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Author Topic:   You Guys Need to Communicate! (thoughts from an ex evangelical Christian)
jar
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Message 6 of 200 (385244)
02-14-2007 7:01 PM
Reply to: Message 1 by Ophir
02-14-2007 4:26 PM


Throw God away.
Now cognitive dissonance has won out and I have abandoned the fundies.
Good. There is no God to be found in any Fundie sects.
And now I'm being proselytized to believe in a more liberal Christianity, one vastly gentler and more comfortable than the stuffy YECism that I was chained to before, but no more believable.
If it is not believable, then throw it away too.
In a system where religion is a conconction of men, such things are to be expected. That's what gives me comfort. At least it's no mystery why men argue endlessly about trivial religious matters. It's very similar to those who bicker about constitutional authority.
Yes. Religions, all religions are just a creation of Man. They can never be anything else.
Don't worry. You have nothing to fear and a wonderful life ahead of you. Find what you can believe. It will serve you better than any God you do not believe in.

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jar
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Message 28 of 200 (385486)
02-15-2007 7:48 PM
Reply to: Message 27 by Buzsaw
02-15-2007 7:37 PM


Did Jehovah use a pen or pencil?
Make that Jehovah, the Biblical god's scripture. It is the only scripture with Jehovah's signature on it's pages, over 6000 signatures, that is.
You got a copy of that thar signature. LOL
Did Jehovah use a pen or jess a stylus? Before he created geese, what type quill did He use?
Come on Buz.
Stop making folk laugh. Stop saying really stupid things like "It is the only scripture with Jehovah's signature on it's pages, over 6000 signatures, that is."
You're just making Christians look stupid.

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jar
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Message 33 of 200 (385526)
02-15-2007 9:12 PM
Reply to: Message 31 by Percy
02-15-2007 9:03 PM


Sam Harris too can make stupid statements.
That seems like a particularly stupid comment.
harris writes:
Religious moderates are, in large part, responsible for the religious conflict in our world, because their beliefs provide the context in which scriptural literalism and religious violence can never be adequately opposed.
Just what does he mean by that? Is he implying that because we speak out against the Cults of Ignorance that we are somehow sheltering them? Does he think that the Religious moderates somehow stop others from opposing scriptural literalism and religious violence?
Sorry but that is simply a stupid assessment.

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jar
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Message 38 of 200 (385578)
02-16-2007 10:20 AM
Reply to: Message 36 by nator
02-16-2007 7:56 AM


Re: Sam Harris too can make stupid statements.
Let's face it, jar, among the Christians on this board you are pretty much the only one willing to do that.
Really?
What about truthlover, True Christian, arach, trixie, Ringo (although his belief or non-belief remains a question), cavediver, etc?
Perhaps he means that he thinks that religious moderates so very rarely speak out against religious radicals in their own faiths.
If so he simply showed even greater stupidity by his choice of words. He cannot be unaware of all of the Episcopal Sites that speak out against such things or of all of the Progressive Christian sites.
Does he mean we do not have Televangelists like the 700 Club? Well, true. We are not crooks. We do not just produce infomercials or base our Theology on making a profit off the gullible.
Edited by jar, : appalin spallin

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jar
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Message 42 of 200 (385584)
02-16-2007 11:22 AM
Reply to: Message 41 by NosyNed
02-16-2007 11:04 AM


Re: Not about statements
Well let's parse one of his statements (Harris as quoted by Percy)
But religious moderation has some real liabilities, and the first is that it gives a tremendous amount of cover to religious fundamentalism, because moderates also have made it taboo to criticize religious faith itself, to criticize the basic project of thinking that you're a Jew or a Moslem or a Christian, of raising your children to believe that they are Jews or Moslems or Christians, because religious moderates are still attached to that obeisance to tradition. They don't want anything too critical said about the people who really, really believe in the literal word of their holy books. And this is not serving us at this point.
That is simply a falsehood. Moderates do NOT make it taboo to criticize religious faith itself.
I have NEVER criticized someone who is an Atheist for being an Atheist, nor have I ever said people should not say things that are critical of any holy book. And I am not unique. There are those like Bishop Spong who has even questioned the whole concept of Virgin Birth so critical analysis of holy books is not limited to those outside Theology.
The biggest danger of even moderates is that they make a virtue out of taking things on faith. The idea that it is a good thing to believe something is true with no or even contradictory evidence allows for all sorts of stupid and horrific things to be built from there.
But I am not sure that moderates do make a virtue out of taking things on faith. My experience is that far from a virtue, things believed solely on faith are slightly disturbing.
I think that taking things on faith is not a good thing at all. It is what you do when you don't have time or don't think it is worth investing effort to determine the credibility of an idea. It is a stop gap and not a good thing to be praised at all.
I would agree.

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jar
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Message 49 of 200 (385620)
02-16-2007 1:00 PM
Reply to: Message 47 by Hyroglyphx
02-16-2007 12:44 PM


Re: Did Jehovah use a pen or pencil?
Why is that stupid? Would you say that a Muslim is stupid for believing the Qur'an is the only source of true inspiration? Would it be stupid for a Hindu to believe that the Vedas are the only source of inspiration?
LOL
Misdirection and stupid comments in one paragraph. Perhaps a new high even for you.
I did not say that the person was stupid, but that the statement was stupid.
And of course I would say that anyone who says "only one book written by just plain men is the only source of inspiration", makes a stupid statement.
But Buz carried it even further to assert that a particular Translation carried the signature.
I'm sorry but all that shows is a little mind incapable of critical thought.

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jar
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Message 73 of 200 (385843)
02-17-2007 2:17 PM
Reply to: Message 71 by nator
02-17-2007 7:20 AM


Re: Dissenting thoughts
It isn't just Christian fundamentalism, by the way. Discouraging children from asking "too many questions" and strong disapproval of doubt are prevalent in many mainstream Christian sects, too.
Really? Such as?

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jar
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Message 83 of 200 (385878)
02-17-2007 7:45 PM
Reply to: Message 82 by nator
02-17-2007 7:13 PM


Re: Dissenting thoughts
Roman Catholicism.
(At least, it was in my experience)
Like I said, though, the strictness varies between sects.
Yet even here at EvC you have examples that falsify that assertion. Look at Trixie as an example.

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jar
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Message 90 of 200 (385933)
02-18-2007 9:57 AM
Reply to: Message 86 by nator
02-18-2007 7:24 AM


Re: Dissenting thoughts
One example in Trixie does not falsify anything.
Well, you may not like it, but unfortunately for your blanket statement, one example does falsify it.
Sorry.
Of course, I don't seem to recall Trixie saying that she, as a Catholic, was encouraged to doubt and question her Catholic religion. If true, this would be highly unusual.
Which simply shows how utterly ignorant you are about Christianity and even Roman Catholicism.
Even Jesus doubted and questioned his beliefs. And the Roman Catholic Church also constantly tests items of belief and over time even Roman Catholic dogma changes.

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jar
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Message 96 of 200 (385951)
02-18-2007 1:14 PM
Reply to: Message 94 by nator
02-18-2007 12:45 PM


Re: Dissenting thoughts
What does that have to do with how the Roman Catholic church, when teaching children, discourages the asking of too many questions and disapproving of doubt?
And just why have you shown that to be the case?
What the Catholic scholars and theologians discuss has little to nothing to do with what happens in the second grade Sunday CCD class at St. Ignatious Church in Hoboken.
Oh come on Schraf. Second grade? Get serious. LOL

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jar
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Message 100 of 200 (385966)
02-18-2007 2:54 PM
Reply to: Message 99 by crashfrog
02-18-2007 2:37 PM


Re: Dissenting thoughts
Wha...?
Second grade exists, Jar. I spent a school year there. I'm not sure what you think is "unserious" about the idea of second grade.
I think Schraf bringing up the second grade as examples of brainwashing and indoctrination is just plain funny.
The second grade is still a time of wonder, when kids should still believe in the tooth fairy, the easter bunny and Santa Claus.

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jar
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Message 106 of 200 (385988)
02-18-2007 6:29 PM
Reply to: Message 101 by Jaderis
02-18-2007 3:41 PM


Re: Dissenting thoughts
And, yet, many people (apparently, Schraf included) spent their second grade years (and first grade and fifth grade and...) being indoctrinated into a particular religion and discouraged from asking uncomfortable questions.
Yeah, right. And let me tell you just how effective all such brainwashing really is.
LOL
Pretty soon one of their "Very Best Friends" tells them there really isn't a Tooth Fairy and guess who they believe.
The problem is not indoctrination in the second grade, or even the third, fourth, fifth or sixth grades.
The problem is when young adults are sheltered away in societies where they do not get to question, and that is certainly not the Roman Catholic Church. I went to a Church school and most of the folk I knew also went to Church schools, Friends Academy and Loyola and Calvert and Boys Latin and the environment in all of those encouraged questioning beliefs, not simply accepting them.
Children around this age are particularly vulnerable to brainwashing and are more willing to accept things on authority (which is why they also believe in the tooth fairy and Santa Claus BTW) so I do not understand your contention WRT Schraf bringing up second grade CCD as an example of brainwashing.
Because, just as with Santa and the Tooth Fairy, brainwashing at that age doesn't stick.

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jar
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Message 107 of 200 (385989)
02-18-2007 6:33 PM
Reply to: Message 105 by crashfrog
02-18-2007 6:22 PM


Re: Dissenting thoughts
That is true of Christianity at that age, though, Jar. I know because I've seen the materials and had them used on me. That's Josh McDowell's main revenue stream - generating apologetics material for children to leave them with a sort of "shell" against the skepticism they're likely to encounter in college, etc.
It's widespread and pernicious, Jar, and you're being characteristically obtuse about it.
And you seem to be ignoring the context of my posts. Schraf was specifically talking about the RCC and mainstream Christianity.
I find it hard to believe that you somehow have missed all of my posts condemning and ridiculing the Josh McDowell conmen?
Is that possible?

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jar
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Message 109 of 200 (386005)
02-18-2007 9:51 PM
Reply to: Message 108 by crashfrog
02-18-2007 6:41 PM


Re: Dissenting thoughts
Indeed, I'm quite aware of your attempts to portray fundamentalism in America as a fringe movement representing a fraction of organized Christianity; in a country where one of the longest best-selling novels among adults is Tim LaHaye's Left Behind series, that's a transparently ludicrous and self-serving fantasy
Yet more misrepresentation.
Too too funny.
I have NOT said fundamentalism is a fringe movement and in fact have openly said that it is a growing and increasingly dangerous movement. Let's see if you can get your facts straight.
You seem to be playing the classic Fundy shuffle, moving goal posts and palming the pea.
The point is that indoctrination done in the second grade is relatively benign, I have spoken out constantly against the Josh McDowell conmen, will speak out against any such RCC conmen you bring to my attention.
Edited by jar, : No reason given.

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jar
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Message 111 of 200 (386018)
02-19-2007 12:38 AM
Reply to: Message 110 by crashfrog
02-19-2007 12:11 AM


Re: Dissenting thoughts
It's only as benign as any other attempt to suborn critical thinking. Which is not something I would consider benign at all.
Too funny Crash.
Who said you haven't? Now who's misrepresenting?
You are Crash.
You said:
Indeed, I'm quite aware of your attempts to portray fundamentalism in America as a fringe movement representing a fraction of organized Christianity; in a country where one of the longest best-selling novels among adults is Tim LaHaye's Left Behind series, that's a transparently ludicrous and self-serving fantasy
And that was what I quoted and replied to. When you then quote
jar writes:
I have spoken out constantly against the Josh McDowell conmen, will speak out against any such RCC conmen you bring to my attention.
qnd reply with
quote:
Who said you haven't? Now who's misrepresenting?
you are simply continuing the classic fundamentalist tactic of misrepresentation and misdirection as you palm the pea.
I never said that you claimed I had not spoken out except by your misrepresentation that I try to portray fundamentalism in America as a fringe movement as seen in this quote from you.
Crash writes:
"Indeed, I'm quite aware of your attempts to portray fundamentalism in America as a fringe movement representing a fraction of organized Christianity;..."
Frankly, I try to speak out against all fundamentalist whether they are Christians, or like you, Atheists.
Now this is heading far afield from the topic, but I believe it is important to point out that what you are attempting, and what Harris seems to be attempting, do not appear to be supported by facts.
This exchange began with Schraf's assertion that the RCC discourages questioning. My experience has been that the Roman Catholics I have encountered have been quite the opposite, and the Jesuits in particular are know for questioning.
It then devolved to a discussion of indoctrination in the second grade. I still contend that talking about indoctrination in the second grade is pretty silly, since experience shows that the vast majority of kids start questioning the answers pretty soon after that and their peers become a far greater influence than the parental or adult authorities. No matter how much we might wish kids continued to have the trust and wonder, the belief in Santa Claus of their youth, pretty soon they figure it out.
If you wish to believe I have said other than that, fine.
As to my reponse to the Topic, you can read it in Message 6.

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