Chris,
Now, about the requirements to be saved.
There are many ways to express this, all saying the same thing different ways. This is possible because, to be saved means that one is on a path, in a process, headed in a certain direction. On that path are many sign-posts that one must pass, any one of which might be thought of as a requirement to be saved.
But the best overall description of that pathway is called repentance, or changing one's mind, where change is exhaustive, as in being born again, or renewed in one's thinking. Normally, as much as possible, this means choosing a life, called discipleship, where one lives in the company of someone who is committed to teaching you ways to change your mind. One gets baptized into various sets of rules that structure this learning process, rules that one can plan on studying forever. This is known as being baptized in (committed to) the name or rules of the Father (the law and the prophets), the Son, (His 140 or so imperative voice commandments), and the Holy Spirit, (the many directives in the scriptures that are based on the Holy Spirit, plus what the Spirit orders day by day.) Actually learning the commandments of Yeshua is the curricular structure around which one fulfills these baptismal commitments. The state of discipleship normally means moving in with whoever is teaching you. You know that you are saved because you hear God telling you that you are His child. "He walks with me, and He talks with me, and He tells me I am His own." From hearing this message, faith comes, through which you have salvation. Most of us hear this at first in the voice of the one discipling us, who we know is speaking for God, as confirmed by their testimony of Yeshua walking in the flesh, and shedding His blood to purchase us. They watch over our souls as one who has to give an account, and in that work, ask God where we are. Then they tell us what they heard from God. Obviously, if our leaders hear God tell them that we are lost, they will call us again to repentance. If they hear God tell that we are saved, they will reassure us.
We are commanded by the Spirit to be "very diligent" to be sure of our election and calling. Our signs of eternal life are thus,
1. We are comforted by the fact that we are learning, and not by what we "know."
2. We are told, daily, that we are saved, either by God Himself, or by His spokesmen in our life.
3. We consider ourselves disciples of Yeshua, living and walking covanentally with His current incarnation, His body or church, as that body teaches us His commandments.
4. Our main goals in life are to hear His voice, and to learn by heart to keep the 140 or so commandments that He left with His first disciples/apostles to teach us.
5. We are clean, and cleansed daily, of institutional influences and other bad company. Beware the leaven of the Christian Churchmen.
6. We know many scriptural laws, and commandments, none of which do we obey by the letter, but all of which guide us in walking in the Spirit. Our acts of repenting, rejoicing, letting our light shine, Sabbath keeping, whatever, are different every time we set out to obey.
Anyone not meeting these requirements must do this. They must go to someone they know personally, that they respect above most or all others, and ask them to teach them the rules for knowing the truth. If that person doesn't know, beseech them to go learn, and bring back what they learn to you. Say, "I choose life." Pray for God, calling on His name--using His name, Jehovah, Yeshua--to choose you. Open the Bible, find an imperative voice command, and ask God to speak to you about how to obey. Fast, give, walk. Do all of this, in the order given, with all your might. The Holy Spirit will save.
Remember, He wants you and all men saved more than you or any of us. If we do our best, going for His family life, rejecting institutional ways, He will meet us more than half-way.
Just don't ever do anything spiritual with anyone, that doesn't happen entirely within your family life. Going to Church is deadly. "None who go to her return, Nor do they regain the paths of life."
Stephen