who have abandoned the young earth theory as if it is something to be ashamed of...
It is.
It is contradicted by massive amounts of evidence and supported only by an old tribal myth.
And young earth is not a
theory. That term has a very specific meaning in science. (See the definitions below.)
Young earth is a religious belief. That means it does not need evidence, but is held as true no matter what.
Theory: a well-substantiated explanation of some aspect of the natural world; an organized system of accepted knowledge that applies in a variety of circumstances to explain a specific set of phenomena; theories can incorporate facts and laws and tested hypotheses. Theories do not grow up to be laws. Theories explain laws.
Theory: A scientifically testable general principle or body of principles offered to explain observed phenomena. In scientific usage, a theory is distinct from a hypothesis (or conjecture) that is proposed to explain previously observed phenomena. For a hypothesis to rise to the level of theory, it must predict the existence of new phenomena that are subsequently observed. A theory can be overturned if new phenomena are observed that directly contradict the theory. [Source]
Religious belief does not constitute scientific evidence, nor does it convey scientific knowledge.