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Author Topic:   German judge rules child circumcision as child abuse.
crashfrog
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Message 114 of 410 (666788)
06-29-2012 5:30 PM
Reply to: Message 112 by ringo
06-29-2012 5:27 PM


Re: Should be outlawed
I think it does.
Well, try to use some peyote for a religious purpose and find out if it does.

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Message 122 of 410 (666802)
06-29-2012 6:20 PM
Reply to: Message 115 by Jon
06-29-2012 5:31 PM


Re: Should be outlawed
The burden of evidence is on you to demonstrate why the family and the doctors should have some thirdunaffectedparty telling them what decisions to make.
Because of society's interest in protecting the child from the bad decisions of parents and doctors.
I think your views on the modern procedure for circumcisions are seriously out of whack with reality.
But circumcisions aren't always done according to the "modern" procedure, now are they? Mohels, even in the present day, suck the infant's penis.

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Message 123 of 410 (666804)
06-29-2012 6:27 PM
Reply to: Message 117 by ringo
06-29-2012 5:49 PM


Re: Should be outlawed
That's an exception, based on America's insane fear of any drug that doesn't benefit big corporations.
How is it an exception? It wasn't ruled as an exception; it was ruled as a completely unexceptional application of the wide-ranging principle that there's not a universal religious freedom exemption to following the law.
As a general rule, religious practices are protected.
Except where they violate the law, or violate someone else's religious freedom. What about the right of the infant to practice his own religion, which might be the Christianity of First Corinthians, or Catholicism? Or another religion that is opposed to the practice of circumcision? Why do the parents have the right to obstruct another adult's religious freedom in that way, via a surgical mutilation as an infant?

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crashfrog
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Message 124 of 410 (666806)
06-29-2012 6:28 PM
Reply to: Message 118 by ringo
06-29-2012 5:55 PM


Re: Should be outlawed
You claimed that, "we don't allow parents to violate the integrity of their children's bodies, in permanent ways, on those bases." I pointed out that we do.
And when we stop, we won't. It's a perfectly circular argument.

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crashfrog
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Message 128 of 410 (666814)
06-29-2012 6:55 PM
Reply to: Message 127 by ringo
06-29-2012 6:44 PM


Re: Should be outlawed
The parents have the right, by proxy as it were, to make those decisions for the child until he/she is deemed capable of making those decisions him/herself.
But they're making it even when he's deemed capable of making it himself; circumcision is permanent. A circumcised infant is eventually a circumcised adult. Thanks to his parents, he can't ever decide to have his original foreskin not be circumcised. It's the rights of the adult being infringed upon, as well as the rights of the infant. What rights do the parents have to infringe on the religious expression of their adult son?

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crashfrog
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Message 197 of 410 (666936)
07-01-2012 12:44 PM
Reply to: Message 166 by Buzsaw
06-30-2012 9:51 PM


Re: Yada Responses
Divine revelation, since the eighth day would require nothing.
Or just some shaman noticed how old boys usually were when most of them survived the procedure.

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crashfrog
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Message 198 of 410 (666937)
07-01-2012 12:48 PM
Reply to: Message 178 by Jon
07-01-2012 9:50 AM


Re: A history: the masturbation and fear of sexuality angle.
This thread's discussion has to do with whether a parent should have the right to make medical decisions for their child.
Sure. And the legal principle at work is that parents have this right only when the decisions they make are in the best interest of their child. When a parent makes a medical decision to deny their child lifesaving care, or to reject evidence-based medicine for quackery, or submit their child to invasive surgery for nothing but cosmetic reasons, our society can and often does overrule the decision of the parent; parents have even lost custody of their children outright for making these decisions.
The question is whether parents are entitled to make bad medical decisions for their child, and the answer is "no." They're not so entitled. Children are not the property of their parents; they're individual citizens of our society and they're entitled to have society advocate for their interests, even when that advocacy might overrule a decision a parent has made.

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crashfrog
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Message 199 of 410 (666938)
07-01-2012 12:51 PM
Reply to: Message 180 by Jon
07-01-2012 10:36 AM


Re: A history: the masturbation and fear of sexuality angle.
It's about whether parents have the right.
And they don't. We allow parents to make decisions on behalf of their children when it's in the child's best interest for them to do so. We don't allow parents to decide things for their children because parents own children, or have an inherent right to make decisions for another human being just based on the accident of heredity.
Parental decisions are subject to an overriding "child's best interest" criterion. So the question is whether circumcision is in the child's interest; you've only ever tried to argue that it's in the parent's interest.

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crashfrog
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Message 209 of 410 (666948)
07-01-2012 2:05 PM
Reply to: Message 205 by Jon
07-01-2012 1:46 PM


Re: A history: the masturbation and fear of sexuality angle.
And parents have the right to determine whether circumcision is in the best interest of the child.
Not unilaterally. Society has a right to advocate in the child's interest as well.
Until you can demonstrate that circumcision is a 'bad' medical decision, then I'm afraid your point is completely lost.
It's been demonstrated. Medical professionals came right out on the record and stated that it was a bad medical decision. At such time as you'd like to respond to that argument, it awaits you.
Then what is the point of having parents if their only role is to pass on society's agendas to their children?
Seriously? I have to explain the concept of reproduction to an adult? You see, when a man and a woman love each other very much...
Do parents have any meaningful right in determining how their children are raised?
Absolutely! But that right is not unilateral; it's contingent on parents making decisions in the child's best interest. When parents make decisions that are not in the child's best interest, society may step in and overrule that decision. If a parent demonstrates a pattern of making those decisions, parental custody can be terminated outright.

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Message 273 of 410 (667039)
07-02-2012 3:23 PM
Reply to: Message 268 by ringo
07-02-2012 1:45 PM


Re: A history: the masturbation and fear of sexuality angle.
And the child's best interest is placed in the hands of the parents.
But it's not solely determined by them. Parents don't get to unilaterally decide what's in the child's best interest. They're the first, but not sole, advocate for the interests of the child. But we intervene when they fail to do so.
Unless there is a compelling reason to override their decisions, we don't step onto that slippery slope.
Nonsense. We step into that slope at the drop of a hat. CPS gets wind that you like science fiction novels? Be prepared for a home visit that puts your custody rights in jeopardy. (That apparently happened to a fan of Piers Anthony's novels.) Or maybe a rumor gets started that you abuse prescription drugs - you may not even find out you're under investigation until your kids just don't come home one day, because they've been taken to a foster home. As a society we're never shy about intervening in the parent-child relationship in order to make sure everything is on the up-and-up - unless we're talking about a parent who wants to cut a piece of his son't dick off.
One of my circumcised brothers broke his arm when he fell off a fence, which is worse than any ill effects he's had from circumcision.
Really?
His foreskin grew back, did it?

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crashfrog
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Message 274 of 410 (667040)
07-02-2012 3:25 PM
Reply to: Message 272 by jar
07-02-2012 3:19 PM


Re: Culture
Perhaps, but we are not discussing female circumcision, infanticide, Chinese footbinding and much more, are we?
Despite your efforts, yes, we actually are discussing those, and other instances (such as male circumcision) where parents permanently disfigure their children.

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crashfrog
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Message 275 of 410 (667041)
07-02-2012 3:26 PM
Reply to: Message 267 by ringo
07-02-2012 1:28 PM


Two different doctors. One circumcised for medical reasons, the other didn't.
What "medical reason"? Please be specific.

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crashfrog
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Message 285 of 410 (667052)
07-02-2012 6:18 PM
Reply to: Message 277 by ringo
07-02-2012 3:41 PM


Re: A history: the masturbation and fear of sexuality angle.
I don't even know what CPS is.
Sorry, "Child Protective Services." That's what we usually call it down here; it's the state outfit that intervenes when parents aren't acting in the interests of their children (whatever the parents may think they're doing.)
In any case, my argument is that society shouldn't have that power over individual choice.
I don't see how it's "individual choice" when, perforce, we're talking about the choices being made by one person on behalf of another. The individual choice one has in circumcision is whether to have one's own penis circumcised. Making that choice on behalf of another, by definition, is no longer an "individual choice."
Ask him if he wants one now and he'll say, "What the hell for?"
For his penis, obviously. What else?

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crashfrog
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Message 286 of 410 (667053)
07-02-2012 6:20 PM
Reply to: Message 279 by Jon
07-02-2012 3:51 PM


Re: A history: the masturbation and fear of sexuality angle.
But reading science fiction novels and abusing prescription drugs isn't really the topic of this thread.
I didn't claim that it was. This is just your traditional practice of being disingenuous, unfortunately.
And the fact that these are currently 'acceptable' reasons for interfering in a parent's right to raise their child:
(a) doesn't make it right that they are 'acceptable' reasons, and
(b) doesn't mean infant circumcision should be added to the list of 'acceptable' reasons.
I didn't make any of these arguments, either. Try to keep up, Jon!

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crashfrog
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Message 287 of 410 (667054)
07-02-2012 6:22 PM
Reply to: Message 276 by jar
07-02-2012 3:28 PM


Re: Culture
I have never seen any evidence that male circumcision "disfigures" anyone.
See it with your own eyes, then. Where is the foreskin on the penis on the right?

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