I would like to thank all of you for your responses, my goal of this thread was to bring to light the need for civility in discussion. I'm genuinely concerned about how the debate on evolution vs creationism vs intelligent design is represented from civilians and even some leaders from all isles. I'm tired of all the hate speech and view it as a true decline in civilization even in the midst of great discoveries and theories. Sometimes I feel like the general population of unbelievers have taken a "south park" stance on christianity. I mean how is it ok to portray what some people view as the almighty god as a dufus comic figure? These are sensitive topics and could carry weighty or even violent consequences if things get too out of hand.
Who are the fanatics? Those who use humor to make a point, or those who become violent when humor is used?
Time after time I see atheists accused of being uncivil for simply disagreeing with theists. It's as if we can only be civil if we agree that God exists.
Also, many scientists think that the truth is more important than feelings. If finding the truth means hurting someone's feelings then the truth wins out. You may complain that someone said something mean, but you may be missing the more important thing, that they are right.
If aethists want god taken out of society, then who will be their moral leaders?
We want God taken out of government. If the only justification for a law is "because the Bible says so" then it is a bad law and it is bad morality. All laws should have a secular justification so that people of all beliefs are treated fairly.
Atheists are not against people believing as they wish. We may think you are foolish and tell you so, but you are still free to believe as you want.
So while scientists may not see their job description as needing to care about hurting people's feelings with their statements, as a human I think it is their responsibilty.
Not when it means sacrificing the truth.