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crashfrog Member (Idle past 1496 days) Posts: 19762 From: Silver Spring, MD Joined: |
In this instance we have an atheist who had a belief for less than 3 hours before being corrected and can't change his point of view when confronted with evidence. What evidence? You've merely asserted after the fact that I was mistaken in how I interpreted your words. But I believe I was not, and that you are making that assertion falsely because you wish to backpedal from a position you adopted without thinking about it. So, I don't believe you. What evidence can you provide that actually supports your assertion that you meant something other than what you said?
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crashfrog Member (Idle past 1496 days) Posts: 19762 From: Silver Spring, MD Joined: |
If my opponent still feels there is deceit and misrepresentation, then he needs to provide evidence of such intent. I have provided the evidence; it's the difference between what you said, and what you later insisted you had actually meant.
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crashfrog Member (Idle past 1496 days) Posts: 19762 From: Silver Spring, MD Joined: |
I provided the evidence in Message 1 of this thread. No, you only provided the assertion.
I didn't mean something other than what I said. So you say, but I continue to not believe you.
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crashfrog Member (Idle past 1496 days) Posts: 19762 From: Silver Spring, MD Joined: |
Even PaulK in Message 264 and Bailey in Message 42 agree that I was responding to the question and not the paragraph. And I explained how their interpretation was necessarily in error. If you had replied to the question and not tot he paragraph, you would not have quoted the paragraph and then replied to it. Because your reply follows the paragraph and not the question, I'm able to determine that you were replying to the paragraph and not the question. If you quoted the paragraph by mistake, that's fine; I'm willing to concede that your actions cause you to have said something other than what you intended. Of course, if that's the case, it looks a little suspicious that you waited so long to try to address the confusion you caused. I do genuinely think it's possible for us to arrive at a resolution of this disagreement but it's going to have to be based on you, overcoming your irrational unwillingness to admit that I'm right about something.
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crashfrog Member (Idle past 1496 days) Posts: 19762 From: Silver Spring, MD Joined: |
On this board, we don't have to separate individual sentences. On this board, replies to material follow the quoted material, and that's the format that I expected you were following because that's the format you have always followed, and continue to follow even in this thread.
Your explanation is evidence of why you misunderstood my response. Are you saying that you accidentally responded to the paragraph instead of to the question? If that's the case, I can accept that your mistake caused you to pretty substantially misrepresent your own position. If that's the case, though, why did you wait so long to correct the obvious misunderstanding?
They would contradict each other. I don't perceive them as being in any particular contradiction; I perceive one as an unsuccessful attempt to clarify the other. It is, frankly, not uncommon for you to unintentionally say things that are contradictory or simply unclear. Poor or unclear writing is hardly uncharacteristic of you.
Remember, I'm the author of what I wrote. So what? That doesn't place you in any particularly privileged seat when it comes to what you meant, and it certainly doesn't obligate me to take your assertions about what you meant at face-value or privilege them ahead of what you actually said.
Why do you refuse to believe that I responded to the question? Because you replied to the paragraph. Ergo, you responded to the paragraph. If you did so by mistake I'm prepared to accept that, but it leaves unexplained why you allowed the discussion to continue for so long on the basis of the obvious misunderstanding you'd caused. Surely it was immediately obvious that I was replying to you as though you'd replied to the paragraph and not to the question?
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crashfrog Member (Idle past 1496 days) Posts: 19762 From: Silver Spring, MD Joined: |
Then that means that she *had* to be saying that "There's not a lot of competition for Christianity anymore, at least not among polytheistic religions. That's the reason that the passage in Jeremiah is interpreted, in modern theology, to refer to not letting shallow material concerns, like wealth, power, prestige, or influence, supersede more important spiritual concerns" was the appropriate way to consture it? Yes. Because "I think that's an appropriate way to construe it" is a sentence that signals agreement with whatever was just said. Just like if you said:
quote: and then I replied
quote: You would be correct in interpreting me as indicating agreement. "I think that's an appropriate way to construe it" is a sentence that clearly indicates agreement. If PD had really meant to reply to the question in the negative, she would have written a negative sentence that followed the question, not a positive sentence that followed a paragraph.
How could you possibly be so confident unless you had the ability to read her mind? Because I have the ability to read her words. What she actually wrote is much more reliable guide to what she meant when she wrote it than anything she has later to say about what she meant when she wrote it. If she genuinely made an error in expressing her intent, that's fine. If that really happened I've stated several times that I'm prepared to accept it. But, she's adamant that she said exactly what she intended to say. Thus, I'm forced to reject her subsequent insistence that I've somehow misinterpreted her. She said what she intended to say - by her own admission! - and what she said was that she agreed with how I'd construed the passage.
Seriously, how the hell not? Because it's not. The author dies as soon as he writes. The person you were when you wrote something isn't the person you are, now, to later talk about writing it. The author's statements of intention are really irrelevant to the interpretation of the text. Seriously, I can't be the only one here trained in literary criticism, can I? You've honestly never heard of the Intentional Fallacy?
quote: Reasons for not committing the Intentional Fallacy:
quote: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intentional_Fallacy Now, we're not talking about poetry, here, but we are interpreting language. Thus it's clear that committing the Intentional Fallacy - as PD would have us do - actually leads us away from the true meaning of what they meant. It's not a guide to the meaning of what people are saying to take their stated intentions into account; it actually conceals what they may have meant.
Seriously, how can you possible think that you know more about what a person meant than the person who actually wrote it? Because I'm not committing the Intentional Fallacy, but they are. Just because you wrote something, doesn't give you any particular insight into what it meant when you wrote it. Obviously.
You *are* a arrogant jerk. Not in the least. I'm continually surprised by this insistence that I'm somehow arrogant. I hardly know anything at all - I'm just a lot less credulous, apparently, than you. But I'm continually suspicious of my own ability to accurately apprehend things. That's why I insist on good evidence for things I believe are true and don't simply take people's word for things. Edited by crashfrog, : No reason given. Edited by crashfrog, : No reason given.
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crashfrog Member (Idle past 1496 days) Posts: 19762 From: Silver Spring, MD Joined: |
And just to add to this, I believe I'm particular right in this view because it's what we're asked to do by the Forum Guidelines:
quote: Argue the position, not the person. In this case, preoccupation with the person - with their intent - leads us away from the positions. And it's the positions we're asked to address, not the person.
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crashfrog Member (Idle past 1496 days) Posts: 19762 From: Silver Spring, MD Joined: |
That's the format I followed. That's correct. You quoted material, and then you replied to that material. You quoted a paragraph and then you replied to that paragraph. So I was correct in how I originally interpreted you.
No. So you intentionally responded to the paragraph instead of to the question.
As a supposed English Major and science guy, you know better than that. Um, this is precisely what I was instructed as an English major - how to interpret text without preoccupation with author biography. As I've just explained to CS what I was instructed in as an English major was not to commit the Intentional Fallacy, as you are now asking me to do.
You still haven't shown that a long period of time has passed. My recollection is that several posts over several days elapsed in between my reply indicating that I had interpreted you as assenting to a paragraph instead of contradicting a question and your first insistence that I had "misrepresented" you, and that your insistence that I misrepresented you began only when I showed you how positions you had indicated assent to had directly contradicted the position you opened the thread to defend.
(Even though I quoted the whole paragraph, I bet you can tell which sentence I'm actually replying to.) You're responding to the paragraph. When you want to answer questions, you quote only the question - as you've done in this very post:
crash writes:
Are you saying that you accidentally responded to the paragraph instead of to the question?
PD writes: No.
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crashfrog Member (Idle past 1496 days) Posts: 19762 From: Silver Spring, MD Joined: |
PaulK, I don't see how your "findings" can be accurate. Message 27 and 28 were posted on May 5th; the first time that PD accuses me of having "misunderstood" her remarks is Message 40, which was posted May 8th.
That's an elapsed period of three days, or "several days" as I said. I'm correct in how I've construed the exchange.
You apparently refer to your misinterpretation implicitly in Message 30 - but not specifying even which of Purpledawn's posts you were referring to This is inaccurate; the post clearly specifies that it was a reply to Message 29. It's right there at the bottom.
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crashfrog Member (Idle past 1496 days) Posts: 19762 From: Silver Spring, MD Joined: |
When we look at the exchange summed up in Message 19, we see that messages 27-31 are all on May 5 which is also the day you first entered the discussion. So your recollection is incorrect. You jump in, screwed up, and were corrected all in the same day. Your first "correction" - that is, the time when you began to falsely claim that I had misrepresented you - is Message 40, posted three days after the initial exchange. PaulK's summary is doubly incorrect. So, again - if there was a genuine misrepresentation why did it take you three days to correct it?
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crashfrog Member (Idle past 1496 days) Posts: 19762 From: Silver Spring, MD Joined: |
For example, in the post in question, PD was responding to the first line and not the paragraph that followed it. So she says. I don't believe her, and it's obvious from the text that she's not.
It was simply an error in your interpretation. But I've made no error, as I've explained. Thus "crashfrog made an error" can't be the explanation.
I do think that her reply was worded badly, badly formatted, and even a little bit ambiguous, but its very obvious what she intended to say. You're right - it's very obvious that she intended to agree with me that the modern interpretation of the verse, as I described, was "appropriate." I mean, who could possibly disagree with that? Why would anyone believe the converse? That's just idiotic.
Ergo, no confession has ever been used in court because the defendant must be a different person than the one that confessed. You're half right - courts interpret written confessions according to what they say on paper, not what the defendant says about what he meant when he wrote it. When you provide a written confession to the court, guess how much credence you're given when you later come back and say "Uh, oops, I guess there was some kind of misunderstanding - I didn't actually intend to confess to murder on paper, I thought I was writing a crime story from the perspective of the murderer!" None at all, typically. Even in cases where that might actually be true - where police genuinely have tricked or manipulated people, particularly those with cognitive impairments, into writing false confessions. The power of the written word is stronger than the author's testaments. The Intentional Fallacy is almost always a fallacy.
You think that your interpretation of some words somebody pecked into a text box is more accurate than their own explanation of what they meant and where you went wrong. Yes! Now you're getting it. After all, they could simply be lying - particularly when they refuse to take any responsibility at all for how they caused a misunderstanding, if indeed one occurred.
You think that you are right and that there's no possible way that you could be wrong about this. There's every possible way I could be wrong about this, which is why ever since PD came up with this "misunderstanding" nonsense, I've tried to go back and re-read her comments in the light of her testament that I got it wrong. But it just doesn't track. Every time I do I'm like "um, no, just doesn't work - there's just no way she didn't mean 'That's an appropriate way to construe it.'" That's a signal phrase for agreement, regardless of PD's later self-serving testament to the contrary. I mean I had her pretty much boxed in on her own words. Of course she'd come back with some nonsense about how I'd misrepresented her. That's what you people always do when I catch you in a contradiction.
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crashfrog Member (Idle past 1496 days) Posts: 19762 From: Silver Spring, MD Joined: |
The first correction was in Message 31. Uh, no. There's no mention of any "misunderstanding" in message 31, and the message indicates your continued agreement:
quote: Rather than being a correction, Message 31 simply continues our accord on the appropriate interpretation of the passage.
Since I didn't know what words of mine gave you that idea You knew exactly what words of yours gave me that idea, because not only did you write them, I quoted them back to you when you asked me where you had said what you said. If a misunderstanding had occurred it was apparent long before the three days you waited to tell me I was in the wrong.
It's on the record. You're right, it is. So how is it that you're getting it so wrong?
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crashfrog Member (Idle past 1496 days) Posts: 19762 From: Silver Spring, MD Joined: |
Your response Message 28 does not address that part of Purpledawn's post at all. Why would it? If I told you I agreed with you about something that you thought was in dispute, why would you do anything but take it as given and then continue on to the next part of your argument? If you said "well, I'm glad you agree!" I would conclude you were a condescending ass. It's kind of rude, frankly.
So, we have to look for the message where you tell Purpledawn how you interpreted Message 27. That's clearly message 28, which is obviously intended as a reply to message 27. It says so at the bottom.
So now I've repeated it a third time, now do you understand ? I have no trouble understanding it, PaulK, you're just wrong. Do you understand how, now that you've been corrected twice?
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crashfrog Member (Idle past 1496 days) Posts: 19762 From: Silver Spring, MD Joined: |
It is a question of when Purpledawn learned of your misinterpretation of message 27. It would be in message 28, the direct reply, where it was clear that I interpreted her as indicating assent. And then, as if that wasn't clear enough, there was message 30, still on May 5th:
quote: And then if that wasn't enough, when she tried to backpedal from her initial agreement on the issue, still on the 5th, I said:
quote: And then finally on the 9th (sorry, it's the 9th rather than the 8th as I mistakenly said earlier) she replies to this message by indicating that I've "misinterpreted" her remarks:
quote: Four days later? What took so long if this was a "misunderstanding"? If it was a misunderstanding it certainly should have been clear on the 5th, when I directly told her how I was interpreting her remarks and which remarks I was interpreting. Four days to come up with "oh, this is all your fault and your misinterpretation"? That's what it looks like when someone is casting about for an excuse to justify a major backpedal, not what it looks like when someone says to themselves "wow, how did I get misunderstood so completely? Oh, I see - haha, what a goof! Here's what I really meant." Instead I'm "on notice" despite the fact that this is literally the first time she's suggested that anything has been "misinterpreted." Of course, it's not the first time PD has wrongfully accused me of it so should I be surprised that it's her first recourse when she realizes she can't dig herself out of this hole? And, of course she has to open this thread about it, because she's committed to it. She can't possibly agree that she's backpedaling or even that she spoke ambiguously because she's committed herself to this line of attack. She's stuck. Obviously. I can't for the life of me see how any other interpretation makes sense. I've been charitable enough to extend the olive branch and allow PD to simply admit she spoke ambiguously and caused the misunderstanding, but even that was rebuffed. Because it's personal for her. She needs Crashfrog's head on her mantlepiece, at this point. She's even admitted it.
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crashfrog Member (Idle past 1496 days) Posts: 19762 From: Silver Spring, MD Joined: |
I see, because I didn't actually use the word misunderstanding. Wow, you got me there. My bad. If it's your belief that you can communicate concepts without using the words that would indicate those concepts, that might be an explanation for how your writing style causes substantial misunderstandings of your intended meaning. So, I accept your apology and your promise to improve on it in the future. After all, the fact that you've neither used the words "apology" or "I intend to improve on it in the future" shouldn't be interpreted as indicating that you're neither apologizing nor promising to improve, right?
That is correction. No, it's just you claiming not to have said something that you said. You're neither the first nor the last to do so, and it's not a "correction" it's an attempt to mislead. People do it all the time. I've even done it, and imagine the egg on my face when people throw my own words back up at me. They're right to do so, but man is it humiliating. I understand the humiliation you must have felt and therefore the temptation to ride this "crashfrog misinterprets things" train. But it's not working. People can see that you simply tried to backpedal out of it and got caught, and they know that when I do genuinely make errors I take responsibility for them and correct myself. PaulK knows it because I recently had to do so to him in another thread. Jar and Jon know that I do it because I've sought correction from the two of them recently as well. It's time for you to take responsibility as well, and admit either that your language imprecision led to this misunderstanding or that you actually got cornered in an argument and tried to talk your way out. I promise I'm not going to hold either against you. If you want we'll never even talk about it again. I really don't care about anything except you discontinuing your shame-driven personal vendetta against me. Edited by crashfrog, : No reason given.
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