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Author Topic:   First Openly Gay Congressman dies... hero or villain?
Silent H
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Message 1 of 111 (356497)
10-14-2006 2:26 PM


Sorry to start a topic when I am likely to be gone for the next 3-4 days, but something came up that is relevant to a previous thread which is now closed.
Gerry Studds, the first openly gay congressman has died.
Normally deaths of prominent "first" figures are celebrated with retrospectives and the like by the minority communities they represent. I am interested in how people will approach this particular case.
The fact is that his being gay was made public in nearly the exact same way as Rep Foley's orientation was, through a sex scandal with underage pages. While Foley is getting lynched in the media for merely using sexually oriented emails and IMs with pages, Studds went much further than that.
Studds had sex with the page, who was underage at the time, and even took him to Morocco to engage in the acts so as not to break US laws. Under current law that itself would be a crime.
While some liberals are actively denouncing people tying Foley's activities to homosexuality, Studds' spouse has tied the two together...
Hara said Studds gave courage to gay people by winning re-election after publicly acknowledging his homosexuality.
"He gave people of his generation, of my generation, of future generations, the courage to do whatever they wanted to do," said Hara, 49.
Surely Hara has a point and it is something I tried to raise in the Foley thread.
Studds ignored congressional censure for engaging in sex with an underage page, never apologizing, and was rewarded by his constituency with a return to office for many more years. Does that mean something? And if so, then why should this precedent not have counted for Foley, or even been allowed?
So is this guy a hero, or a villain? Should he be celebrated, or his case reinspected in light of the Foley incident, and what were once considered contributions viewed with the same scorn shown to Foley?
I'll be back to address any replies, I just wanted to make sure I got this in before I left so I wouldn't forget it (or it became lost in the news). AbE: I am not interested in debating what people should think, but more to understand how people think this should be handled. My only questions are likely to be consistency issues between handling of Studds and Foley.
Edited by holmes, : AbE
Edited by holmes, : typo

holmes {in temp decloak from lurker mode}
"What a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away." (D.Bros)

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Silent H
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Message 88 of 111 (357226)
10-18-2006 9:30 AM


Studds v Foley
Daddy's home. It appears a lot of shenanigans have gone on while I was away. Thanks to the few who tried to keep things on topic.
One issue which has been brought up for the difference in treatment between Studds and Foley is hypocrisy. That is to say Foley had made legislation which would effect himself and seems to acknowledge guilt, rather than Studds who stood up against charges and felt no guilt.
That is something I personally feel separate the two men in character. But I don't see how that explains how they have been handled regarding their conduct. After all much commentary against Foley was not on hypocrisy, as if to suggest his behavior was otherwise credible, and instead focused on the "heinous" nature of his behavior in and of itself with hypocrisy being icing on the scandal cake.
Indeed within this thread some poster(s) who in another thread excoriated Foley's behavior on the specifics involved (IIRC claiming it didn't even matter if there wasn't a law), have here given Studds a pass on his admittedly much more extreme conduct.
Where Foley was condemned for emails and IMs, because cyber sex is sex, Clinton is apparently given a pass because many do not believe oral sex is sex.
I stand confused. And this kind of behavior is not just here.
An example from the left side of the media would be Jon Stewart's skewering of Foley. He repeatedly demonized the activities Foley was engaged in. They would equally have to hold for Studds. Stewart even criticized reps for linking gays (or gay rights) to what Foley did, when clearly Studds' exact same behavior had been lauded as a benefit for gays... yet Jon remains silent.
Perhaps a re-examination of age of consent (AoC) laws is in order, as it seems to underlie both these issues. Yet it doesn't seem that most believe Foley should escape criminal charges for what he did. That would (or logically should) impact Studds.
Edited by holmes, : clarity

holmes {in temp decloak from lurker mode}
"What a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away." (D.Bros)

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Silent H
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Message 90 of 111 (357238)
10-18-2006 10:54 AM
Reply to: Message 89 by jar
10-18-2006 10:22 AM


Re: Studds v Foley
Great reply.
If Foley had behaved as Studds did when confronted, how would his consituents reacted? If Studds incident were exposed today, how would the constituents of Studds react?
I am wondering this myself. One thing though, regardless of their political careers, how would their activity have been handled by the media.
While I agree that its not purely the media, I think the media handling is different from then and now and could possibly have changed everything for Studds. In fact I am sort of wondering if it is impacting Studds now.
If not for Foley would Studds be getting celebrated now much more openly, because he was the first openly gay congressman? Now it seems muted with some positive statements about his behavior (by the few speaking out for him) in direct contrast to what is being said about Foley's behavior.
Is the difference between how the two cases played out one of changing demographics and perceptions of the US population in general, one of regional differences among constituents, based on the different ways the two Congressmen handled themselves or based on a change in the adversarial system we call Government?
More good questions. I'd like to see opinions on this.
I personally believe times have changed. People back then were more liberal minded toward sexuality and did not fear sexual activity of minors as they do today. Thus, as you said, his homosexuality would likely have been more the question.
Nowadays it is near impossible to get past the near dementia society has on the topic of sexuality involving minors, such that when Foley says he is gay, people jeer him for connecting pedophilia with homosexuality.
I think Studds would have been fried if it happened today. In fact what he did would certainly have been a Felony. Thus what at one time was awarded as being no one else business and a courageous act, is at this is criminal and everyone's business.
Without this reality, I doubt the media would have found much to do with this story. After all the issue is 3 years old for Foley and only some sexual banter over email and IMs.

holmes {in temp decloak from lurker mode}
"What a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away." (D.Bros)

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Silent H
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Message 94 of 111 (357281)
10-18-2006 2:57 PM
Reply to: Message 91 by Wounded King
10-18-2006 10:57 AM


Re: Studds v Foley
Dean Hara makes it clear that he is talking about the fact that what he considered important was Studds' re-election after coming out publicly rather than his re-election despite being involved in a scandal with a page.
This raises the question Jar just did and I agree would be interesting. What if Foley had not resigned and his constituents were willing to vote him in again? Would his future lover be able to look at this form of coming out and vindication have been okay?
In this case one might ask if Foley would even be given a chance to run again, whereas Studds was.
So in fact Hara doesn't tie Studds' 'activity', having a sexual relationship with a 17 year old page, to his homosexuality except in as much as the page concerned was male.
You have missed my point. Liberal commentators have stated that with Foley, sexual interest in someone less than 18 IS pedophilia and should not be confused with homosexuality. With Studds, he actually had sex with someone under 18 and his activity IS considered homosexuality, with his re-election vindication for homosexuality. In a modern landscape would Studds have survived the link to pedophilia, and been able to assert himself as defending homosexuality?
Studds had one relationship with a 17 year old page whereas Foley seems to have had a pattern of approaching pages and establishing a semi-intimate relationship with a view to the possible development of that relationship into a sexual one once the pages have left the program. At least in some cases these approaches appear to have been unwelcome.
This I find rather convenient as an argument.
We do not have an e trail but we do know that Studds had actual sex with what is being called a minor in Foley's case and so pedophilic. Thus it doesn't matter what manner he gained that relationship. We have no idea if Studds contacted anyone else before the one relationship, or if he had not attained that relationship, he would have approached anyone else.
On the flipside we seem to have an extensive documentation on Foley's personal communications. Let's leave behind the fact that if you really believe in Studds' position you'd agree such prying on our part is none of our business, and pry anyway. What one finds is that he wrote several pages over the course of years. Some seem innocuous but perhaps probitive. Some were explicit. The extremely explicit conversations were NOT to anyone that was complaining, and appear to be quite consensual. In those emails he comes out and says the sexual references were fantasy and not for real action. On top of that in all cases that pages went and met with him (and how put out could they be if they actually met with the guy) absolutely nothing untoward happened.
So yes they are different. Studds had sex with a minor. Not only was he a hair away from having commited a crime at the time, under current federal laws he would have been guilty of a felony. Foley never had sex with any minors and it appears that whatever his fantasies were he never acted on them even when he had the chance. Oh yes, and for Foley it appears a page that didn't like his familiarity was able to end it by simply not responding.
Thus of "condemnable" activity, if it is based on actual activity with regards to "minors" then Studds is worse, with regard to numbers of pages verifiably contacted Foley is worse, and with regard to using pages they are equal. And the only reason Foley is known to be worse on numbers may be due to the changed nature of communication.
Again this hardly seems to be the case given the distinct nature of the activities.
Actually I gave Jon Stewart as a reference, but he is not the only one. There are plenty of leftwing blogspaces and regular media which attack Foley's conduct as it pertains to activity with minors (which would include what Studds did). There is another thread on Foley which contains quite a bit of venom from that angle.
But let's take Stewart. There certainly are more segments that he has had on that scandal
here is a page from which you can look for more. In one called "Fallout Boy" he specifically refs Studds, because a rep had done so. Only he didn't suggest there was a difference, he simply criticized reps tried to shift blame away from Foley by referring to a dem who "sodomized" a page. In others he continually pushes ages downward, as well as increases references to physical acts to connect Foley to overt pedophilia.
In your own clip Stewart criticizes Gingrich (who explained that if reps had gone against Foley early they would be accused of gay-bashing) by suggesting that reps equating gays to pedophiles (by which he is clearly refering to Foley) would itself be gay bashing. Thus he draws the line between Foley's activities and being gay, based on age. The same would go for Stubbs, unless one wants to play a game with differential AOC laws as the reason to condemn someone morally for something, and not for someone else.
I agree that Foley offers a few more opportunities for laughs. But if he (at the time) couldn't come up with something for a congressman named Studds being censured for having sex with a minor page, I'd say he'd lost it.

holmes {in temp decloak from lurker mode}
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Silent H
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Message 95 of 111 (357287)
10-18-2006 3:21 PM
Reply to: Message 93 by Jazzns
10-18-2006 12:34 PM


Re: Could it be?
I agree hypocrisy is part of the issue, but it is not the driving force for outrage against Foley. Also, I have to disagree on a few points...
there is a BIG difference in what Stubbs and Foley did. Stubbs was in a relationship with one of these young men. Foley had a HISTORY of actions constituting an abuse of his power as congressman for the direct purpose of exploitation. About the only thing similar between Foley and Stubbs is the age of the participants
Given that age is extremely important to the Foley scandal and is essentially identical to Studds that means there is very little difference between them, except in number and degree of activity. Studds' activity was much more extreme (actual sex), and though Foley seems to have had more contacts in actual fact we don't know how many Studds may have approached as there simply was not the same technology to record so many conversations.
Also Foley never actualized any of the contacts to relationships. We can't know if Studds would not have contacted more if his relationship had not materialized, or whether Foley would not have contacted so many if he had allowed a contact to become a relationship.
I agree that Clinton and Foley have absolutely 0 connection, however...
potential for harm to other potential victims of his depravity.
Here you mention Foley's depravity. Given that Studds got away with, and in some sense rewarded for, why wouldn't reps consider it risky to bring it forward?
And in looking back at Studds, why shouldn't people have viewed his activity as something to be concerned with for harm to other potential victims of his depravity. That is to say if Foley was looking to have sex with minors of the same age as Studds actually did, why is Studds' activity less depraved or harmful?

holmes {in temp decloak from lurker mode}
"What a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away." (D.Bros)

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Silent H
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Message 109 of 111 (357543)
10-19-2006 6:03 PM
Reply to: Message 105 by Hyroglyphx
10-19-2006 4:12 PM


please stop with the porn stuff
As interesting as the topic of porn is, could we please limit the extent of such posts, or move it to a new thread? Normally I wouldn't care but it has eaten up a lot of space already and the lengths of the posts are big.
One note...
But please don't play dumb like porn is something that is as benign as watching Sesame Street, m'kay?
I like porn quite a bit, it is as benign as watching Sesame Street unless you are watching it for the same reason as one watches Sesame Street. Porn is entertainment and not educational. Well I guess some could be, but that is generally not its sole goal.
Watching Sesame Street endlessly could conceivably send someone insane, just as much as anything else. Obsession is unhealthy.
One other note:
What I said was that serial killers have one thing in common between them all-- they are deeply entrenched in the world of pornography.
That is not true. There are serial killers, and mass murderers who did not like porn.
Your slippery slope from porn to murder is pure sophistry. Could I point out that more murders have been commited in the last several years by people who hate porn and read the Bible, Quran, and Torah than by anyone hooked on porn?
I could concoct the same slippery slope from feelings of loving/being loved by God to killing. Would you buy that explanation and suggest people not read religious texts?

holmes {in temp decloak from lurker mode}
"What a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away." (D.Bros)

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