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Phat
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Message 46 of 76 (911205)
06-18-2023 2:16 PM
Reply to: Message 45 by Tangle
06-18-2023 3:38 AM


Re: Two Sides To A Coin
Tangle writes:
You don't don't seem to realise that it's your fundamentalist, right-wing beliefs that allow you to behave this way. Real Christians are none of those things are they?
Of course they are. In fact, all people are sinners. Do you see any exceptions in yourself or others? We all have flaws.

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Tangle
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Message 47 of 76 (911206)
06-18-2023 2:25 PM
Reply to: Message 46 by Phat
06-18-2023 2:16 PM


Re: Two Sides To A Coin
Phat writes:
Of course they are. In fact, all people are sinners. Do you see any exceptions in yourself or others? We all have flaws.
Sin is a stupid Christian concept, there's no such thing. There are only right and wrong ways to behave in a particular society in a particular time.
But that said, I'm talking about fundamental right wing Christianity - that gives you the right to be a bigoted total arsehole to people who aren't exactly like you.

Je suis Charlie. Je suis Ahmed. Je suis Juif. Je suis Parisien. I am Mancunian. I am Brum. I am London. Olen Suomi Soy Barcelona. I am Ukraine.

"Science adjusts it's views based on what's observed.
Faith is the denial of observation so that Belief can be preserved."
- Tim Minchin, in his beat poem, Storm.


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Message 48 of 76 (911207)
06-18-2023 2:42 PM
Reply to: Message 46 by Phat
06-18-2023 2:16 PM


Re: Two Sides To A Coin
Tangle writes:
You don't don't seem to realise that it's your fundamentalist, right-wing beliefs that allow you to behave this way. Real Christians are none of those things are they?
Of course they are. In fact, all people are sinners. Do you see any exceptions in yourself or others? We all have flaws.
That's the wrong take on what Tangle is saying.
Yes, of course nobody is perfect and everybody has done wrong. In the wake of the 1970 Jesus Freak Movement (where I received my fundamentalist education -- not indoctrination), there was a bumper sticker: "I'm not perfect, just Forgiven."
Tangle's point centers around the next step: We're not perfect, so what are we going to do about it? We all know the situation (which is normal--all fouled up), but what's the solution (which question would include whether we should even seek a solution)? Just saying "We all have flaws" only serves to rationalize the problem and to avoid having to deal with it.
Our response to that problem should at the very least be to try to do better. The common expectation for religions like Christianity is that they provide guidelines and motivation for doing better. Our observations show that the "true Christianity" being pushed by fundamentalists/evangelicals/conservative-Christians/etc not only fails to have its followers do better or even address the problem, but it even promotes the exact opposite as it motivates its followers to do far worse things. Indeed, their theology teaches them that they can justify the most horrendous acts as long as it's "because they luuuuuv Jesus", plus they are guaranteed being forgiven completely for whatever evil they commit in Jesus' name, especially since Jesus hates the same things and people that they do (funny how that always works, isn't it?).
That is what Tangle is challenging you on while you just stand there making weak excuses. If your religion cannot guide nor motivate you to try to be and do better (and indeed motivates you to do worse), then what good is it?

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Phat
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Message 49 of 76 (911208)
06-18-2023 3:20 PM
Reply to: Message 44 by nwr
06-17-2023 7:27 PM


Re: Two Sides To A Coin
nwr writes:
I've been bothered by this since yesterday. Perhaps it explains why you (i.e. Phat) often seem confused. Perhaps it explains why conservative Christianity seems so unchristian.
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Belief doesn't work like that. Or, at least, it doesn't work like that for me.
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For me, any belief is tentative and subject to possible revision. And a belief needs to be looked at and re-examined when there is conflicting information.
What is so conflicting about admitting the need of a higher power? What is so conflicting about observing that ALL do indeed sin? If you have a valid fear about "turning conservative" these are not the beliefs that would do that to you.
We can't simply lay it all at the Apostles feet in a progressive secular party. Without God, no one can trust the Apostles. Unless of course you get rid of original sin and tell people to be free to act and behave as they want. (Sounds like a liberating idea but i'm not buying it)

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Message 50 of 76 (911209)
06-18-2023 4:12 PM
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06-18-2023 3:20 PM


Re: Two Sides To A Coin
Phat in Message 49 writes:
What is so conflicting about admitting the need of a higher power?
You don't "need" a higher power. It should be sufficient to resolve to do better.
If you have a valid fear about "turning conservative" these are not the beliefs that would do that to you.
I have no such fear. Conservatism is absurd.
As Jesus said (paraphrasing a little): it is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle, than for a conservative to enter the kingdom.
"Original sin" is absurd theology.

--> -->Fundamentalism - the anti-American, anti-Christian branch of American Christianity <-- <--

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Theodoric
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Message 51 of 76 (911214)
06-18-2023 10:30 PM
Reply to: Message 49 by Phat
06-18-2023 3:20 PM


Re: Two Sides To A Coin
Define sin.

What can be asserted without evidence can also be dismissed without evidence. -Christopher Hitchens

Facts don't lie or have an agenda. Facts are just facts

"God did it" is not an argument. It is an excuse for intellectual laziness.

If your viewpoint has merits and facts to back it up why would you have to lie?


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Message 52 of 76 (911216)
06-19-2023 5:05 AM
Reply to: Message 51 by Theodoric
06-18-2023 10:30 PM


Re: Two Sides To A Coin
Define sin.
Sin is anything you do that violates my subjective moral code, ie, putting lemon in Earl Grey tea.

Stop Tzar Vladimir the Condemned!

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Percy
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Message 53 of 76 (911220)
06-19-2023 9:56 AM
Reply to: Message 49 by Phat
06-18-2023 3:20 PM


Re: Two Sides To A Coin
Phat writes:
nwr writes:
And a belief needs to be looked at and re-examined when there is conflicting information.
What is so conflicting about admitting the need of a higher power? What is so conflicting about observing that ALL do indeed sin? If you have a valid fear about "turning conservative" these are not the beliefs that would do that to you.
The only thing your answer has in common with nwr's statement is the word "conflicting." He's saying that if you have a religious belief that is contradicted by other information then that belief needs to be re-examined.
If you personally need to believe in a higher power, that's one thing. If you're asserting that there is a higher power that is the Christian God, that's another thing, one for which there is an enormous amount of conflicting information. Nwr is saying that in light of this conflicting information that your belief should be re-examined.
We can't simply lay it all at the Apostles feet in a progressive secular party. Without God, no one can trust the Apostles.
And without Harry Potter there would be no books and movies. Ideas about God have been changing since the beginning of mankind. They're just stories we tell ourselves and that some people actually believe, some to the point of using them as the reason for mistreatment of other human beings, such as striking their children.
Unless of course you get rid of original sin and tell people to be free to act and behave as they want. (Sounds like a liberating idea but i'm not buying it)
Original sin has about as much reality as Harry Potter's cloak of invisibility. You are living within imaginary walls of your own construction.
--Percy

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Phat
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Message 54 of 76 (911223)
06-19-2023 12:48 PM
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06-19-2023 5:05 AM


Re: Two Sides To A Coin
Sin is quite simply indulging your carnal nature, acting selfishly, being afraid of competing with other cultures which might lower your standard of living and force you to work harder, sin is thinking of yourself before others, sin is paraphrased by the satanists as "Do As Thou Wilt". For believers, sin goes against their conscience in communion with God as absolute authority. In essence, sin challenges authority. Sin tears down culture as moral absolutes diminish and disappear.
I challenge godless authority because I mistrust progressive intentions. They seek to control my money and force me to give mandatorily my share as determined by them.
Ive prayed about my flaws before, and it may well be that I am sinning by fighting progressives. I refuse to submit to the authority, however.

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Tangle
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Message 55 of 76 (911224)
06-19-2023 1:05 PM
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06-19-2023 12:48 PM


Re: Two Sides To A Coin
Phat writes:
I refuse to submit to the authority, however.
Done much jail time?

Je suis Charlie. Je suis Ahmed. Je suis Juif. Je suis Parisien. I am Mancunian. I am Brum. I am London. Olen Suomi Soy Barcelona. I am Ukraine.

"Science adjusts it's views based on what's observed.
Faith is the denial of observation so that Belief can be preserved."
- Tim Minchin, in his beat poem, Storm.


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Phat
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Message 56 of 76 (911226)
06-19-2023 3:21 PM
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06-19-2023 1:05 PM


Re: Two Sides To A Coin
By authority, I meant a populist globalist-leaning government whose military-industrial complex feeds the wars for the stated purpose of improving a lot of humanity but whose agenda leaves the United States itself with a declining middle class, a growing nation of shoplifters and thieves, crumbling infrastructure and ever-growing inflation while we pump money overseas to defend democracy for the rest of the world. I won't see any jail time for that, any more than the shoplifters will after a defunded police have no teeth left to hold them accountable.

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Theodoric
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Message 57 of 76 (911228)
06-19-2023 8:04 PM
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06-19-2023 3:21 PM


Re: Two Sides To A Coin
Where have police been defended? Everything else sounds like the Republican Party.

What can be asserted without evidence can also be dismissed without evidence. -Christopher Hitchens

Facts don't lie or have an agenda. Facts are just facts

"God did it" is not an argument. It is an excuse for intellectual laziness.

If your viewpoint has merits and facts to back it up why would you have to lie?


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Message 58 of 76 (911229)
06-19-2023 8:20 PM
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06-19-2023 3:21 PM


Topic Reminder
If you're going to rant, could you at least do it in the right thread? This thread is about The Discipline of Conservative Christian Children.
--Percy

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Message 59 of 76 (911230)
06-19-2023 8:24 PM
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06-19-2023 12:48 PM


Re: Two Sides To A Coin
They seek to control my money and force me to give mandatorily my share as determined by them.
"Render unto Caesar that which is Caesar's" - some filthy hippie a couple thousand years ago.

It's not enough to bash in heads, you've got to bash in minds
soon I discovered that this rock thing was true
Jerry Lee Lewis was the devil
Jesus was an architect previous to his career as a prophet
All of a sudden i found myself in love with the world
And so there was only one thing I could do
Was ding a ding dang my dang along ling long - Jesus Built my Hotrod Ministry
Live every week like it's Shark Week! - Tracey Jordan
Just a monkey in a long line of kings. - Matthew Good
If "elitist" just means "not the dumbest motherfucker in the room", I'll be an elitist! - Get Your War On
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Theodoric
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Message 60 of 76 (911231)
06-19-2023 10:28 PM
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06-19-2023 12:48 PM


Re: Two Sides To A Coin
Care to state anything about the topic?

What can be asserted without evidence can also be dismissed without evidence. -Christopher Hitchens

Facts don't lie or have an agenda. Facts are just facts

"God did it" is not an argument. It is an excuse for intellectual laziness.

If your viewpoint has merits and facts to back it up why would you have to lie?


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