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Author Topic:   Surrendering to Jesus/God is Not Biblical
anastasia
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Message 15 of 300 (392893)
04-02-2007 8:14 PM
Reply to: Message 13 by purpledawn
04-02-2007 10:37 AM


Looks good on paper, but how about in Action?
PD, I have to ask.
purpledawn writes:
The point is that neither Jesus no God asks that we give up control of our lives. They do ask that we choose to follow God's commands because it is a better way of life,
How is choosing to follow God's commands in anyway different from giving up control of our own lives?
Think about it. We are going to have free will. Jesus never took away free will. But if we freely decide to follow God's commands, we are freely choosing to do the right thing even when we don't want to. You may not call this surrender. I simply can't see what then would be considered surrender. God is not making us slaves. We are making ourselves slaves to God. In all of scripture, there are moments when God made a person 'surrender'. Look at Paul. He was without his own control brought under the influence of a vision. The same is true of mystic saints. Yet, after these moments of ecstacy, the mystics will teach that all that is required for God to work in one is willingness. This is evidenced in the angel's words to Mary.
The question is, after such profound life-changing moments, can one truly NOT choose to follow God? Are they 'forced' by transports beyond our experience, or are they 'wiiling', or both?
I know that is slightly off topic. I want to only ask that for all practical purposes, how one could distinguish between surrender to God, and 'doing good'? Tell me what a person who has surrendered themselves IS doing if not following God? Are they controlling themselves, or is God? Maybe Jesus never said 'give up control' but He said 'follow me'. What is the difference really? If I look at two people, how can I tell who has given up control of their will, and who is merely doing good works?
If this is rambling forgive me, but I truly do not the see issue here. In the garden of Gethsemane, didn't Jesus say 'Father, not my will be done, but thine'? How is this not surrender? How is 'into thy hands I commend my spirit' not surrender? What are the characteristics of a person who 'gives control to God'? IMO they are the exact same ones as those possessed by people who are freely choosing to follow God.
Stile said before that a Christian gives control of his morality over to God or 'chance'. Yet the morals of a Christian are the exact same ones even if you strip the God part out. Love of neighbor is still love of neighbor. Surrendering to good advice, doing God's will, following Jesus, etc...it's all semantics. It's all the same in application.
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anastasia
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Message 17 of 300 (392898)
04-02-2007 8:31 PM
Reply to: Message 14 by truthlover
04-02-2007 7:45 PM


Re: Light Burden
truthlover writes:
What does that mean? Doesn't following someone else's commands mean giving up control in some sense? Especially if there's punishments for not following those commands?
I hear you truthlover. This is one time that I am going to have to say I don't agree with PD's conclusion. For the most part I enjoy looking passage to passage for deeper understanding, but this is not something that can be solved Biblically. It is up to the individual to decide if 'following' means surrendering. I think there is ample evidence that giving up one's own desires was recommended by Jesus.
In all reality and all practicality, if I were to desire an inappropriate action, and gave this up because of love for God, I would have surrendered. I have surrendered to what I see as better. Is this really surrender? Is this not just doing what I would have done anyway? If you think along these lines you end up with Doddy's 'we can do what we please, but we can't change what pleases us to do'. This means that I will gain pleasure from following Jesus. Even when there is pain there is pleasure. It is not an easy thing to answer or explain. Perhaps the simple feeling of gain from doing the will of God implies that a person has already surrendered. They have already chosen to follow the doctor's orders, because they believe in the validity of the prescription. The only person who has 'given up control of their lives' is the one who does not follow the doctor's orders. They will 'rebel' whether they are lost or saved in body. They will rebel just because they can. If this is 'freedom' what is the opposite?
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anastasia
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Message 21 of 300 (392940)
04-02-2007 10:35 PM
Reply to: Message 20 by purpledawn
04-02-2007 9:43 PM


Re: What is Surrendering?
PD writes:
Have we given up any control in our lives because we choose to follow the guidelines here at EvC which have consequences if we don't?
To an extent.
So have we given up control of our lives because we choose to follow our local laws, which have various consequences attached to them? (rhetorical question)
To an extent.
When you take on a job and have to follow the company policies or bosses orders, have we given up control of our lives? (rhetorical question)
Ditto.
So I don't see that choosing to follow what we know of Jesus' teachings and commands, constitutes giving up control or power over my life. Choosing right behavior isn't giving up control, IMO.
It is, entirely. If all of the above deal only with certain portions of life, following God is giving up control entirely. it is giving up the freedom to do what you want ALL the time.

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anastasia
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Message 24 of 300 (393049)
04-03-2007 11:11 AM
Reply to: Message 22 by purpledawn
04-03-2007 7:10 AM


Re: Gotta Wanna
PD writes:
Someone else made the comment of doing right when we don't want to, maybe it was you, but maybe that's why the term surrender.
Well, that is the paradox isn't it? None of us is going to be perfect, none of us is always going to want to do the right thing. Feel like it, that is. Yet, the higher our degree of surrender to the will of God, the more we will desire to do what is right even when we don't feel like it.
Use your doctor analogy. Use the 12 steps program;
You look at Paul's scenerio as surrender, I see it as understanding. He came to understand that what he was doing was wrong. Jesus may have taken drastic measures to get his attention, but I don't get the impression from Paul's letters that he still wanted to kill Christians, but refrained only because he chose to
You already know that a person has to admit they are wrong. Next step, surrender mentally to the right way. Give up your 'own' way. Understanding comes first, surrender second. I am not at all sure that looking for clues that Paul wanted to kill Christians while he preached Christianity is a good use of time, but there is plenty of reason to believe Paul stiil wanted to live as the 'old man'. Or, at least, that he knew of the temptation to do so. The vast body of his discourses have to do with combatting the desires of the flesh.
I guess if a person still wants to do wrong behavior, but does right behavior only because they decided to follow God's commands out of fear or desperation; then it would be a form of surrender. Kinda like when conquering nations impose their ways upon the conquered nations.
When a person has completely surrendered, the way of the conquerer becomes his way. It doesn't matter if he be willing or not. The point of spirituality is to get to the place where you are in agreement with the conqueror even when you don't understand him. You live as he pleases. Surrender has nothing to do with wanting, save for wanting to surrender. That is the only thing that God will not control.
Of course that means that people who naturally want to do what is right have no need to surrender or even have a need for God.
How many of these people can you find? Who naturally wants to do what is right? If a person gets so lucky as to have this state of mind, doesn't that mean that they have already found God?
Maybe some of the language used in religion has gone poetic or harsh sounding. I still would not say that you have made a case that is strong enough for me to believe that following God is not allowing him to control a life. It is not forcible control that is true, but the whole concept of surrender is IMO entirely Biblical.

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anastasia
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Message 27 of 300 (393117)
04-03-2007 3:20 PM
Reply to: Message 26 by purpledawn
04-03-2007 1:44 PM


Re: Spirituality and Surrender
PD writes:
I think Jesus' statements to come and follow him are along the lines of yielding to a better course of action, but not giving up power or control over one's life. I don't see that his disciples demonstrated that they had given up power or control over their lives.
I am still looking for this practical example of what a person who has 'given up control' of their lives will look like. In relation to God that is, not a physical ruler.

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anastasia
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Message 54 of 300 (393592)
04-05-2007 8:58 PM
Reply to: Message 53 by purpledawn
04-05-2007 2:55 PM


Re: The Master
double post
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anastasia
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Message 55 of 300 (393596)
04-05-2007 9:03 PM
Reply to: Message 53 by purpledawn
04-05-2007 2:55 PM


Re: The Master
PurpleDawn writes:
What sparked the idea for the thread are the teachings that say we must turn control of our lives over to God/Jesus. It has also been said many times on this board. The point of the discussion though is whether God or Jesus actually requires or commanded such an action or mindset.
Well then, yes, I think being Christian requires turning control of our lives over to God.
Jesus thinks so.
Paul thinks so.
Following God is notbing more complicated than doing what is right or what you feel God asks, as fas as this is discernable, and as frequently as possinle. We are surrendering to what we believe is the will of God. There is no 'control' and there never has been. God does not take possession of our bodies against our will. It's a willing surrender, an aquiescence, an obeying of the voice of the conscience. I definitely believe that God requires it, and that we can not be Christian any other way.

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anastasia
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Message 59 of 300 (393687)
04-06-2007 12:05 PM
Reply to: Message 56 by purpledawn
04-06-2007 6:21 AM


Re: Acquiescence, Not Surrender
PurpleDawn writes:
So we are in agreement. In the Bible neither God nor Jesus required people to give up control of or power over their lives. In the Bible they do require that people choose to follow their commands.
Well, if it is required to choose one thing, it isn't much of a choice is it? You can choose to surrender. Once you have, you essentially give up control. It isn't taken from you, you give it up.

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anastasia
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Message 60 of 300 (393689)
04-06-2007 12:11 PM
Reply to: Message 58 by purpledawn
04-06-2007 11:17 AM


Re: Acquiescence, Not Surrender
PurpleDawn writes:
What do you call control and how does that control manifest itself?
That's what I have been asking you. I can't distinguish on a mental level or a physical level what the difference is between 'giving up control to God's will, and 'choosing to follow Jesus'.

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anastasia
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Message 62 of 300 (393704)
04-06-2007 1:55 PM
Reply to: Message 61 by ringo
04-06-2007 12:43 PM


Re: Acquiescence, Not Surrender
Ringo writes:
In "real life", surrender is usually the lesser of two evils. You can surrender or you can go out in a blaze of glory and futility.
In 'Christianity' you already know that following your own way is futile. The first step to success is understanding that you will ultimately have to surrender to God. If you want it to be the last resort, go ahead.

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anastasia
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Message 66 of 300 (393717)
04-06-2007 2:59 PM
Reply to: Message 63 by ringo
04-06-2007 2:22 PM


Re: Acquiescence, Not Surrender
Ringo writes:
I don't "know" any such thing. In Christian dogma that might fly, but not in "real-ife Christianity".
Whatever happened to free will? Why would God give us free will if He wanted us to give it back?
So we could give it back.
Consider that free will is no more than intelligence. We are intelligent enough to have choices, not intelligent enough to always make the best choice. God can't take away our intelligence, but He can ask us to let Him guide our choices.
Whether or not God wants us to surrender is the question here, not the answer. The first step to success in understanding is not jumping to your pet conclusion.
The question is whether or not my pet conclusion is Biblical. Since we are talking about the Bible here, there is no reason to get up in arms about whether one conclusion is 'true' in any other arena.
Sorry, darlin'. Does not compute. Surrender is the last resort.
Surrender is for the one who's out of ammunition, not the one whose guns are still blazing.
Guns schmuns. Make this into an analogy that is pertinent to religion. What are the guns of the non-surrendered religious? Free will? Is there any indication that God DID say to do whatever the heck we want with it?

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anastasia
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Message 68 of 300 (393722)
04-06-2007 3:30 PM
Reply to: Message 67 by ringo
04-06-2007 3:12 PM


Re: Acquiescence, Not Surrender
Ringo writes:
Letting Him guide our choices is not surrender.
I think it is.

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anastasia
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Message 73 of 300 (393780)
04-06-2007 10:57 PM
Reply to: Message 72 by purpledawn
04-06-2007 6:49 PM


Re: Acquiescence, Not Surrender
PurpleDawn writes:
Any group you join, requires that you follow their rules. God doesn't expect any less.
What control do you feel you have given up?
If you follow someone else's rules you have given up control. You do not, any longer, get to make up your own. What control have I given up? The freedom to do whatever I want even if it doesn't hurt anyone. The freedom to go wherever I want, to engage in certain sexual activities, to swing, to read porn, etc, etc, etc. I do not even have the freedom to think about whatever I want!
The only reason why this is a silly argument is because it is all willing surrender. There is no God with a sword and handcuffs. There never is a God who 'controls' a person. Therefore to say we give control to God is not explainable in the same terms as with a physical power.

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anastasia
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Message 74 of 300 (393781)
04-06-2007 11:00 PM
Reply to: Message 69 by ringo
04-06-2007 3:46 PM


Re: Own the gift
Ringo writes:
Free will is a gift that God gives us. If we don't make use of it, if we leave it nicely wrapped under the Christmas tree, we are diminishing the value of the gift.
Right. How is choosing to follow God by doing the right thing, less of an exercise of free will?

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anastasia
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Message 81 of 300 (393855)
04-07-2007 10:25 PM
Reply to: Message 79 by ringo
04-07-2007 12:19 PM


I feel that you *willfully* ignore parts of the Bible which speak directly about condemnation for not eventually surrendering, and I feel that this parable has more to do with the reception of sinners into heaven who HAVE surrendered. The master does accept the surrender...it is only because of the offer of such that the son was taken back. You will remember that before this surrender the son was 'dead' to the father.
That was a good post Ringo, and mine is still a traditional interpretation. It is often nice to have a fresh perspective to evaluate Scripture through. That is, as long as it maintains its integrity and context.

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