Hi Glordag,
Could you perhaps focus the topic in a little, there appears to be too many points for an opening post (check out the number of question marks!)?
Also, it looks as if there are actually two topics here:
1. Predestination.
2. The Nature of Hell.
Perhaps you would like to merge them, but I can see difficulties with having both these topics in the one thread.
You are welcome to open separate threads if you wish.
But, try honing it down a little, there are too many questions in the OP, and this would certainly lead to many off-topic posts.
AdminBrian.