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Rahvin
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Message 21 of 206 (449298)
01-17-2008 3:41 PM
Reply to: Message 19 by subbie
01-17-2008 3:04 PM


Now, you of course may declare for your own purposes that "'Gay' is not a label that defines a group of people like the races do." However, I think you'd be hard pressed to make a convincing argument that gays are not a "discrete and insular minorit[y]" that suffers from a reduced access to the political process as a result of prejudice. As such, it would be more than appropriate for the Court to use some heightened level of scrutiny when examining laws that treat them differently from everyone else. And it buggers the imagination to say that gays are treated equally when heterosexual couples who fall in love can get married but homosexual couples can't.
Replace the word "homosexual" in any gay marriage argument with the word "black" and it becomes readily apparent why gay marriage opponents are bigots.
"Homosexuals have the same rights as heterosexuals. Any homosexual man can marry a person of the opposite gender. We just dont want men marrying men."
"Blacks have the same rights as whites. Any black man can marry a black woman. We just dont want Blacks marrying Whites."
It's the same exact argument from 50 years ago, with a new minority thrown in.
The "give them the same rights but dont call it marriage" crowd are similarly idiots. If they're the same rights, the only reason to call it anything different is discrimination against the minority...and the interracial argument still works here, too.
"Let gays have the same legal rights as a real marriage, but call it something else. Like 'butt-buddies.' "
"Let interracial couples have the same rights as a real marriage, but call it something else. Like (insert racist term here)"
It's just insulting.

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Message 26 of 206 (449312)
01-17-2008 5:01 PM
Reply to: Message 24 by New Cat's Eye
01-17-2008 4:52 PM


"Gays" doesn't describe an actual "group of people". Remember that sexuality is a bell curve... Its not black and white.
That's ridiculous. Of course gays are an actual "group of people." Sexuality may be a bell curve, but race isn't "black and white" either, as you call it. How black is black? 100%? 50%? 25%? When does an interracial child become non-black? What about all of the other races?
How about "Christians?" Religious identity isn't a binary choice, either, it's less predetermined than sexual orientation, and yet religion is a protected class.
You're using a false dilemma. If race, religion, or any other subset counts as a legal "group of people," then so do gays.

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Message 32 of 206 (449376)
01-17-2008 7:37 PM
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01-17-2008 7:04 PM


Re: Society vs. the Individual
The LAW says, without invoking any religious connotations, that homosexuality is an abomination.
Immediately back up that statement or retract.

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Message 36 of 206 (449392)
01-17-2008 8:18 PM
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01-17-2008 8:14 PM


Anybody can enter the contract of marriage. "Gay people" is not some group that is discriminated from entering the contract. The contract, however, must be between a man and a women. Its not discriminatory.
"Anybody can enter the contract of marriage. "Black people" is not some group that is discriminated from entering the contract. The contract, however, must be between people of the same race. It's not discriminatory."
I fixed it for you.
Are you still not getting it, CS?

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Message 41 of 206 (449403)
01-17-2008 9:00 PM
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01-17-2008 8:40 PM


The difference is that that would be discriminatory against black people, while this:
There is no difference at all. It is discriminatory against homosexuals.
is not discriminatory against anyone because everyone is either a man or a women.
"...is not discriminatory against anyone because everyone is of one race or another."
People are of different races and the contract shouldn't be limited to the same race, but being gay doesn't make you not a man or not a women, so the contract doesn't exclude people who are gay.
People are of different sexual orientations and the contract shouldnt be limited to the same sexual orientation.
You still havent demonstrated how it's ANY different. Homosexuals are a minority. They are distinct from heterosexuals, and disallowing them from being married to each other is exactly, 100% the same as disallowing interracial marriages.

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Message 48 of 206 (449441)
01-17-2008 10:14 PM
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01-17-2008 9:55 PM


Re: A refusal to deal with the central issue
I say again: Immediately support your contention that the law in the US states that homosexuality is an abomination, or retract your disgusting lies.
Rule number 4: Points should be supported with evidence and/or reasoned argumentation. Address rebuttals through the introduction of additional evidence or by enlarging upon the argument. Do not repeat previous points without further elaboration. Avoid bare assertions.
Rule number 8: Avoid any form of misrepresentation.

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Message 56 of 206 (449459)
01-17-2008 10:47 PM
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01-17-2008 10:28 PM


Re: A refusal to deal with the central issue
Relax... He wasn't quoting the law. If that's how he interprets what the law says, can't he simply remain wrong? Must he really quote the law conforming exactly to his interpretation?
He needs to show a law that supports his assertion, or admit that he was lying. Period.

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Message 58 of 206 (449462)
01-17-2008 10:52 PM
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01-17-2008 10:34 PM


Re: Emotive arguments
Just like it would be discriminatory for you to have barred Oscar Wilde from marrying his true love? If you're going to make an emotive argument, you have to be real careful that the tables don't turn on you.
Except that it it not discriminatory to require that anyone who enters any contract be a consenting adult.
Stop trying to pull that idiotic argument. If giving gays the right to enter a contract allows children to do so, why can't they enter other contracts without parental consent? Since you seem to like to apply it to bestiality as well, why can't a dog enter a contract?
Your arguments are not only bigoted, they're stupid and repugnant.
So was homosexuality in America. But we see how that turned out.
Quite well so far. What has legal homosexuality done in America that is so wrong?

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Message 60 of 206 (449476)
01-17-2008 11:55 PM
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01-17-2008 11:03 PM


Re: Emotive arguments
Clearly, heterosexual males should not be allowed to marry!!
Lets look at the rest of NJs retarded argument: known, convicted pedophiles are allowed to marry, as long as they're heterosexual. They're allowed to have children. But for some reason homosexuals are not, despite the fact that most pedophiles are heterosexual, by a massive margin.
Yet he uses this as rationale for making gay marriage illegal.

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Message 83 of 206 (449613)
01-18-2008 1:54 PM
Reply to: Message 79 by New Cat's Eye
01-18-2008 1:26 PM


It is not discrimination because homosexuals are not prohibited from getting married. The problem is that marriage is defined as being between a man and a woman. Being a homosexual does not put you in a group, class, or category that is not a man or a woman so they are not excluded from marriage and they are not being discriminated against.
If it was “between the same race” is would be discriminatory because some people don’t belong to a particular race and would be excluded by that definition.
Your sexuality doesn’t determine your gender, so having a definition based on gender has nothing to do with your sexuality.
It is not discrimination because blacks are not prohibited from getting married. The problem is that marriage is defined as being between a man and a woman. Being black does not put you in a group, class, or category that is not a man or a woman so they are not being excluded from marriage and they are not being discriminated against.
If it was "between the same gender" it would be discriminatory becasue some people don't belong to a particular sexual orientation and would be excluded by that definition.
Your race doesn't determine your gender, so having a definition based on gender has nothing to do with your race.
Still not getting it? Are you that dense?

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Message 84 of 206 (449616)
01-18-2008 1:58 PM
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01-18-2008 1:37 PM


Re: A refusal to deal with the central issue
It is categorically listed in numerous states laws, the UCMJ, and the United States Code. I'd say that more than amply proves how lawmakers view it. But then, you didn't honestly believe that laws are passed against things that are inherently good, did you?
You will immediately cite a current US law that states homosexuality is an abomination or you will immediately retract your statement and admit that you were lying. Repeating your lie does not prove the lie is true, NJ.

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Message 87 of 206 (449623)
01-18-2008 2:31 PM
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01-18-2008 1:40 PM


Re: Nice dodge, CS
Exactly! As marriage, as defined, is afforded to all our citizens and does not discriminate against any group, there’s no reason to change it.
Let's do this with a very simple roleplay, CS.
Three men and a woman walk in to a county clerk's office and get in line for marriage licenses.
The heterosexual couple walks forward, fills out the short form, pays their fee, and receives a marriage license.
The homosexual couple then steps forward, fills out the short form...and the clerk stops them.
"You can't get married," she says.
"Why not?!" ask the two men.
"Marriage is between a man and a woman. We don't let men marry men or women marry women."
"But what about all of the rights that go along with marriage? If one of us becomes sick, or for automatic inheritance, or a whole slew of other rights, we need to be married! And we want to make an official commitment to our love, just like the couple in front of us was able to. Why can't we get the same treatment?" they ask, with confusion.
"You can get the same treatment. You just have to marry someone of the opposite sex, that's all," she replies.
"So, we're being denied the right to marry our partner of choice because of our sexual orientation?"
"No, you're not being denied anything. You could marry women any time. Have a nice day!"
Now, let's change a few words around. I'll bold them for ease of comprehension, since that seems to be lacking.
A white man, two white women, and a black man walk in to a county clerk's office and get in line for marriage licenses.
The white couple walks forward, fills out the short form, pays their fee, and receives a marriage license.
The interracial couple then steps forward, fills out the short form...and the clerk stops them.
"You can't get married," she says.
"Why not?!" ask the black man.
"Marriage is between men and women of the same race. We don't let black men marry white women."
"But what about all of the rights that go along with marriage? If one of us becomes sick, or for automatic inheritance, or a whole slew of other rights, we need to be married! And we want to make an official commitment to our love, just like the couple in front of us was able to. Why can't we get the same treatment?" they ask, with confusion.
"You can get the same treatment. You just have to marry someone of the same race, that's all," she replies.
"So, we're being denied the right to marry our partner of choice because of our race?"
"No, you're not being denied anything. You could marry people of the same race any time. Have a nice day!"
CS, if we can identify "homosexuals" as a group sufficiently to seperate them from heterosexuals, how are they not a seperate group? How is this legally any different at all from denying interracial couples the right to marry?

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Message 91 of 206 (449630)
01-18-2008 2:55 PM
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01-18-2008 2:35 PM


I get it just fine, you're the one who is too dense to get it.
I know you are, but what am I?
The current definition also is not discriminatory against blacks, you're right. However, that has nothing to do with it not being discriminatory against gays as well.
It has everything to do with it. Sexual orientation is exactly the same as race when it comes to determining "groups." And the point, CS, was not that "blacks cant get married." It's that blacks couldn't marry whites. Just like men can't marry men. The exact same argument you are using today was used 50 years ago to deny interracial couples the right to marry. It's almost word for freaking word.
Your gender is not defined by your sexual orientation so you're just plain wrong here.
Your gender is not defined by your racial orientation so you're just plain wrong here.
A point you've failed to address. All you can do is try to smear my argument by comparison, a good indication that you have nothing to stand on.
Your argument is faulty becasue it is exactly the same as a previous, faulty argument. If interracial marriage must be permitted under fair treatment, homosexual marriage must also be permitted. There is zero difference. None.
You're just trying to make it discriminatory because you want it to be so that it can be changed. I guess it is not really because you're dense, but more because you're biased.
Feel free to scream bias instead of actually supporting an argument. In what way is homosexual marriage any different from interracial marriage? Be specific. Not just becasue gender and race are two different properties. How do you claim that the property (race) is different from the property (sexual orientation) without special pleading? You need to find a difference in your argument from the racist, bigoted, "seperate but equal" bullshit arguments of the past, or your argument is exactly the same.
If all I have to do is change all of the sexual orientation words in your arguments to racial words, and turn homosexual marriage into interracial marriage, and the points are exactly the same, how can you claim your reasoning is different? How can you claim bias, when you are the one claiming there is a difference where none is apparent?

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Message 105 of 206 (449656)
01-18-2008 4:14 PM
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01-18-2008 3:41 PM


Well, now I'm beginning to think you're a moron. That, or your bias is severly clouding your judgement.
Or you're just wrong. I'll tell you what - I'll stop calling you dense, you stop the insults too, and we both avoid suspensions.
You think you're actually saying something by replacing gender with race and you keep repeating it while it doesn't have anything to do with my argument.
It has everything to do with your argument.
That doesn't even make any sense. Of course your gender is not defined by your racial orientation, that's one of the reasons that having genders as a part of the definition of marriage does not discriminate against any race, just like it doesn't against any sexual orientations.
But the law used to discriminate against interracial marriage. The 14th Amendment eventually forced the Supreme Court to rule that the wordings and laws that forbade interracial marriage or sex were unconstitutional. The rationale for the arguments against interracial marriage were exactly the same as the arguments you're using now.
You admit that disallowing interracial marriage was discriminatory, so how do you now claim that disallowing homosexual marriage is not without special pleading?
Let's use another argument. Say there was a law against inter-religious marriage - only Jews could marry Jews, for instance. Let's make it nice and bad by saying it even has to be of the same denomination for religions as varied as Christianity. The wording of the law say that marriage is a legal union of a man and a woman who must be of the same faith.
Under your logic it can't be discriminatory, because nobody is being blocked from marriage - they simply have to choose a spouse of the same religion.
Isn't this religious discrimination? Would not the 14th Amendment override this law? If so, why does it not override homosexual marriage?
How about yet another angle. What marriages do we all agree should not be allowed, and more importantly, what is the legal rationalization against allowing them? We'll use some of the retarded ones NJ might bring up, just to illustrate the point:
quote:
Children below the age of consent cannot be married, to each other or an adult.
The reason is that both parties entering into a contract must be consenting adults. Since children below the age of consent cannot enter any contract, they cannot be married.
quote:
A man cannot marry his dog, or any other animal.
The reason is that both parties entering into a contract must be consenting adults. Since dogs and other animals cannot give consent, they cannot enter a contract and thus cannot be married.
quote:
A man cannot marry a toaster.
I won't repeat myself again.
Now let's apply this logic to the real points:
quote:
A black man cannot marry a white woman.
This was the law not too many years ago. But because both parties are consenting adults, and letting them enter the marriage contract does not restrict the rights of anyone else (meaning refusing is also a violation of their right to privacy), the law was overturned on Constitutional grounds.
quote:
A man cannot marry a man.
They're both consenting adults, and letting them marry doesn't restrict anyone else's rights...so why can they not enter the marriage contract? The wording of marriage laws is irrelevant if the Constitution overrides it.
The difference is that the law defines marriage as between a man and a women and this is not discriminatory against any group of people like it would be if it refered to race.
Because your gender is not determined by your sexuality, having gender restiction does not discriminate against any particular sexuality.
It's not racial marriage, CS, it's interracial marriage. Blacks were allowed to marry...other blacks. It's the exact same logic you're using, CS. Being sexually attracted to people of a different race has nothing to do with your gender, so having a racial restriction does not discriminate against any particular race. A gay man is still legally allowed to marry a woman, so he's treated the same, in exactly the same way a black man is still allowed to marry a black woman, and so they're treated the same, too.
Since the prohibition against interracial marriage was abolished as Unconstitutional, and the arguments against gay marriage are exactly the same, the prohibitions against gay marriage are also Unconstitutional.
It doesn't matter how different they are. The definition of marriage is with respect to gender, not sexual orientation.
It does matter, because defining marriage as a man and a woman is Unconstitutional, exactly the same way that the old law that added "of the same race" was Unconstitutional.
They are not exactly the same though.
How, and in what way? Stating it is so does not make it so. Sexual orientation defines an identifiable group. Race also defines an identifiable group. If prohibiting interracial marriage is Unconstitutional, prohibiting homosexual marriage must also be Unconstitutional.
I'll quote the Supreme Court from Loving v. Virginia, where anti-interracial marriage laws were finally deemed Unconstitutional:
quote:
Marriage is one of the "basic civil rights of man," fundamental to our very existence and survival.... To deny this fundamental freedom on so unsupportable a basis as the racial classifications embodied in these statutes, classifications so directly subversive of the principle of equality at the heart of the Fourteenth Amendment, is surely to deprive all the State's citizens of liberty without due process of law. The Fourteenth Amendment requires that the freedom of choice to marry not be restricted by invidious racial discrimination. Under our Constitution, the freedom to marry, or not marry, a person of another race resides with the individual and cannot be infringed by the State.
Now let's change a few words.
quote:
Marriage is one of the "basic civil rights of man," fundamental to our very existence and survival.... To deny this fundamental freedom on so unsupportable a basis as the gender classifications embodied in these statutes, classifications so directly subversive of the principle of equality at the heart of the Fourteenth Amendment, is surely to deprive all the State's citizens of liberty without due process of law. The Fourteenth Amendment requires that the freedom of choice to marry not be restricted by invidious gender discrimination. Under our Constitution, the freedom to marry, or not marry, a person of any gender resides with the individual and cannot be infringed by the State.
Replace "gender" with "sexual orientation" if it makes more sense to you...but you should hopefully be able to see my point.

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Message 140 of 206 (449954)
01-19-2008 11:37 PM
Reply to: Message 136 by Hyroglyphx
01-19-2008 9:40 PM


Re: The law
You have injected morals in to it, which, really, is not a problem for me because that is the only reason the law exists to begin with
False.
The law does not exist to enforce morality. It exists to protect the rights of society as a whole and the individuals that make it up.
The arguments brought forward in this thread are not arguments of morality (though I would agree that protecting the rights of individuals is a very moral thing to do, morality is subjective, and the law is supposed to be objective). hey are arguments of legality. The 14th Amendment, part of the document that establishes the highest law of the land, meaning it overrides any and all laws that contradict it, is the argument against barring gay marriage. It demands equal treatment under the law, which means, by all the precedents set in US law (allowing interracial marriage and anal sex, to name a few), gay marriage must be allowed.
Barring the bias of an extremely right-wing Supreme Court (apparently judges are only activists if they support equal treatment for everyone, who knew?), any laws short of a Constitutional Amendment specifically banning gay marriage will be shot down if brought before the court.

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