Wow, so many new folk. Hi purplecorndog!
space: is it flat or three-dimensional?
3d? Yes, but we don't like to separate it from time, which gives us 4d.
Flat? Well, it depends. Over small distances it is, to a very good approximation, flat. However, as you look on larger length scales you realise (using incredibly sensitve instrumentation) that around the earth, it is not totally flat. On sufficiently large scales the curvature can be quitepronounced, such as the whole universe being possibly curved into a (hyper)sphere, or around a black hole where things appear to curve the wrong way because the curvature is so extreme.
Diagrams I've found while roaming around show a pit, for lack of a better term, in space.
The pit is space. This is a very common misconception with depictions of space(time). The pit shows that space is being stretched and distorted (by some mass such as a planet, star, black hole, etc)
To me, that means that there's a literal fabric.
Yes, in quite a close sense, space(time) is a fabric.