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Rahvin
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Message 119 of 230 (387845)
03-03-2007 4:39 AM
Reply to: Message 117 by Hyroglyphx
03-03-2007 2:41 AM


Re: What countries? U.S. history.
No one forced them to get pregnant and no one forced them to shove sharp objects inside their cervix. So if you don't mind, please spare me the sympathetic hyperbole of the "horrors" of back alley abortions as if it were justification for the horrors of abortion.
...which totally ignores the possibility of rape.
Let's play a little game, shall we, NJ? Let's pretend you're a woman. In fact, let's pretend you're an innocent 14-year old girl.
Now let's imagine some monster, statistically likely to be a family member or at least someone you know and trust, rapes you. It's horrible, unimaginably frightening, and a dozen other things that essentially make it the absolute worst experience of your life, and an event that will traumatize you until the day you die.
And now you're pregnant. You can't possibly take care of the baby, and you would choose an abortion, but the new law makes that first degree murder - so that option is out.
For the next nine months, the child gestates. But that's not all that happens. Your body changes in response to the pregnancy, until you have to drop out of (at least regular) school to carry to term. Your educational future has now been significantly damaged, though it's still recoverable. You begin to experience morning sickness, which for many women essentially means 3-6 months of constantly being violently ill.
Keep in mind that every time you feel sick, every time the baby kicks, every time you are reminded that you are pregnant (which basically means "constantly"), you are also reminded of the event that caused all of this. The rape. The absolute worst experience of your young life.
Because your body was still undeveloped in the first place, a normal birth is impossible. A cesarian section is going to be necessary to remove the baby "safely." Because of the new law, you are now forced to undergo a major operation against your will. Being only 15 now, you are terrified of the procedure itself. The doctors prep you for surgery, and cut open your abdomen - a scary prospect even for more mature mothers who actually WANT their babies. As an added bonus, you get a scar for the rest of your life for an additional reminder.
This, of course, is all assuming everything goes well.
I don't know about you, but I find anyone who would force that on a rape victim to be a monster almost as bad as the rapist. Why, exactly, do you have the right to force someone under the knife over your personal beliefs, beliefs that are completely unsubstantiated by any form of evidence whatsoever? If you believe it's wrong...fine. If your wife agrees, she can feel free to not have an abortion. That does not give you the right to force others to fall in line with your unsupported beliefs.
The part that gets hazy for me is how someone can be so self-absorbed to actually murder their own child because of something that they are, at least in part, the causation for in the first place.
We like to think about sex as having no strings attached. Its enjoyable, so do it, kind of mentality. Morals aside, its history that tells us that sex has a tremendous responsibility. And should we view it flippantly, it proves that for every action, there is a reaction. Why are we surprised when the consequences come to light?
I'm disturbed by your outlook, NJ. The way you respond with this "you do the crime, you do the time" bullshit not only bypasses instances where there IS no choice involved, it ALSO treats pregnancy as a punishment for a crime. This is what Crash has been berating you over "slut-bashing" for. Pregnancy and childbirth SHOULD be celebrated, revered events. This is the case when pregnancy is actually desired. When it is not, and a person is forced to go through with a highly disruptive, painful, and often psychologically and physically harmful process just becasue they had sex and had some bad luck, or were raped...
Regarding the shoving of sharp implements into cervixes...you mean to tell me you have no sympathy for all of the women and girls who died because of these crazy procedures? You honestly think that by making abortion illegal again, forcing women desperate to abort to turn to butchers and coat hangers, is a good idea? The "baby," if you insist on calling it that, still dies, as does the mother. You don't save life at all. You kill more people with such an insane policy.
I've said it before in other threads, and I'll say it again in this one. Why not an adoption? I mean, that alleviates and absolves the mother of responsibility, yet she ends up doing the far more honorable, decent, and moral thing-- which is to allow an innocent the right to live as we do. This also gives a couple who can't conceive the chance to love a child the way the child deserves in a loving, symbiotic relationship the way families were designed to do. The birth mother is happy, the child will surely be happy, and the adopting parents are happy. In this scenario, its a win-win-win situation. With abortion, only the once prospective mother gets her way.
What say you?
Remember the game we just played? That's why. Even if we assume you give the rape-child up for adoption and don't have your life compeltely taken over by the unwanted child, even if we erase the rape part and just make this a normal, unwanted teen pregnancy, the process of pregnancy and childbirth can be extremely traumatic and invasive. You don't just squirt out the kid and hand it off.
And what about severe disabilities, NJ? Lets say that early in the pregnancy it is discovered that the baby has a severe genetic disorder. The child will never be capable of normal brain function. It can survice, but it will essentially be a vegetable for its entire life. In this case, forcing the pregnancy is a life sentence for the parents, and the child. The child has to "live" a miserable half-existance, and the parents are forced to devote their entire lives to caring for something that is incabable of loving them back. Caring for a disabled child can be very rewarding, if the choice is made voluntarily, but forcing such a thing is monstrous to all parties involved.

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Rahvin
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Message 202 of 230 (388188)
03-05-2007 5:05 AM
Reply to: Message 198 by Hyroglyphx
03-04-2007 9:14 PM


Re: What countries? U.S. history.
Rape and incest combined accounts for less than 1% of all abortions. And since conception does not occur instantaneously, there is enough time to take the morning-after-pill which will do nothing if the fertilization process has already begun or it will stop that implantation of a fertilized egg.
Well, at least you don't oppose the morning-after pill. Many of your contemporaries beleive it's exactly the same as abortion. Good for you. But the statistical rarity of incest/rape cases is irrelevant, for a couple of reasons. First, there is no requirement that a woman give a reason when she terminates a pregnancy, so the statistical data is incomplete at best. Second, you can't dismiss a scenario by simply saying "it doesn't happen often." That response certainly doesn't help the individuals it has happened to.
I read your whole scenario. I would place that child up for adoption.
And if I were a woman, that would likely be high on my list of options. But the point is that society has no right to force that victim to go through any further trauma. Every day of the pregnancy, even assuming the child is given up for adoption, simply prolongs the event for her with cosntant reminders. I wouldn't force that situation on anyone.
The mother gets a life sentence no matter what, Rahvin. Nothing is going to unrape her. So instead of making sure she gets a life sentence and the baby a death sentence, why not make tougher laws on the actual offenders instead of having these liberal judges who historically coddle these offenders. Why don't we try that?
We can't take away the rape, certainly, but we can allow her to decide for herself wheterh she wants to go through the emotional ringer of carrying the child to term. And please, don't change the subject. We are not discussing rape penalties. The rapist is obviously a monster, but changing his punishment will also not erase the event.
What do you think abortion entails? Its surgery. She has to "go under the knife" for certain if she opts for an abortion.
As Dan has already stated, abortion is not surgery. Drugs can terminate pregnancy, and if that's not possible, the more invasive forms still do not entail actual surgery. Unless you outlaw abortion - the butchers willing to "help" the desperate tend to have somewhat lesser medical skills, if you catch my meaning.
Well, you know, after a lot of thought, I've decided that all forms of murder really isn't that bad. And it pisses me off that I'm not allowed to kill people that get in my way, hindering my progress, and obstructing my life. I really wish people who don't like murder would just worry about themselves, you know? Who are they to push their morals on us? I mean, if they don't want to commit murders, fine. But I do. Shouldn't I have that right to slash whomever I want?
Stop me when you pick up on the sarcasm.
Come now. As I said, you have no evidence to back your assertion that abortion is murder. You have nothing that shows when the parasitic clump of cells becomes a human being. You have told us what you believe, but it is entirely predicated on your religious belief in a soul, and that this soul is implanted at contraception. There is no evidence for this. The embryo doesn't even have a brain for a significant amount of time.
sometimes people get pregnant when they don't intend to. Some people are financially or mentally stable to handle young children, especially young girls themselves. Fine. I got that. You aren't consigned to take care of this baby for the rest of their life. Give the baby up for adoption so EVERYONE gets to make out like bandits. Make sense? I suspect its been leaving everyone in an indefensible position which is why no one has responded to it.
Well, first off, you DO realize that many, many of the children currently up for adoption will never be adopted, don't you? Feeding more kids into the system will not help that situation.
But, since you can't demonstrate why terminating a pregnancy is murder, what gives you the right to tell a woman what to do with her own body?
Do you care about the girls who have died because an abortionist botched it and he ends up killing the girl because her infection at his hands turns into septic shock? Or do only care when somebody try's to do it themselves? As for me, of course I care. Here's my solution: Don't do it! Problem solved.
Wow. So now, only abortionists experience complications during medical procedures? As has already been shown, a woman is drastically less likely to die as a result of an abortion than she is during childbirth. This has been stated more than once during this thread. How can you possibly use such an idiotic "rationale?" I agree that "no medical procedure" is best, all thigns being equal. Unfortuantely, childbirth itself is also a medical procedure. One that kills statistically a far greater number of women than abortion.
I'm not forcing anyone to do anything, least of all jamming coat hangers inside their body. Buyt since every one is quite fond of making up erroneous things about me, I'm just going to go ahead and say that all the men responding to this negatively has an ulterior motive. Yeah, I don't think you give a whit for the women invilved. I think you want to keep abortion legal because that way you don't have to ever wear condoms, but you won't have to worry about paying child support.
Is that fair for me to assume? No, it isn't. So at anytime all the people slandering me can stop making up nonsense about how my dislike of abortion is because I'm really just a sexist who wants to shame sluts.
Well, you certainly don't seem to be aiming at saving lives. See, you haven't offered up any ways to reduce abortions aside from simply putting rape victims and others who want abortions in jail. Instead, you've given us a bunch of horseshit about "taking responsibility" and "selfish lifestyle choices." This obviously implies that you are stating "if you want to sleep around like a filthy whore, then you get to pay the price! The Lord God said He would greatly increase your pain at childbirth, slut!" Granted, I'm exaggerating, but the message is the same. You aren't making any statements relating to the saving of lives. You ignore evidence that legal abortions save lives, even the lives of babies if combined wuith a robust sexual education/free healthcare/free contraception policy. All you say is "you did the crime, you do the time." You equate pregnancy with soem sort of punishment, and it's disgusting.
And remember - abortions will be sought, legally or otherwise. If you make them illegal, all that remains are the illegal butchers. Women who would otherwise receive safe abortions from licensed doctors will isntead be performed by greedy idiots with steak knives and coat hangers. This is a large part of the reason abortion was made legal in the US and other countries. Criminalized abortion does result in more death.
Oh, I see... Pregnancy is invasive and traumatic, but abortion is skipping through a meadow of sunflowers.
As it is currently performed, abotion is less invasive, less painful, doesn't last nine months, has fewer side effects, fewer life effects, and a drastically lower chance of dying. Comparitively, yes, it's a walk in the fucking park.
For the record. Are you advocating the execution of the retarded? Give Hitler my regards.
No. I'm saying that the termination of a pregnancy where the "child" will possess no brain function before it is born should be left up to the parents, who will be forced to care for it. I am not supporting social Darwinism or eugenics. I am simply stating the state has no right to force the child to be carried to term. Just as the Nazis had no right to force sterilizations.
If the disease was so debilitating so to make life for that child absolute agony, I think legislation would consider that. But if we're talking about mental retardation, life is far from misery. In fact, the mentally retarded are, without a doubt, the happiest people on the planet. I feel zero remorse for them. In fact, all of humanity could learn alot from them. Its their parents that I feel bad for. But if they can't handle it, there are places they can go with people who will dutifully love and care for them.
Again, please read what I actually wrote. Mental retardation does not equate a persistant vegitative state. However, if a fetus were diagnosed with a genetic disorder that would, in fact, result in mental retardation, I still believe the choice should be left up to the parents, particularly the mother. Just like with any abortion.

Every time a fundy breaks the laws of thermodynamics, Schroedinger probably kills his cat.

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