Hadn't noticed this thread until today, and reading the recent exchanges about rape I wondered how this thread began. Reading from page one I came across your post where you say:
Phat writes:
Its not normal to want to indulge in anal sex. The Reverend was probably raped as a youngster...probably by a man.
There are more things (far, far more things) in normality than are dreamt of in your philosophy. Give the
Sex is Fun Podcasts ("dedicated to a rational discussion of human sexuality") a listen and expand your horizons. Given where you're starting from, prepare to be shocked and appalled by what is normal. There's more to sex than Dr. Ruth ever let on! Enjoy!
--Percy