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Silent H
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Message 30 of 288 (197858)
04-09-2005 4:59 AM
Reply to: Message 26 by nator
04-09-2005 1:10 AM


Interestingly enough while I can enjoy food, eating in general has been a miserable experience for me most of my life.
At first no one was satisfied with what I ate, and then when I changed to please others, everyone moved on and is unhappy with what I eat now.
That is on top of having some picky habits and an extremely bad digestive system (indeed I will likely be undergoing an operation soon because of its disfunction). In the end, if I was able to never eat, I would probably be extremely happy.
But since I must I do so generally out of need, but try to make it as good as possible since I want to enjoy what is likely to be hurting me later. Thankfully I did work as a cook for a short while, as well as teaching myself how to do things in the kitchen by myself when I was younger.
What has fascinated me is the increased morality regarding food, and our guilt over eating something that is pleasurable (if it may be "unhealthy"), or that it takes another life (all food is the taking of another life unless you eat ground minerals).
Thus I was gratified to see your response to PS.
It seems quite evident that killing animals and eating flesh is quite the human thing to do, and indeed can be done humanely. You did a great job pointing out the facts in this regard.
I think the question to ask is if you knew animals were about to eat you (which they certainly can and do in the real world) how would you want to be treated... that would be humane.
To me putting on airs that one can define eating meat as "bad" or "inhumane" and that we shouldn't because we can rise above it, is not only a testament to the overadundance of food, but a sort of mysanthropy and delusion that we somehow are more than and better than other animals.
Not to throw this thread off topic, but since it has reached the morality of eating (and you noted his slight hypocrisy), I thought I might point out something. As I gain little pleasure from eating (so I am not really a glutton) I have generally explored what does give me pleasure and that is sex. Several of your observations regarding eating can easily be thrown back at you regarding sex.
I'm not going to but you might take a look and read your commentary, only from a sexual "dietary" standpoint.
The foibles and errors you see in others about food, I see in others about sex. And in the end the morality of both is just as artificial (or shall I say arbitrary). And lately everyone seems to want to take the fun and fantasy out of both (did you read that they are now going to change Cookie Monster so that he eats more healthy foods????).
The final irony being I doubt I could get away starting a thread on everyone's favorite sexual pasttimes, to be described in lurid detail, no matter if it offended some. Sharing that kind of information about normal human pleasure is generally forbidden despite the fact that gourmet sex is more "natural" than gourmet food. That is it requires an overabundance of food and "culture" to allow for gourmet food recipes. The cavemen could have been engaging in everything we do today, back then. Just look at the Bonobos.
I tend to think that as a culture, we have replaced sex with food.

holmes
"...what a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away.."(D. Bros)

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Silent H
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Posts: 7405
From: satellite of love
Joined: 12-11-2002


Message 34 of 288 (197938)
04-09-2005 4:33 PM
Reply to: Message 32 by nator
04-09-2005 1:16 PM


The largest difference between eating and sex, to me, is that while it is possible to go for very long stretches of time, even an entire lifetime, without ever having sex, or having a very limited sexual "menu", and be quite healthy, physically and mentally (if the limitations are chosen), it is not at all the same with food.
This is more or less of an illusion. You certainly don't have to have sex as much as you need to eat, but that does not make them different. Just as not having to eat as much as you need to breathe does not make them different.
In reality you do need sex to maintain some standard of health. In men and women, bodies will eventually force the sexual response, usually during sleep, if it does not happen at any other time. That is inclusive of running through sexual response "diagnostics" every night anyway.
It is true that a person can be an ascetic and live, but that is also true regarding food. Humans can survive on very little and there is mounting evidence that calorie starvation can actually extend life... I saw an interesting doc on that, but kept wondering what's the point of living if you constantly feel half starved.
There have been studies recently showing that early pregnancy (early relative to our culture) helps stave off breast cancer, and that at the very least frequent masturbation (or any sexual activity) can help reduce heart attacks and prostate cancer.
Our bodies really are built to eat, sleep, and screw.
"eat or die" is still a major difference to me.
Like I said, to me this isn't that much of a difference, especially when eating delicious food is not a requirement for living, and neither is eating much beyond starvation level.
This was perfectly put.
Thanks and don't let my little additional points make it appear as if I am trying to knock everything you were saying. I thought you've been making good points.
You know I've even been quoting you to my gf recently about food (the difference between hunger and appetite).

holmes
"...what a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away.."(D. Bros)

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Silent H
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Message 66 of 288 (198323)
04-11-2005 1:51 PM
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04-11-2005 1:11 PM


I think we have replaced both of them with TV.
Which is now being replaced by... ahem... the internet.

holmes
"...what a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away.."(D. Bros)

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