
It's the feeling of euphoria that comes from many different artistic sources.
Exactly like what you say here:
The sense of the spirit is hard to discribe. I will try. It is a feeling of light, comfort, peace, refreshment, uplifting, easiness, support, bouyancy, encouragement in spite of visible circumstances, joy, uprightness, peace towards God and man.
..except I'd replace "peace towards God and man" with "peace towards everyone."
And again, we see that "God" is not required.
There are also many ways to experience the spiritual. But in this case I believe that if God does not act we have no hope. It is God's willingness to reach out in conjuction with our willingness to reach out, that meet, making the human spiritual possible.
But you're simply wrong. God is not a necessary piece to the spiritual puzzle. He certainly can be a piece, and is for a great many people. But He doesn't have to be a piece, and He isn't for a great many more people.
Are you actually going to try and claim that believers in God are capable of "higher feelings" than non-believers? Such an idea has been verifiably refuted many, many times. But we can do it again, right here, right now, if you'd like. Go ahead, describe to me the "higher feelings" you think some people have that I am not capable of having, and I'll tell you if I've had them or not.
(Comparing subjective feelings certainly is ridiculous... don't you think? It reminds me of kids growing up... "My mommy loves me more than your mommy loves you... nyah nyah...")
The spiritual experience makes one more dependent upon God.
This is incorrect.
The spiritual experience has nothing to do with God. I've shown you how I have myself experienced various spiritual experiences, while being an atheist. This alone shows that spiritual experiences do not require God.
However, if you're going to define spiritual as "being dependent on God," then I am forced to agree that this strange defintion of the word certainly includes God in some degree. But, there is no reason to attach such an extraneous feature to the definition of the word "spiritual." So, if you insist on simply defining God into the word, our debate over whether or not God is actually required is over... and I will simply have to continue pondering why you insist on adding God in places He is not required to exist for no reason at all.
To be strict with the self and accomodating with others.
The strictness of deciding the truly spiritual to those who have the discernment should first be excersized towards one's own life. It is not to be strict with others and to be merciful towards the self. Rather true spirituality is to first be strict towards the self and accomodating and allowing to others.
The sense of the spiritual and pride and arrogance are adverse to one another. The spiritual cannot gloat of thier knowledge. The spiritual are meek and know that they can miss reality at any time easily. There keen insight can encrease. But with this encrease grows a proportional amount of mercy and love towards others.
The spiritual has to be exacting towards herself or himself and accomodating for the weakness of others.
A truly spiritual person does not delight to be in authority over others. He has not thought of controling others. It is a paradox. A person eager to excercise authority over other people is less likely to have encountered much spirituality deeply.
Here, I again agree with your wonderful description of spirituality. You've done a great job at putting something into words that inherently resists clarification.
And, again, I must point out that you do not speak of God or religion here. That's because they are not a mandatory aspect of spirituality. God is not required for humans to reach the highest of spiritual levels.
Perhaps, in order to continue, you could describe an experience of your own that you consider to be "spiritual" and we can see if it's possible for non-God-believers to experience similar feelings. I will choose my own, if you'd like:
Stile's spiritual experience:
The feelings I get when I look into my wife's eyes and can see her love for me, and see her knowledge of my love for her. I get lost and euphoric, I feel incredibly calm and understood... the most amazing feelings I ever experience. All at once, an overwhelming feeling of comfort and safety. Much as you described above, it gives me feelings of light, comfort, peace, refreshment, uplifting, easiness, support, bouyancy, encouragement in spite of visible circumstances, joy, uprightness and peace towards everyone.
Curiously... I get all these spiritual feelings without God or religion. I get all these spiritual feelings just because I'm human and I'm capable of experiencing them.
Or, are you seriously going to try and tell me that my love for my wife is not a spiritual experience?
Why I can't I also say "People who talk about taping into your spiritual abilities are by nature greedy power hungry guides. They want your money. They want fame. They want prestiege and thought of as being guides to the uninformed. As soon as you hear someone talk about awakening unused spiritual abilities of which you were unaware, Look out. You are dealing with a power hungry and abusive person."
Because, I do not want any of that stuff, and I can show you how what I say about babies being born as healthy, non-defective human beings is true. And you have yet to show how what you say (babies are born damaged and impaired) is actually true.
So, if I do show what I say is true, and you do not show what you say is true... which one of us is on the side that is more easily corruptable by people interested in taking money, fame and prestige from others?
Is what's good for the goose good for the gander here?
Of course it is. That's why I showed that what I say is true. Now I'm waiting for you to do the same thing.

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Message 40 of 141 (516960)
07-28-2009 1:51 PM
Reply to: Message 38 by New Cat's Eye
07-28-2009 1:26 PM


I don't think I understand your issue
Catholic Scientist writes:
Aside from the purely physical sense, babies are not born "completely human" as we can see with feral children.
I have nothing against the take Onifre is taking on this point from you, but I'm going to try another method.
What makes you think that feral children are not "completely human" in the context of this discussion?
Specifically, this discussion is about spirituality. What makes you think that feral children lack spirituality, or are somehow incapable of it?
I admit that feral children may very well be incapable of communicating to you that they did, indeed, have a spiritual experience, but I don't see how you could imply that they are not capable?
This goes on into the more general sense, too.
What is it, even generally, about feral children that makes you think they are not "completely human?"
Civilized speech and educated intelligence may be specializations we take for granted. What makes you think that feral children are not human?
Or even, the cheap cop-out route:
Chatolic Scientist writes:
Stile writes:
I can show you that average human babies are born "completely human" and not damaged or impaired in any way.
I disagree. Aside from the purely physical sense, babies are not born "completely human" as we can see with feral children.
I did say "average human babies." What makes you think that feral children are the 'average' human baby?

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Message 43 of 141 (516964)
07-28-2009 2:13 PM
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07-28-2009 2:04 PM


Re: I don't think I understand your issue
Catholic Scientist writes:
Because they're just like every other baby except for the circumstances that they are born into. At birth, there is nothing different and you're saying that we're born full. But we're not, we have to learn our spirituality.
Actually, I completely agree with you. I suppose I've been using confusing terminology, though.
What I mean is that every human baby is born with everything they need in order to "learn spirituality." That is, they certainly are not defective, damaged, or impaired at all in any way. They most certainly are lacking the knowledge to being spiritual, but they are not "broken" at all in any sense of the word. I mentioned "missing the knowledge" at some point earlier... this would be the same as "needing to learn." They don't need to be healed or fixed.. they simply need to uncover the knowledge.
My arguement here is to say that we are not born defective or damaged or impaired, sorry if I was confusing.

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Message 48 of 141 (516970)
07-28-2009 2:40 PM
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07-28-2009 2:20 PM


Re: I don't think I understand your issue
Catholic Scientist writes:
I'm saying that we are born defective or damaged or impaired if we accept being civilized as we our today with our current spirituality as the normal undamaged and unimparied state.
Like I said with my initial statement to jaywill:
I agree with the sentiment of this idea, but not with the wording.
We both agree that all we have to do is "learn" spirituality.
We both agree that babies are "capable" of this learning.
We both agree that babies are "incomplete" in the sense that they have yet to gain such knowledge.
I'm saying that calling such a situation "defective" or "damaged" or "impaired" is abusive and words that a controlling leader would use.
I'm saying that if we simply call it what it is... "babies haven't learnt spirituality yet"... then it gets the same point across, but without the abusive (in a needlessly-negative sense) overtones.
There is nothing inherently negative about being ignorant.
To label inherently ignorant babies as "inherently damaged humans that are in need of healing" is abusive.
That's my point.
If that were the case then feral children would not be so wild and lacking of spirituality... but they are... so you're wrong.
How are feral babies not "born with everything they need in order to learn spirituality?"
What are the missing?
I fully admit, and agree, that they do not get the learning as-they're-growing-up. And, along with their feral-raising, they may learn some social behaviours that then blocks any future learning of spirituality (but I think you'd have a hard time showing that to be necessarily true). But, as new-born babies... what are they missing?
What I said: "every (average) human baby is born with everything they need in order to learn spirituality."
...is not wrong. Even with feral children. It just so happens that feral children do not (possibly) learn spirituality. That doesn't mean that they were born incapable of doing so.

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Message 55 of 141 (517050)
07-29-2009 7:55 AM
Reply to: Message 52 by New Cat's Eye
07-28-2009 5:05 PM


Straight forward
Catholic Scientist writes:
I'm not saying that we must consider there to be something wrong with them, I am saying that we can accurately consider it that way.
I suppose now is when you explain to me how that is abusive...
I take it you've heard of mental abuse, yes?
quote:
The U.S. Department of Justice[2] defines emotionally abusive traits as including causing fear by intimidation; threatening physical harm to self, partner, children, or partner's family or friends; destruction of pets and property; forcing isolation from family, friends, or school or work.
(Bolding by me) From: Psychological Abuse
You're saying its 'not positive', he's saying it 'is negative'. I'm saying you could consider it negative if you want too.
And you're wrong. It's pure, innocent ignorance, which is not negative. To call it negative is a mistake or lie.
(ABE: I'm incorrect, here. You're not "wrong", you're just abusive I got a bit carried away, I guess)
Calling innocently ignorant babies "damaged and in need of being healed" is "causing fear by intimidation."
How can it possibly be deemed anything else?
It's like a father telling his 10 year old kid he's "defective" because he's unaware of integration and derivatives in mathematics.
Of course it's "a way of telling the truth." It's an abusive way. It's "causing fear by intimidation."
Edited by Stile, : There are no contradictions, only clear, consice arguements... perfect in their very nature.

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Message 56 of 141 (517051)
07-29-2009 9:03 AM
Reply to: Message 51 by jaywill
07-28-2009 3:57 PM


Re: Saying it is one thing, showing it is another.
jaywill writes:
Which represents your final thought here? Spirituality CAN include God or spirituality NEVER includes God?
My position has always been that Spirituality CAN include God, but that God is not REQUIRED for any level of spirituality, especially the highest levels.
I apologize for the confusion. I have had to repeat this part of my position many, many times in my discussion with you. I don't like to say things exactly the same way all the time, it gets boring. It's likely that one time I phrased it is such a way as to possibly imply that I thought God can NEVER be a part of spirituality. But that's not what I think. God (and anything else, really) CAN certainly be included in spirituality, He's just not MANDATORY by any means.
I often ask people who claim that everybody is spiritually and morally quite normal:
I've never claimed such a thing. Please stick to the topic we're discussing. I claimed that newborn babies are not born damaged or impaired. They are simply lacking the knowledge of spirituality and morality. They are born with all the tools required to grow into an average human being who is capable of the highest levels of spirituality and morality.
They don't need to be healed, they just need some knowledge.
Try to focus on what we're talking about, and please refrain from making up things that I haven't said, it only adds unnecessary length to these posts.
I believe that something went wrong with the created man. What is average is not what is normal. Either we were born with a problem or for some reason after birth something went wrong.
You are correct. Something does go wrong after birth (with many people). They learn (from themselves or others) how to make personal gain at the cost of other people. They learn unspiritual and immoral things.
This does not mean that babies are born damaged.
First the behavior seems instinctive. Secondly, there needs to be a remedy for the sense of self condemnation as well as the empowering to stop lying. Regeneration, Redemption through Christ was the answer to both problems.
No. Regeneration, Redemption through Christ is a possible answer to both problems. It most certainly is not "the" answer, nor is it in anyway necessary or required.
I have had no regeneration, or redemption through Christ... yet I have an answer to both problems as well: simple knowledge and teaching about spirituality and morality. That's what I got, and it worked fine for me. God was not required.
I am sorry if something I wrote was too personal and seemed like an attack on you. I will try to be very careful not to offend you. But I will be frank about man's condition as I see it.
You're not offending me at all. I'm simply pointing out that you "being frank about man's condition as you see it" is not actually based in reality. You've created an imaginary reason for something you perceive as a failure that just doesn't exist.
Yes, babies are not born moral and spiritual.
But this isn't because they are damaged.
This is simply because they are innocently ignorant of such matters.
They don't need to "be healed."
They simply need knowledge.
You're adding complications and confusion and imagination onto a simple, real problem. That doesn't make your imagination correct.
I think the idea of babies being defective arouses a sense of unfairness. Who can hold a baby responsible for being defective. The sense of outrage might arise with the thought of the born defect matter.
No. I don't think babies are innocently ignorant because it "raises a sense of unfairness." I think babies are innocently ignorant because there's nothing damaged or impaired about them. They simply lack knowledge.
Again, if you have anything based in reality to show that what you say is true, please present it. Otherwise there's nothing to differentiate your ideas from imagination.
I stand by the idea that we are damaged. Where are the books teaching people to be dishonorable, or to lie, or to steal, or to lust, or to covet ? There is not need to have "How To ..." books about these things filling the shelves of our libraries because they come NATURALLY.
I'm not arguing against these unspiritual factors coming naturally (for some). I agree with you.
What I'm telling you is that this doesn't lead to babies being born damaged. All it leads to is that babies need to learn how to be spiritual and moral. To jump into "babies are defective" is to invoke your imagination. If it's not simply your imagination, please feel free to show how what you say is actually based in reality.
If spirituality is totally subjective then it must be an illusion. Then no real spirituality exists.
This doesn't make any sense at all. Subjective things are not illusions, they're simply not objective. It is not an illusion that my favourite colour is green. It's just not objective trait for all people. This statement of yours is clearly false. If such things are what your posts are based on, then we need to clear up some basic knowledge about "subjectivity" and "objectivity" before we continue. Neither are illusions.
jaywill writes:
Stile writes:
Who says spiritual feelings aren't as normal as breathing? Or passive? And I think that "the flow of the spiritual" is as natural in man as the heart beat or breathing.
Do you mean that there is no need to learn to "tap in" then ? I thought you were saying that some people are ignorant of this facility.
No. I mean that everyone must learn about spirituality. But, it is not necessary to learn such things from other people (although that is the easiest way I know of). It is possible to learn of such things from yourself and reflection on your own experiences... this is simply a more difficult path.
Both ways spirituality must be learned. However, it can be learned naturally (from oneself), or from other people.
All babies are born ignorant of spirituality.
Some can learn spirituality all on their own.
Some can learn spirituality from others.
Some can learn to not be spiritual (perhaps on their own, or from others, I can even agree that this is the "easiest" of the possibilities)
None of these options leads us to think that the baby is initially defective in some way. Such a thought only comes from imagination. Unless you can show how it is anything other than imagination?
jaywill writes:
Stile writes:
And again, we see that "God" is not required.
I don't see it that way.
I see it more like this. When man was created God established a relationship with man that was subject to man's free will. If he chose, he could terminate certain aspects of this relationship and damage it.
This is what happened. And these steps I understand.
1.) Man has damaged the relationship established by the Creator of man with God the Creator.
2.) Man says "Oh, that is no problem. I'll just fix up what I have damaged."
3.) God says in essence to mankind as a whole - "No. You don't understand. You have the ability to mess up the relationship. But make it normal again you cannot. I, God, have to come in and restore what you have destroyed. You have the authority to choose to damage it. And you did. Now that the relationship has been damaged don't think you can fix it. I, God, now have to come in and fix the thing you have messed up. And I only need your willingness to come in and do that. I will not do it against your will or usurp your choice. But upon invitation I will come in and restore what you have damaged."
And God is eager and willing to do so. And God has gone to encredible lengths to restore the situation. In fact the restoral surpasses what was there before. Man is lifted to an even higher level of the relationship.
To say "We are in no need of God". I am first going to assume that you are not saying with these words "We are not in need of Organized Religion." That I would agree with.
I would not agree that we are in no need of God for the spiritual.
I understand that you do not agree with me.
I am not asking for you to explain how you do not agree with me, you have done so many times now.
I am asking for you to show how your explanation of disagreement is different from imagination.
I can show you how my explanation is different from imagination:
I don't think babies are damaged.
I can show you x-rays and doctor's records of new born babies and how they show no damage.
I can show you how, without God or religion, I or others are capable of spiritual levels you claim are only available "with God." This directly refutes your position.
I fully understand that you say babies are damaged, and God is required for spirituality.
I am asking you to show how what you say is actually a part of reality. How do you differentiate the ideas you talk about as different from pure imagination?
I'm going to try and show you what I'm talking about. Below is an excerpt from your Message 54 in this thread. I have highlighted certain sentences in yellow.
I completely agree with everything you discern and conclude from these yellow phrases. However, my issue is that you are simply stating these yellow phrases. You are not showing how these yellow words are actually real. You are not showing how these yellow words are different from pure imagination.
I agree that IF we assume these yellow words are correct, then your conclusion follows. My issue is that you give no reason for anyone to assume that these yellow words are actually correct. Therefore, there is no reason to accept your conclusions or explanations (all the non-coloured text). From what you've written, it's entirely possible that the yellow words are equivalent to pure imagination. Can you show how the concepts you talk about are different from imagination?
jaywill in message 54 writes:
Now to the problem of "Can there be spirituality without God?" I don't think so. Here is my reason for thinking this way.
I spoke before about the human spirit being distinct from the human soul. I spoke also about the human spirit of the naturally born person to be in a comatose state - deadened, almost not functioning at all. So the problem is that the spiritual "organ" must be resurrected, or healed, or enlivend, however (in my concept) I may speak of this remedial event.
Now the New Testament says that the spirit is LIFE because of righteousness. That is the deadened and comatose human spirit is infused with divine and spiritual life because of righteousness. God is the standard of righteousness. God is the source of spiritual life. God is the uncreated life. Justification is according to God's standard of righteousness. It is not according to our standard.
So " ... spirit is life because of righteousness" (Romans 8:10) means that one is declared righeous, justified from sins by God according to God's standard of righteousness. If God does not justify then the human spirit is not enlivened. If the human spirit is not enlivened then it is not spiritual life. Because a man has not yet been justified by God according to God's standard of righteousness, then his human spirit is still in a comatose state and therefore access to the spiritual realm is cut off.
The good news is that by receiving Christ into you immediatly "the spirit is life because of righteousness" That is what I believe. Now looking at the whole passage:
"But if Christ is in you, though the body is dead because of sin, the spirit is life because of righteousness."
The sinner's justification becomes Christ Himself. His history becomes Christ. What happened to the history of his sins and unrighteousness? They were judged on the cross at Calvary 2000 some years ago when Christ died for Him. Upon receiving Christ his past sins are immediately counted by God as having been thoroughly dealt with on the cross of Christ.
It is now as if he has never sinned at all. He has exchanged his sinful history for Christ Himself as his imputed righteousness. And Christ having entered into the heart - the spirit is life because of righteousness.
Another way this is put is in John 1:
"But as many as received Him, to them He gave the authority to become children of God, to those who believe into His name, who were begotten [born] not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God." (John 1:13)
A few points here: " ... who were begotten, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God" (John 1:13)
The ones given authority to become children of God are those who receive Christ the Son of God - as many as received Him. It is not as many as received Him and also those who reject Him. So the ones granted to become children of God are the receivers of Christ into their hearts.
The authority to become children of God is a matter of a spiritual birth, a begetting - "who were begotten ... of God".
This corresponds to "regenerated unto a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead". His resurrection facilitates man's new birth in the comatose spirit.
The birth, the begetting, the regeneration is NOT of three things:
1.) It is not of blood. You cannot receive the regeneration simply because your mother or father was born again. It is not passed on naturally. It is not inherited by natural birth.
2.) It is "not of the will of the flesh" . Here I believe that "the flesh" regers to the entire fallen Adamic humanity. The corrupted and damaged fallen man since the disobedience of Adam the first man.
3.) It is not [born] "of the will of man". Here this is not the fallen and sinful man but the original good man created by God. Remember that I did say that God looked upon what He created and pronoucned it "very good". Though man is damaged by the fall and sin there is still something good in his created being. But the new birth cannot come about because of this.
The new birth of the human spirit is of God and of God's will. So I cannot believe that the normal use of the spirit can take place without the will of God who begets the spirit out of its comatose state. The will of the fallen man cannot cause it. The will of the good created man left in him cannot cause it. And it cannot be inherited because of the spirituality of one's parents.
Now a possible caveat. I have never said that the human spirit is totally dead. I have used the term comatose. I think that there is one part of the human spirit that functions some even in the none believer. That is the conscience.
So a possible caveat is that any person who has something of a functioning conscience is perhaps, on the outskirts of spirituality. At least her conscience part of the human spirit is still working.
As a matter of fact it is through the conscience that one uses the will to decide to receive the Savior so that forgiveness may happen from God.
This may be like living near the "event horizon" of spirituality. One is close. But what he does with his will as the word of God convicts the conscience is the gateway to the spiritual richness of fellowship and communion with God.
Your premise is that God is not needed at all to be spiritual. But the spiritual realm, I feel, is not an anarchy or a democracy. It is a kingdom with a King. He may be a very gentle King, but a King nonetheless. And the King of the kingdom holds the key to our entrance into that realm.
Spirituality is a matter of being JOINED to Christ the Lord. Spirituality is a matter of being JOINED to the Triune God.
You are simply making statements. They are either from you, or from the Bible. But they are still nothing more than mere statements. Without showing how your statements are different from imagination, your arguements will remain impotent.

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Message 58 of 141 (517107)
07-29-2009 2:15 PM
Reply to: Message 57 by jaywill
07-29-2009 1:10 PM


What's the difference?
Our debate isn't going anywhere, so I'm afraid I'm unable to put the effort in to keep... spinning wheels. You keep explaing your theology, and I keep saying that it isn't required.
You believe in God and the Bible. I understand that.
You accept the Bible's theology. I understand that.
You fully believe the Bible's theology is an important part of everyone's life. I understand that.
I also believe that God and the Bible are a path to spirituality.
They're just not the only one.
I have reached levels of spirituality without God or religion.
I know you don't believe such, but your belief one way or the other has no impact on what has actually happened.
Since I cannot know what you feel, and you cannot know what I feel, it isn't possible for us to directly compare our feelings of spirituality.
All I can say is that I'm not lying to you when I tell you that everything you have described about spirituality is what I also feel. I just don't require God, the Bible or the rest of your theological explanations in order to have those feelings.
Perhaps, if you could actually describe a discernable difference between your "God granted" spirituality, and my "inherently human" spirituality, you could show how your point has validity.

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Message 59 of 141 (517109)
07-29-2009 2:37 PM
Reply to: Message 57 by jaywill
07-29-2009 1:10 PM


Interesting, but off-topic, questions
jaywill writes:
Stile writes:
And again, we see that "God" is not required.
If you one day come before God are you going to tell God that He was not required?
No. I don't think it would be necessary. But, if God is incapable of reading my mind, then I would only accept that He was required if He showed me that He was required. He, like you, has yet to do so. I am not going to take God's word for it, as much as I am not going to take your word for it. If an all-powerful God gave me a brain to make my own decisions, I would assume that God is not stupid and respect the gifts that He gave me. Especially if I ever find myself in His presence. A smart God would not give me a brain and then expect me not to use it.
A smart God would know that human's can't "know" things unless they are shown to be true. If I then bypassed this point, right in front of God, it would be the rudest slap-in-God's-face that I would be capable of. God would *know* that I need to be shown the truth before I can honestly accept it as such. Accepting as truth, without having it shown to me, right in front of God Himself can only be seen as rude and dismissive and lying on my part. I'd rather not anger a God. Being honest, and asking God to show me that it's actually true before telling Him that I accept it as true, would only seem prudent.
It is also possible that God exists and He is not required for our existence in any way.
Or are you absolutely positive that your coming before God could never happen?
No, I am not absolutely positive about this at all.
(We should probably start another thread if you want to continue with these types of questions)

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Message 64 of 141 (517200)
07-30-2009 8:54 AM
Reply to: Message 60 by jaywill
07-29-2009 5:26 PM


Looking for a difference
jaywill writes:
I said before that if you do not know God you cannot know yourself well.
Yes, you seem to say a lot of things that aren't true. You have given me no reason to actually think that I do not know myself well. You just keep saying it over and over. Saying something does not make it true. As far as I can tell, I know myself as well as anyone you've described knows themselves. There is no difference at all.
I see that as an Atheist you have accumulated an array of irrelevant reasonings which you deem are pretty clever. I have yet to meet an atheist who didn't think he was very clever.
Well, let me be the first. Hello, jaywill. I am an atheist and I do not think I am "clever" in the sense you are talking about here. I only explained my reasoning to you. You called it "an array of irrelevant reasonings" without giving any basis at all to call it such.
Perhaps you can show the error of my ways, instead of just saying "you're in error" and leaving it at that?
Can you actually show how humans are capable of "knowing" something without having it shown to them?
Perhaps you have a strange defintion of the word *know*.
Faith and belief are ways of accepting the truth when we are not fully aware of the actual possibilties of the truth. This is why we have faith in such things as the afterlife, or God's existence.
To know something is a way of understanding the actual truth through verification. This is why we have knowledge of such things as the distance between cities.
The very defintion of the word "know" is to "directly perceive" or "have direct cognition of." Such things (for a human) are not possible unless we are shown whatever it is we're trying to understand. Taking someone's word for something, even if that someone is God Himself, is not "directly perceiving" something. It's just the defintion of the word "know."
I can understand how you think that God's authority is beyond question. It's just that, as a human, I cannot honestly *know* something unless I have directly perceived it.
Therefore, if God Himself asks me how I know something, I would be lying if I told him "because I accept your word." Such a thing is faith, or belief, or trust; it is not "knowing" since it is not "directly perceiving." It's not being rude or clever, it's simply acknoweldging the defintion of the word.
I wouldn't want to "be clever" in front of a God as much as I wouldn't want to be dishonest.
So, what specifically, about the above is "irrelevant" or "clever?"
As far as I can tell, I'm simply being honest and answering God's question to the best of my abilities as a human.
I agree. I never known Him to reject an HONEST prayer. That prayer asking God to show you reality can be made today.
You seem to be very sure that I haven't done this already, or constantly. Strange. I wouldn't say God rejects my honest prayers. I'd say He doesn't acknowledge them. Perhaps it's because He doesn't exist. Perhaps it's for some other reason.
"Seek the Lord while He can be found; Call upon Him while He is near."
...
What do you have to lose in doing so?
Nothing to lose at all. Again, what makes you think I don't already do so? It just so happens that God doesn't seem to answer honest requests. Perhaps I'm "doing it wrong," but I only do what other's (such as yourself) have suggested.
My philosophy is to speak to people until Jesus becomes an issue to them. I don't like to speak to them until jaywill becomes an issue to them. There is a difference.
Oh, don't worry. Actually, if anyting, I gained more respect for jaywill from our exchange. I don't think I've ever seriously read your posts before. But you still have yet to make Jesus an issue to me. You have yet to do as I've asked (but it's okay, I'm pretty sure it's impossible, so it's not like I blame you or anything):
Can you show anything beneficial at all that a "God (or Bible) believer" can obtain that an atheist cannot?
You have yet to do so.
Therefore, I am forced to remain with my original thoughts about your position: the words you espouse are no different from imagination, they don't make any actual difference to reality.
You claim that Jesus, God and the Bible are the only path to spirituality and a "glorious" life.
But, from all you've claimed about spirituality or a glorious life, there is nothing that I don't already have in my atheist life. Apart from the talk of God, the Bible and Jesus... who may as well be entirely fictional creations of the imagination since they have zero impact on any portion of reality (from what you describe to what I see around my own life).

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