my definition of Good must just be out of whack.
Correct. God's is to love God, love your neighbour and love your enemy. Whereas you are trying to make out EVENTS of the OT to be 'bad' things God done, but if there's no dark in him (there's that logic again ) how is any persons filthy rag perspective of any meaning when they hold darkness?
Got to go, I may return but I feel like a one man army.