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Silent H
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Message 277 of 302 (362007)
11-05-2006 7:48 PM
Reply to: Message 271 by berberry
11-05-2006 7:05 PM


AbE: Sorry to AdminPD I posted before I saw your note not to reply!
I never said there was no basis whatever for the comparison, I said that there's no way to use the comparison without it being insulting.
Okay, that is not quite how it was coming off, particularly when you brought up the concept of consent as to why they are different. But I get what you are saying above, and if that is what you meant then I stand corrected, except to say it sure wasn't clear to me.
But then I'd point out that I didn't feel particularly insulted and it involved two categories I am for giving marriage rights to (polygamy and homosexuals), one being one I wouldn;t mind being in. You have a right to voicing that you felt insulted by it (and feeling such), but I don't think it was meant that way, and NJ should probably be judged based on his intent rather than how his words might come off.
in 1900 you'd have made just as much sense to say "would you allow an ape to vote?" as a way of arguing against giving the vote to African-Americans
Actually I saw that in the mod thread and it really did make me think. Did that actually occur?
In any case, I believe there is a vast difference between asking would you allow an ape to vote, and what NJ asked.
The former is clearly a loaded insult, playing on stereotypes, to frighten people from allowing a group, normally regarded as human, full rights as such. It has no background argument about relativism leading to anything plausible, unless one believes monkeys will ask for the vote... in which I would say could they do any worse?
Behind NJs questions, which sound similar to the one you suggested, is the argument that if we introduce true relativism into legal practice regarding marriage there is no logical barrier to polygamy, marriage at all ages, and marriage to animals. It is a factual statement (there really would be no logical barrier) used as an emotional appeal to get people realizing they don't want relativist standards enforced in law.
Real people have asked for polygamy, marriage to minors (and in some cases have it already), as well as to animals (and where not marriage then sexual activity... in some places already having that right). Where denied they usually make the same case that gays do, to civil rights, and precedent of the repeal of anti-miscegenation laws or other civil rights gains by blacks.
It is intriguing that many blacks have found those comparisons (including gay marriage) insults to them and their civil rights work. My guess is people you just said you felt offended being compared to would feel the same as you would if a black person stated their offense at being compared to you.
Its not really an argument one way or the other, just a relative perspective thing.
This is a sticky situation and I realize easy for people to get offended. This'll probably be my last comment on the issue, unless you have something major to add.
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Silent H
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Message 289 of 302 (362080)
11-06-2006 4:53 AM
Reply to: Message 279 by nator
11-05-2006 8:50 PM


Re: Drugs
If there are universal morals or not is irrelevant to the discussion on gay marriage, IMO.
Are you kidding me? If you think NJ was simply discussing gay marriage then you were not reading this thread at all. He has been arguing about relativism. The topic is relativism. Up above he directly states again that he was talking about relativism.
I think its sort of sad that one can't discuss gay marriage in the context of discussing relativism, without having people react according to their current socio-political agenda.
I'd rather talk about reality than philosophical la-la lands.
I know what you mean by "consenting adult" but it is not reality, and just as much philosophical la la land as the "one drop rule" someone else might hold. Consenting can be defined many ways, so can adult. In fact when you speak of adult, there is no set acceptable concept of that across the US, much less the world. Both of these are relative concepts across the states. And abstraction, not a reality.
I might add that "consent" is simply a word of convenience for argument in order to arbitrarily eliminate things to do with minors, or I suppose animals too, which might involve sex. Obviously kids have wanted to get married so consent is not about "agreeing to". That's when it becomes informed consent. Yet the mentally handicapped can have as limited of informed consent as children and get married. Thus consent is not about mental capacity for understanding what is going on. So what is the definition of consent which knocks out kids but not the mentally disabled?
Animals are a whole other story. They don't have to give consent for anything else in life, including being butchered for food, so the idea that consent is what prevents them from being married is a bit of a stretch. The Owner can continue to live with the pet anyway for the rest of their life... without consent, and even have the animal killed just to be buried with them, without consent.
AbE: Assuming your argument was correct. As far as "consenting adult" is concerned, if you feel that it is a reality because it is in society, then NJ could easily ask what you don't understand about "consenting adults of opposite sex"? Indeed I would ask how that is not a greater reality. or how it does not countt as real to you since more people currently hold that concept regarding marriage than your more limited version. Isn't removing "of opposite sex" going to involve some sort of la la land discussion?
Please read Message 292 before responding and do not continue off topic.
AdminPD
Edited by holmes, : more important discussion assuming schraf is correct.
Edited by holmes, : emphasis on AbE
Edited by AdminPD, : Warning

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Silent H
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Message 291 of 302 (362083)
11-06-2006 5:12 AM
Reply to: Message 285 by Taz
11-06-2006 12:52 AM


he didn't call anyone dogs
I agree with your overall point on not interfering with gays getting all sorts of rights including that of marriage, however...
Oh, and stop calling gay people dogs.
This is really getting absurd. NJ didn't call anyone dogs. If anyone wants to get mad at least get mad for the right reason.
Or lets assume for a second you are right and that's what he meant. In that case he called more than just gays dogs. Why are you confining your criticism to just gays?
So now I suppose I should get all high and mighty and tell you to stop agreeing with NJ that polygamists and children are dogs.
OFF TOPIC - Please Do Not Respond to this message or continue in this vein. See Message 292.
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Edited by AdminPD, : Warning

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Silent H
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Message 294 of 302 (362111)
11-06-2006 8:24 AM
Reply to: Message 282 by Hyroglyphx
11-06-2006 12:40 AM


Re: absolute morality is all relative
Our posts are getting a little lengthy so I'll condense my reply to general points rather than go sentence by sentence...
1) Morality v Preference...
Morality is about choice and so synonymous with relative judgements of preference. There is no question that "tree is wrong" is not equivalent. But that's not what I said. The applicable analogy would be "Liking that tree is wrong", or "liking that tree more than this other tree, or more than the gods, is wrong".
Hence if ALL relatives can only exist because of an absolute truth, then the LIKING of chocolate over another flavour must be based on some absolute.
2) Morality v Habit...
I did not say that everyone was inherently honest. What I have been arguing is that each individual has an inclination to practice honesty to a certain degree, some more than others. That is aside from any moral imperative based on an external system.
Thus it is inaccurate to claim that without a belief in an absolute moral system one is more likely to be dishonest. First they may believe in a relative (external) personal code they should follow, and those who don't have such a code will STILL have personal habit... which may be for honesty.
It is not like people are generally chaotic in behavior, they tend to act in specific ways as is their personal nature. Then external moral, social, and legal systems are used to confine behavior further to an external ideal. A person's nature may be in tune or against any one or all of those systems, and an individual may attempt to submit to (or not) any of the above.
I personally do not believe or maintain moral codes, I am open to some social pressure but do not necessarily agree or obey all such, the same goes for laws. Thus I am never immoral (as that simply does not exist for me), but at times can be asocial, as well as criminal.
In the case of Haggard he clearly adopted a moral code, social norm, as well as legal code which were opposite his own nature and could not live up to any of those expectations. By his own accepted/stated definitions he is immoral, asocial, and criminal.
3) Laws and Morality...
Laws can be made based on morality, and clearly many have been. My only argument is that they need not be, including the usual biggies such as murder, theft, rape, etc.
You may discuss influences all you wish, but social contract assumes that LAW is made by people taking rights for themselves. This certainly CAN be done without having a concept of morality. For example I know I do not like pain and I know I want to live, hence whether it is right or wrong is irrelevant, I want to put into place laws which protect me from being killed. And it is not necessary to have experienced something to imagine it happening to onesself.
The fact that killers might try to hide what they have done means absolutely NOTHING about whether they feel any moral reality. Your use of this argument would not help you in the least. At times in history Xians have taken pains to hide what they were doing and thinking, when the practice of Xianity was outlawed. According to your theory Xians must have felt some moral reality that Xianity was bad.
In another post I raised the point that there were laws in support of slavery, against rights of various minorities, and now I will add against Xianity. What moral absolute were these driven by?
Likewise there are societies that did not have concepts of murder, much less legal charges, that are comparable to what you are discussing as universally understood. The Yanomamo allowed killings between tribes and to a great extent within them. IIRC they didn't even have laws to speak about, much less charges of murder. There were senses of loyalty and some killing of some people within one's group might elicit a reaction, but that is less than wrong because of having commited murder. Violence (as a sign of bravery and loyalty and power) was acceptable, including killing.
In feudal Japan some classes could kill at will. The idea of a specific killing being wrong at all would be wholly based on the situation and whether it defied/interfered with a specific command from above. Lying was also as undefined (perhaps more so) as murder. It was practically an artform. There was more to decry in tactless honesty, than cunning deceit (which could be honored even from one's enemy if it was clever enough).
4) Violence, Murder and Mayhem...
You posited several situations in an attempt to elicit a moral charge of right or wrong from me. You seem not to believe what I am telling you. You need to lift your moral goggles and try to understand what I am saying. Let us use the situation you encountered with the guy being shot then robbed.
According to my system of beliefs nothing within that was morally wrong. Such labels would be meaningless, beyond telling me what you personally like or dislike. Would I be viscerally shocked by a person being shot? Yes. Would I be repulsed by the choice of the shooters to gun him down and so want to defend him? It would depend on the situation. From what you described the answer would be yes. Would I be upset with someone taking money from him? Again it would depend on the situation, but from what you described yes I would.
In all cases I would find the actions criminal and generally act on them (or at least hope I would) based on their being criminal and the fact that I am part of that legal system which I want upheld so it would (I would hope) protect me when I am in that situation.
Visceral shock/disgust at the result of violence, personal distate with the choices others make, and engaging in the reciprocal/communal act of legal enforcment have NO inherent connection to any moral codes of right or wrong.
One can approach this situation from a different angle to watch morals fall away. Why was the man shot, and why was he robbed by those bystanders who would normally be expected to help?
In the case of the drive by, he was collateral damage for someone intending to do something beyond just pull a trigger... even if it was simply to engage in a show of bravery. Bush justified the deaths of how many wholly innocent Iraqis, as collateral damage just to make sure that people understood the US's word means something? That we would stand up against anyone who might possibly threaten us... even if they didn't actually do so. Scale is irrelevant, collateral damage is always the same. Are these wrong? Could you not find yourself in a situation where you might have to shoot someone and end up accidentally killing someone and consider it an acceptable loss? Morally okay, even if graphically repulsive, and not something you'd prefer to do bu habit, and understandably criminal according to some group?
How about the people that robbed the guy as he died? Perhaps they really needed money badly and in desperation they took the money (and what all) from a dying man. I am quite thankful that I have never known such desperation for money, but its quite possible that such a situation could arise. Couldn't it for you? Suppose they could help more with what they got than this person or anyone else, and so felt justified. Would it then be morally justified?
With all of these caveats the same actions would flit from moral to immoral. How can one judge what they are truly, outside of their surficial aspects... and even when revealed some would still find certain things moral and others not.
You might argue that my "personal distaste" is a sense of morality but that would not be accurate. That sense would remain regardless of the situational criteria that might effect morality, and indeed feeling I had to do something.
We can also change the example to the people shooting him in a blatantly unjust random killing, and the thieves stealing for pure greed with no "justification" of need. That would not change the moral landscape to "wrong" for me, and in either case (justified or no) my distaste for all actions would remain the same.
In fact the descriptions of why they did it... "unjust" and "greedy"... would be the proper labels. In both cases more unjust and greedy than is in my nature, and to a degree that I find distasteful. Not wrong because they are unjust or greedy, just different than my nature in degree.
Even in a "justified" setting, where some would claim it morally right, I would still find such things more unjust and greedy than is my nature. If forced to do such things by events beyond my control, it would be very hard for me. I would not feel wrong, just not myself.
Given a different life than the one I have come to lead my tastes might be very different. I might find such drivebys (or Bush's actions) palatable, or feel a bit jealous that I've never found someone so helpless such that I could get money as easily as them.
Their actions define their natures compared to mine, and mine to theirs. There are no absolutes here, and no sense of just plain right or wrong.
5) Bible and morality...
It seems to me that the Bible is rather relativist, or perhaps nonabsolutist in nature in many places. At the very least it argues for people not holding knowledge or claims of absolute morality.
It is quite clear in Genesis that Adam and Eve had no moral understanding. The tree of knowledge was moral knowledge. Once eaten from the first thing that they did was judge God's Eden as wrong. Remember, they judged themselves to be naked and so in need of clothes, which is NOT as God had made them. Since they did judge this are you claiming they did recognize some universal morality?
Interesting to note is that God's response was not to say that they now knew of good and evil as He did, they did not become like Him. What he said is that they became LIKE gods, and so judge good and evil. It was judgement, particularly of assuming absolute moral codes, which is where they went wrong.
Ecclesiastes (in the OT) and Jesus (in the NT) repeat these same sentiments. Both claim that God and absolute truth, including moral position, is not accessible to man and so should not be dabbled in. Both argue to remain simple and nonjudgemental on such topics. Whatever there might be is for god to sort out... not humans.
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holmes
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Silent H
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Message 298 of 302 (362139)
11-06-2006 11:46 AM
Reply to: Message 297 by nator
11-06-2006 11:14 AM


Re: nemesis_juggernaut's moral standard refuted by Haggard ... et al
The point is, there are social consequences to behavior for everyone, regardless of the behavior allowed or prevented by their moral code.
I get what you are saying but then you are sort of missing the point, and not addressing it. I think NJ would agree that your theoretical moral code would not have an easy go of it.
His point is that an absolute moral code underlies everything, such that those social consequences you speak of are formed from that underlying truth... a truth which relativists would deny exists.
So where do those social consequences come from? Your example is valid but it doesn't reveal the full nature of social consequences. For example...
Your moral code may say its okay to walk around hand in hand with a member of the same sex, and even marry them, how far do you think you are going to get in life doing that?
The answer would be not necessarily very far and in some parts dead a lot quicker than punching people in the face. Even in the US as a whole it would have been a hard go not 50 years ago, and still today you can have problems (and in some cases getting killed).
The social reality is that "liberal" beliefs are not as common as "conservative" ones, including in the US. Moral relativity is often appealed to in order to create arguments to loosen social expectations and so consequences. Thus it is not just a practical discussion, given that social norms held by many are moral based.
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holmes
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Silent H
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Message 299 of 302 (362140)
11-06-2006 11:57 AM
Reply to: Message 296 by Hyroglyphx
11-06-2006 10:58 AM


Re: nemesis_juggernaut's moral standard refuted by Haggard ... et al
Universality of equality, justice, and basic human rights is a prime example of absolute morality! You are appealing to all of us to conform to some general standard that we all should, (in your mind), recognize.
You are correct in this assessment.
I, like the Founding Fathers, see these Truths® to be self-evident-- meaning, they are axiomatic.
Ahem... What truths were those again?...
We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.-That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed,-That whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness.
You said you did not agree with social contract theory and that laws were based on morals. They do not discuss morals, they discuss inherent personal RIGHTS, and that gov'ts are set up by people to secure them... not to judge what is right and wrong.

holmes
"What a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away." (D.Bros)

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