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New Cat's Eye
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Message 106 of 302 (412306)
07-24-2007 11:00 AM


I haven't been able to post in a while and when I went back to read up on what I've missed, all I saw was a whole lot of bitching.
That's frustrating, but I guess if I had been hear to see it all it could have been more frustrating.

Hyroglyphx
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Message 107 of 302 (412310)
07-24-2007 11:13 AM
Reply to: Message 69 by riVeRraT
07-23-2007 3:50 PM


Re: Thanks
I am sick of people calling me a bigot, and comparing me to a racist. I am sick of people drifting off-topic, every time I start a thread. I am tired of the hypocrisy.
I'm sick of people saying that I'm comparing homosexuality to incest, beastiality, pedophilia, etc, when the argument is very CLEARLY an argument against moral relativity. But, hey, that's the nature of it.
You aren't battling against people that play by the same rules. You are battling a people that foist upon you new rules at every turn, and have a plethora of excuses to exonerate themselves.
At some point you are going to have to develop some thicker skin and actually expect them to be either be that obtuse or that dishonest to where they would intentionally skew what you're saying because they are angry.
The way I see it is that they are often left with an indefensible position-- and they know it. That's when the mudslinging begins. I guess I've just come to expect it.

"The problem of Christianity is not that it has been tried and found wanting, but that it is difficult and left untried" -G.K. Chesterton

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RickJB
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Message 108 of 302 (412319)
07-24-2007 11:46 AM
Reply to: Message 107 by Hyroglyphx
07-24-2007 11:13 AM


Re: Thanks
**Pops out out "lurker" mode...**
NJ writes:
I'm sick of people saying that I'm comparing homosexuality to incest, beastiality, pedophilia, etc, when the argument is very CLEARLY an argument against moral relativity.
But in making your case comparing them is exactly what you do. Your passive/aggressive tactics are easy to spot - you knowingly drop the comparison in and then feign shock when people get riled up. You've done this on many occasions....
NJ writes:
You are battling a people that foist upon you new rules at every turn, and have a plethora of excuses to exonerate themselves.
Exonerate themselves from what?
In any case both the breadth of opinion of what constitutes morality and your consistent failure to produce any evidence for a single moral framework work against your argument.

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Hyroglyphx
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Message 109 of 302 (412351)
07-24-2007 1:39 PM
Reply to: Message 108 by RickJB
07-24-2007 11:46 AM


Re: Thanks
But in making your case comparing them is exactly what you do. Your passive/aggressive tactics are easy to spot - you knowingly drop the comparison in and then feign shock when people get riled up. You've done this on many occasions....
Being that multiple people who do not agree with my stance on homosexuality understand that I'm making an argument against moral relativism tells me that other people are seeing what they want to see.
I've been very clear and consistent on the matter. I've even apologized, on a couple of occasions, if I had anything to do with a misunderstanding. To no avail. After reviewing multiple posts, I seriously cannot see how someone could arrive at the conclusions they have. Which tells me that unreasonable people see what they want to see, rather than what is actually presented.
In any case both the breadth of opinion of what constitutes morality and your consistent failure to produce any evidence for a single moral framework work against your argument.
If you want to engage me in that thread, by all means come and join the fun and see if you can reconcile the irreconcilable.

"The problem of Christianity is not that it has been tried and found wanting, but that it is difficult and left untried" -G.K. Chesterton

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ringo
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Message 110 of 302 (412356)
07-24-2007 2:18 PM
Reply to: Message 97 by riVeRraT
07-24-2007 9:33 AM


riVeRraT writes:
As I have indicated MANY FUCKING TIMES my life is a journey, and I am still exploring things.
And the whole thing I'm trying to say to you is that what you say about yourself is contradicted by the way you say it. It's like you're saying, "WHY CAN"T YOU FUCKING UNDERSTAND THAT I DON'T FUCKING SWEAR ANY MORE?"
I have indicated that my current BELIEF is MY DAM OPINION, and could be incorrect.
So, you've expressed your opinion. If you could be wrong, why not shut the @#$% up about it? Why come in here repeating your opinion over and over again and then crying crocodile tears when people disagree with you?
The idiot's are people who choose to insult me, instead of explaining to me.
Non sequitur. You haven't shown any correlation between people who insult you and idiocy.
But you are only right, if what people are trying to tell me are right.
No. It doesn't make any difference if they're right or wrong. How could you even know who's right and who's wrong if you don't absorb everybody's viewpoint? You see the word "bigot" in a post and you assume the person is wrong. You automatically lose any value that might be in the post.
There is such a wide spectrum of how my opinions are interpreted....
There may be a wide spectrum, but there's a pretty narrow consensus.
I do not fully understand why people of the same sex could be attracted to each other....
I asked you before and didn't get an answer: You understand attraction to women, don't you? So why don't you understand the attraction of one woman to another woman? And how do you claim to understand the attraction of women to men?
... but realize the high probability that they are born that way.
And you still don't understand why that's completely irrelevant? Does a person's right to vote have anything to do with whether they were born a Democrat?
Homosexual sex turns me off, and I find it disgusting.
Even lesbian sex? I find that hard to believe.
Even if it's true, here's my super-secret three-step plan for avoiding homosex:
  1. Don't have sex with men.
  2. Don't watch gay porn.
  3. Shut the @#$% up about it.
I am free to tell people that I do not like Fords, but that does not mean that I do not like the people who drive them.
So, you don't like homosexuals but you like people who drive homosexuals?

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ringo
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Message 111 of 302 (412364)
07-24-2007 2:37 PM
Reply to: Message 109 by Hyroglyphx
07-24-2007 1:39 PM


nemesis_juggernaut writes:
I seriously cannot see how someone could arrive at the conclusions they have.
Beam-in-the-eye disease has that effect.

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nator
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Message 112 of 302 (412391)
07-24-2007 3:58 PM
Reply to: Message 105 by Equinox
07-24-2007 10:57 AM


Re: a night of anchovies and obese sex ....
I am tired of treating religious bigots with kid gloves.
Why should anybody praise them for changing their view from discriminatory and bigoted to somewhat less discriminatory and bigoted?
Would anybody here tolerate a racist or a misogynist in the same way they have been tolerating homophobes? I doubt it.

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mike the wiz
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Message 113 of 302 (412466)
07-24-2007 9:04 PM
Reply to: Message 86 by Taz
07-23-2007 7:33 PM


Re: mikey isn't a christian by his own definition
Ofcourse - even though I am not a Christian, that's only because of the generalization of the term's useage. Therefore it can not describe anything about me without being a loaded term. Commonly, ofcourse, the term means nothing, so I would deem it as highly ridiculous to be in the ownership of a title with no meaning.

Ofcourse it is happening inside your head, Harry, but why on earth should that mean that it is not real? - Albus Dumbledore

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riVeRraT
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Posts: 5788
From: NY USA
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Message 114 of 302 (412561)
07-25-2007 11:46 AM
Reply to: Message 102 by nator
07-24-2007 10:10 AM


Re: Bigot by choice
I think what he's trying to tell you is that he doesn't automatically respect or despise anyone, regardless of their religious beliefs, but because of their actions and expressed attitudes.
That's how some Christians can earn his respect and regard, and other Christians can earn his derision and disrespect.
I would love to believe that, really I would, but his prejudice, and bias actions towards Christian people and what they say, says it all.
It is clear when in the last thread I created, about death bed conversions, which has absolutely nothing to do with being gay or not, or same sex marriage, he brings it up, and starts debating me on it.
If he was truly unbiased, he would have never brought that up. Just because someone is perceived wrong on one thing, does not make them automatically wrong on everything else.
And if the admins were unbiased, they would have stopped him dead in his tracks.
I am almost feeling a need to stay here now, because this BS does not need to infiltrating peoples minds on the internet. Someone has to be a voice of reason.
I will have to be a little more harsh now. It's been over three years, and I've never been suspended here. Just got my first ban from one forum, and I feel it was highly unrighteous.
A note to the admins, and the director of this forum.
***If you are going to make rules, at least adhere to them yourself, and at least moderate them correctly, and as unbiased as you can. If you don't, I will be there to point it out, which will only stain the validity of this great forum.***

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riVeRraT
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Message 115 of 302 (412563)
07-25-2007 11:48 AM
Reply to: Message 103 by nator
07-24-2007 10:15 AM


Re: Bigot by choice
Oh? I am pulling other people's strings around here and controlling what they write?
No, you influence waves of BS.
I'm not picking on you, I actually like you, even though we do not get along at all. Well maybe 5% of the time we have agreed. It was meant more of a joke, but since your're (lol) always uptight with me, you didn't notice.

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riVeRraT
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Message 116 of 302 (412564)
07-25-2007 11:57 AM
Reply to: Message 104 by nator
07-24-2007 10:22 AM


Re: Bigot by choice
No, because animals, like children, the mentally ill, or most mentally handicapped people, cannot give legal consent to enter into legal contracts.
Says you, my dog loves me, she licks my balls, and follows me where ever I go. Man's best friend. And if she gets sick, I want her to be covered by my medical insurance.
We are in love, and we are not hurting anyone by getting married (my point, which I knew you would miss, hence the disclaimer). What skin is it off your back to let me and my dog get married? What business is it of yours, if I want to marry my dog, why don't you mind your own business? Who are you to tell me how I should live my life? Who gave you authority to tell me how to live?
You call my dog handicap? She was born that way. Just like I was born zoosexual. My dog was born humansexual.
Whatever.
Edited by riVeRraT, : No reason given.
Edited by riVeRraT, : No reason given.

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riVeRraT
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Message 117 of 302 (412565)
07-25-2007 12:04 PM
Reply to: Message 105 by Equinox
07-24-2007 10:57 AM


Re: a night of anchovies and obese sex ....
I did want to add a note of support for rR, who is right when he says that he isn’t dogmatic and has changed his view in light of new evidence in the past. His ability to realize a mistake, change his view, and be open about the whole process speaks well to both his integrity and rationality. All of us, Christian or Pantheist, Jew or Atheist, should recognize the huge difference between rR and a fundamentalist from any religion.
Thanks Equinox, I am trying, that's all I can do.
But is that a reason to say something is a sin? I mean, I find the thought of sex with obese women to be disgusting, yet I don’t consider it a sin. I also find eating anchovies disgusting, and again, that’s not a sin. And in each of those cases, I’m perfectly happy with other people doing those things, and don’t believe in a God that would torture anyone for those things. How is homosexuality different?
I guess it is not the only reason. I kind of realized that after I wrote it. I guess it is a combination of things, none of which include taking away other peoples freedoms.
That is what I am exploring now, why I feel that way, and do I really have a right to feel that way.

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riVeRraT
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Message 118 of 302 (412566)
07-25-2007 12:06 PM
Reply to: Message 107 by Hyroglyphx
07-24-2007 11:13 AM


Re: Thanks
The way I see it is that they are often left with an indefensible position-- and they know it. That's when the mudslinging begins. I guess I've just come to expect it.
Yes, I see all that.
So why do you stay here then?

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Straggler
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Message 119 of 302 (412568)
07-25-2007 12:25 PM
Reply to: Message 116 by riVeRraT
07-25-2007 11:57 AM


Re: Bigot by choice
Says you, my dog loves me, she licks my balls, and follows me where ever I go.
Dude whatever wets your whistle as far as I am concerned
But you should probably know that she is cheating on you........

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riVeRraT
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Message 120 of 302 (412570)
07-25-2007 12:27 PM
Reply to: Message 110 by ringo
07-24-2007 2:18 PM


And the whole thing I'm trying to say to you is that what you say about yourself is contradicted by the way you say it.
Oh well. I expressed many times, I am not a literary genius.
Besides, people read in between the lines with me too much. People need to start taking things at face value. And when they do, and still point out I am wrong, I can try and express myself differently.
You know, it's like my step son, he is handicap. When I met him, he was 8, and could not fathom how many cups go into a pint, and how many pints are in a quart, etc. I, and a few others, had to explain it to him about 30 different ways, until he finally got it.
It seems many people here mimic that behavior.
So, you've expressed your opinion. If you could be wrong, why not shut the @#$% up about it? Why come in here repeating your opinion over and over again and then crying crocodile tears when people disagree with you?
I am not in this thread to debate my position about homosexuals. If you notice, taz was the one to bring it up again.
I also do not cry, when people disagree with me, I am merely correcting them when they get it wrong. Or exploring the outside chance that I am wrong.
Non sequitur. You haven't shown any correlation between people who insult you and idiocy.
It's a given. Insulting people, is being an idiot. Me, or any other person would be hard pressed to change their views after being insulted.
Isn't that the main cry of all the agnostic, atheist, liberal people here, that the fundamentalists insult them with conviction, and condemnation, and by telling them how to live? That even if there was a good message about Jesus, that they are not hearing it through all the BS?
Isn't that the same theology driving witch burnings?
There may be a wide spectrum, but there's a pretty narrow consensus.
Depending on your world view.
So why don't you understand the attraction of one woman to another woman?
Because I am a man.
And how do you claim to understand the attraction of women to men?
Because we are here.
And you still don't understand why that's completely irrelevant?
Nope. I was born/choose to be a zoophile, can I marry my dog? I'm not hurting anyone.
Does a person's right to vote have anything to do with whether they were born a Democrat?
Sorry, but there is no relevance in that comparison. Let's stick to the issue at hand.
Even lesbian sex? I find that hard to believe.
At one time it did turn me on, but I have since been enlightened about the truth of it.
The only reason it would turn me on, is if I could be in the middle of it.
Even if it's true, here's my super-secret three-step plan for avoiding homosex:
1. Don't have sex with men.
2. Don't watch gay porn.
3. Shut the @#$% up about it.
1. Not a problem
2. Still not a problem, but now thanks to pop-ups that is almost impossible to avoid those images. Not to mention seeing to guys kissing on the street. But hey, thats my problem right!?!
3. I would shut @#$% up, if others would. Remember, I have only brought it up maybe 3-4 times. It is always started by someone else.
I brought it up to improve myself, others bring it up to stain me.
So, you don't like homosexuals but you like people who drive homosexuals?
Thats just sad that you didn't get that.

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