MT, in my humble, fallible mortal moderator opinion, that thread is history: I won't reopen it.
I recommend that the topic be recast as a PNT without the personal elements. Threads focused on a participant's personal conduct or style almost always turn into a donnybrook.
Surely some clever member can pose the essential question in the abstract or hypothetical, so that every disagreement will not be perceived as a personal attack, and every parry a thrust.