Your Katrina photo and a statement that I have argued "ANYTHING that makes someone different than myself obviates me of any responsibility for their welfare" is patently false.
Had you ever been to New Orleans? I had. That was
certainly a different culture than the one I'm from. Radically different from anything I had ever lived in.
It's not a strawman, Holmes, when I apply your exact reasoning to situations that highlight how absurd it is. Obviously, you have never said that I couldn't help the victims of Katrina. It's just that, to be
intellectually honest, you would have to conclude that I could not!
If we can clean this up I think what we have to say to each other, whether we agree or not, would be very interesting.
I think we can.
Let me say that I grasp the merit of your point; it's just that, like most things, you take an obvious principle and extend it to ridiculous extremes.
Obviously, it would be folly in the extreme to think that the solutions of my culture, my neighborhood, my community could be transplanted verbatim halfway across the world and have positive results. I think we've seen the results of that kind of thinking writ large across the Middle East lo the past several years.
It's a
serious mistake to disregard completely local customs, local outlooks, local solutions to problems. It would be a disaster. And to come in as an outsider to a culture and attempt to solve problems in a way that people are going to respect and help with is a difficult problem indeed.
But to say that it is difficult is not to say that it is impossible, or to say that there's no reason to think of problems as problems, or to simply abandon all hope of rendering aid to people not like ourselves, as you would seemingly have us do. It's simply hard.
Think of it like a neighborhood, Holmes. When neighbors can't get over their differences, when they're afraid to engage with each other for fear of misunderstanding or out of distrust, neighborhoods suffer for it. We see communities like these in our own country, in the roughest conditions. And, of course, declining conditions drive residents into even more insular and disconnected attitudes.
But when neighbors
act like neighbors, explore each other's viewpoints, share what works for them, and yes -
enforce community standards when it becomes necessary - the neighborhood is vibrant. People feel safe and problems come to have solutions. And, hey, what works at one house doesn't work at another, without taking into account how the people of one home differ from another. Obviously. But that doesn't mean we shouldn't share. And, yes, when a neighbor threatens the community by violating its standards, our differences can't mean that we don't take action.
It's ultimately
selfish to withhold from others the benefits we enjoy. It's ultimately racist to assert that those who are not like us can gain nothing from what we have to offer them, or they from us. I'm sorry you object to that, but it's true. Language, culture, and race are not excuses for us to close our hearts to one another, regardless of what precious multi-culturalism might tell you.