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Author Topic:   Homosexuality and the bible: Round 2 - morality.
riVeRraT
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Message 226 of 276 (111653)
05-30-2004 10:40 PM
Reply to: Message 222 by Rrhain
05-30-2004 9:13 PM


Re: Only One Unambiguous Reference.
Thats all fine and dandy and wrong and has nothing to do with the topic.

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sidelined
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Message 227 of 276 (111658)
05-30-2004 10:53 PM
Reply to: Message 220 by TheNewGuy03
05-30-2004 9:02 PM


Re: Only One Unambiguous Reference.
TNG03
1) What defines love?
We humans do.
2) Many people tell me what's wrong with homosexuality. What's right with it?
It is the expression of human love between people of the same sex.Always a good thing.Including people who are heterosexual.
3) We accept people for who they are, but should we accept their behaviors on the same scale?
Of course we do as long as they are not forcing others into that which they either do not wantor,in the case of minors,that which they are not emotionally prepared for.And this applies to both homosexual and heterosexual orientations.Bi-sexual too I hasten to add.
4) Do you think that there is a standard upon which our life should be based on?
Yes as long as it is flexible enough to deal with the complexities of human interaction in relationships of all sorts. Not just sex.
5) Why are homosexuals pushing to get their behavior taught in schools? Why not teach heterosexuality also?
I cannot answer that as in my neck of the woods I have yet to see cuuricula that incude Homosexuality 101.But if there is I do not believe it would be a problem to teach heterosexuality as well.Again do we get to teach Bi-sexuality as well? Or Sadomasochism? Fetishes?
Can you believe the rush on to university if there were a Phd in sex?Yehaah!!Damn finals would be a blast!
6) If all behavior should be allowed, then why not legalize polygamic and polyandric marriages? How about bestiality? Public sex? Nothing's wrong with it, right?
Again,as long as it does not force people into things they would rather not participate in,why would we deny others the right to engage in those things that they feel comfortable with?
Let me ask you a question.Would you be against women organizing to form a political body to enforce fertilization only artificially and eliminate sex altogether? This way they could avoid some of the pain and I take it, a lot of frustration.They could also plan for children much easier which would eliminate a lot of unwanted pregnancies.As a consideration of men's needs LOL they could attach a rider to the bill they would pass to allow access to nude pictures of women and we could vent ourselves through masturbation.Would you be against this?
P.S. I do hope your wife and/or significant other is not looking over to see this before you answer.I would not want to make life too difficult for you.

"Science is the belief in the ignorance of experts. "

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Rrhain
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Message 228 of 276 (111720)
05-31-2004 3:17 AM
Reply to: Message 216 by riVeRraT
05-30-2004 6:37 PM


Re: Only One Unambiguous Reference.
riVeRraT responds to me:
quote:
Are the one homophoblic? Cause I'm not.
And yet, everything you say indicates that you are.
Why are you concerned about other people being gay? Phobia is an unjustified negative emotional response to something that isn't a threat. You act as if I should be deathly worried over my children being gay. That's an unjustified emotional response to something that isn't a threat. So what if my kids are gay. That doesn't lessen them in any way, shape, or form so why should I be worried about it?
quote:
All rocket scientists could grow their own food,
No, they couldn't. They're rocket scientists, not farmers. You think your typical rocket scientist is capable of using a combine? A thresher? Knows which crops should be planted in the spring, which in the summer, which in the fall? How much water and fertilizer to use?
Farming is a full-time job. If the rocket scientist were to become a farmer, he wouldn't be a rocket scientist anymore. Rocket scientists spend their times in the lab measuring aerodynamic flow, thrust ratios, fuel mixtures, etc.
quote:
as well as hunt too, or fish.
No, he couldn't. He's a rocket scientist, not a hunter or a fisherman. You think the typical rocket scientist knows how to operate a fishing boat? Where to cast the nets out in the deep ocean? When spawning season is so as not to fish when the fish are reproducing, thus ensuring the next generation?
Fishing is a full-time job. If the rocket scientist were to become a fisher or a hunter, he wouldn't be a rocket scientist anymore.
quote:
So they wouldn't die, but a gay couple cannot reproduce no matter how hard they try.
You act like there's only two people in the world. And yet strangely, despite the fact that they're sexually attracted to people of the same sex, gay people manage to have children...by using sex!
quote:
Being moral also includes believing in God.
Incorrect.
Otherwise, atheists would be incapable of being moral. Since they are moral and don't have god, it necessarily is disproven that morality requires god.
quote:
How does being a rocket scientist compare then?
Stealing is against the law even for rocket scientists.
The question to you is: If everybody were a rocket scientist, we would all die. Therefore, it is immoral to be a rocket scientist.
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They do not do me harm.
Then why do you care so much about it? Why did you say you wouldn't vote for a law guaranteeing them equal treatment? If something causes no harm, why should there be a law against it?
This is what I mean by the unjustified negative emotional response to something that isn't a threat. If there is no harm to you, why do you seek to stop it?
quote:
just no law for it.
This is what I mean by the unjustified negative emotional response to something that isn't a threat. Why shouldn't there be a law for it? There's a law for your side. Don't you believe in equal treatment under the law? Isn't one aspect of "good" morality that one treat others fairly?
Where is the harm of letting others do what you do?
quote:
quote:
Why are you so gung-ho to create a law prohibiting something that has absolutely no effect upon you?
Of course it affects me, and you too. Isn't that obvious?
Obviously not or I wouldn't have asked.
Be specific.
How does the sex of the participants of someone else's marriage affect you? Do they automatically get an easement on your property? Get to vote extra times in elections?
quote:
quote:
This coming from the one who can't seem to go five posts without inserting some sort of psychological analysis into his response?
I haven't judged anyone here.
Johnny, let's go to the tape, shall we?
Message 188:
Thats imature thinking.
Message 137:
So being Gay goes directly against the will of God, and all the teachings of the Bible.
Being Gay is also hypocritical.
So being that it is against the law of nature, and against Gods will, I would say its a bad idea.
Message 217:
Dude get help fast.
Message 28 of the Take the Atheist Challenge!!! thread:
Why is it that you get so angry when someone trys to share the truth with you? Is it that much of a problem for you?
Message 29 of the Take the Atheist Challenge!!! thread:
I also never assumed anything, but by your defensive reaction, I wonder.
Message 40 of the Take the Atheist Challenge!!! thread:
But too bad because they are my beliefs and not yours, no need to get angry.
Message 88 of the Take the Atheist Challenge!!! thread:
Anyway I'm sure rhain is going to write me a book tonight, so I better go study the Bible.
Message 149 of the Take the Atheist Challenge!!! thread:
I hope reality smacks you in the face. Because I think your awesome.
I pray for it, seriously.
Message 152 of the Take the Atheist Challenge!!! thread (and I love this one because this is your entire post):
You little tiny nothing, lmao. I can't believe you just tried to explain the start of the universe. Like you could.
Don't feel bad, I am nothing with you.
Message 157 of the Take the Atheist Challenge!!! thread:
You won't reveal yourself, because you are afraid I might get to the bottom of something. You are afraid of the truth? How would I know, you won't tell me. Babble.
Enough of that thread.
Message 157 of the Religion in Government thread:
They should state their real reason for not wanting to have anything to do with God, rather than making up lies.
I think that's enough.
You've done nothing but judge people from the moment you got here.
Oh, what the hell. One last one:
Message 166:
For you, "if" he does exsist, then you will find out
Telling somebody he's going to go to hell isn't exactly a non-judgemental act.
quote:
Plain and simple, I will not support it.
Nobody said you had to.
Instead, you are being asked to be fair and equal in regard to it.
If straight people are allowed to do something, then gay people must be allowed to do the same thing. Otherwise, you are being unfair, unequal, and unamerican in your treatment.
You do believe in equal treatment under the law, don't you? Doesn't your book say something about that? "Render unto Caesar that which is due Caesar," isn't it? This country requires equal treatment under the law, so why do you wish to stop it when it comes to gay people?

Rrhain
WWJD? JWRTFM!

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berberry
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Message 229 of 276 (111721)
05-31-2004 3:25 AM
Reply to: Message 218 by Hangdawg13
05-30-2004 7:24 PM


Here we go again! The story of Lot and the city of Sodom.
Hangdawg13 blathers:
quote:
The story of Sodom and Gommorah in Genesis 19 describes how the city was filled with homosexuals.
Hell no it doesn't! I knew someone would eventually bring up the disgusting, perverted, immoral story of the supreme coward Lot and the city of Sodom in order to justify their small-minded bigotry. I guess it had to be you!
Why is it that the only thing you fundies notice is the fact that some men in the city were apparently homosexual? How dumb does a person have to be to NOT notice that the men of the city of Sodom were RAPISTS? Where do you fundies acquire such an unnatural, perverted view of the world that when you read this story, the only sin you notice is homosexuality? Is gay sex between consenting adults really worse than rape?
You say Lot "became afraid". Indeed he did. Lot was a chicken-shit. I challenge you to find me, in any work of literature ever written in any language, any character who was a greater coward than Lot.
Lot was too much the chicken-shit to stand up and fight the rapists so he offers his virgin daughters to be gang-raped. What kind of man offers his virgin daughters to be gang-raped? Only the greatest coward in the history of mankind, your hero Lot!
Do you care to stay and defend this chicken-shit hero of yours or will you cut and run, never to be heard from again at EvC?

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berberry
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Message 230 of 276 (111722)
05-31-2004 3:41 AM
Reply to: Message 228 by Rrhain
05-31-2004 3:17 AM


Re: Only One Unambiguous Reference.
Rrhain writes:
quote:
So what if my kids are gay. That doesn't lessen them in any way, shape, or form so why should I be worried about it?
I agree entirely with your sentiment, but at least to some extent you should be worried. A kid can be made to feel worthless if he's found to be gay. It depends on the attitudes of the other kids, mostly, but if I were a parent here in Mississippi and my kid showed signs of being gay, I would worry about it.
Of course that doesn't mean that I'd value him or her any less, it just means that I'd be more likely to worry about things I probably wouldn't otherwise.

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Rrhain
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Posts: 6351
From: San Diego, CA, USA
Joined: 05-03-2003


Message 231 of 276 (111723)
05-31-2004 3:52 AM
Reply to: Message 218 by Hangdawg13
05-30-2004 7:24 PM


Hangdawg13 writes:
quote:
The story of Sodom and Gommorah in Genesis 19 describes how the city was filled with homosexuals.
No, it doesn't. It describes how the city was filled with wicked people. At no point is there ever any mention made of gay people living in Sodom. In fact, the story explicitly points out that the townspeople were straight.
Why else would Lot offer his daughters to the crowd at his door?
Oh, you must think that the phrase, "so that we may know them," means they wanted to have sex. Well, no. While it is true that the Hebrew word "yada" can mean having sex (as previously seen in Genesis when it says Adam "knew" his wife), it only means that when phrased in a particular way.
The phrasing used in Genesis 19 is used over 100 times in the Bible and it is never translated as meaning sex in any of those other times. Why is this one, single time different?
In order to understand Genesis 19, you have to back up to Genesis 14. You see, Sodom had just been through a war in which they got their butts handed to them on a plate. Lot's relative (the Bible seems to be confused over whether Lot is a brother or a nephew), Abraham, comes to save Sodom from utter defeat and in the process, publically humiliates the king.
Lot, who is an outsider and not from Sodom, then brings in two strangers into town. What do you think would be the reason the townsmen are at the door wondering who the hell these two strangers are? Sex? Or possibly they're wondering if they're about to be invaded.
Suppose, for the sake of argument, that the US went to war with Iraq and got its butt kicked. Hussein's brother, who's been living in Washington, DC for the past few years, is suddenly seen with two strange Iraqis who managed to slip past immigration.
Do you think when the INS and the FBI come knocking on the door that they'll have sex on their minds? Or perhaps when they say, "Bring them out so that we may know them," they really mean just that: Bring them out so that we may know just who the hell they are and what they're doing in our town.
Genesis 19 makes it perfectly clear that the townsfolk had absolutely no interest in sex when they went to Lot's door. Lot comes out and offers them his two virginal daughters to rape as they please and they become even more enraged:
Genesis 19:8: Behold now, I have two daughters which have not known man; let me, I pray you, bring them out unto you, and do ye to them as is good in your eyes: only unto these men do nothing; for therefore came they under the shadow of my roof.
19:9: And they said, Stand back. And they said again, This one fellow came in to sojourn, and he will needs be a judge: now will we deal worse with thee, than with them. And they pressed sore upon the man, even Lot, and came near to break the door.
There is absolutely no indication of desire for sex upon the part of the townsfolk.
And let us not forget, your implication is not just that Sodom had many gay people. It is that every single person in Sodom was gay:
Genesis 19:4: But before they lay down, the men of the city, even the men of Sodom, compassed the house round, both old and young, all the people from every quarter:
The entire town is outside Lot's door. Every single one. If the claim is that they didn't take Lot up on his offer to have sex with his daughters because they were gay, then that means every single person in Sodom was gay (except the women, who were also there, since why would they turn down an offer of sex with other women?)
So how on earth did Sodom manage to survive with no heterosexuals?
And for that matter, who on earth were Lot's daughters engaged to? They were engaged to other Sodomites, so if all the men of Sodom were gay, how was this going to work? If all the men in Sodom were gay, wouldn't Lot have offered his future sons-in-law rather than his daughters?
quote:
Also, God originaly designed both the bodies and souls of men to love women and vice versa.
And yet, men are quite capable of falling in love and having really good sex with other men. Women are quite capable of falling in love and having really good sex with other women. Ergo, there is no way to argue that homosexuality is some sort of "going against the design." If it weren't designed for that, then you couldn't do it.
You can do it, therefore it must have been designed to allow it.
quote:
If you or anyone is truly interested in the truth and want me to look up the supporting passages for this statement please e-mail me. And don't be afraid to read the primary source: the Bible.
Um, I just did and it actually says the exact opposite of what you claimed.
Sodom wasn't destroyed because of homosexuality. The townsfolk weren't outside Lot's door in order to have sex with the angels.
Instead, the townsfolk were outside Lot's door because he brought strangers into their town.
And in all of the places in the Bible where the "sin of Sodom" is mentioned, not once is sex ever brought up. Isaiah 1 compares Judah to Sodom and Gomorrah and yet not once is the question of homosexuality brought up.
Jeremiah 23 talks about the sexual activities going on in Sodom and Gomorrah, but apparently it was adultery:
Jeremiah 23:14: I have seen also in the prophets of Jerusalem an horrible thing: they commit adultery, and walk in lies: they strengthen also the hands of evildoers, that none doth return from his wickedness; they are all of them unto me as Sodom, and the inhabitants thereof as Gomorrah.
Ezekiel 16 gets more specific, but again homosexuality is never mentioned:
Ezekiel 16:49: Behold, this was the iniquity of thy sister Sodom, pride, fulness of bread, and abundance of idleness was in her and in her daughters, neither did she strengthen the hand of the poor and needy.
16:50: And they were haughty, and committed abomination before me: therefore I took them away as I saw good.
Even the New Testament can't seem to manage to find homosexuality in Sodom:
Matthew 10:14: And whosoever shall not receive you, nor hear your words, when ye depart out of that house or city, shake off the dust of your feet.
10:15: Verily I say unto you, It shall be more tolerable for the land of Sodom and Gomorrha in the day of judgment, than for that city.
Luke 10:11: Even the very dust of your city, which cleaveth on us, we do wipe off against you: notwithstanding be ye sure of this, that the kingdom of God is come nigh unto you.
10:12: But I say unto you, that it shall be more tolerable in that day for Sodom, than for that city.
2 Peter 2 is just vague. The closest we can get is
Jude 1:7: Even as Sodom and Gomorrha, and the cities about them in like manner, giving themselves over to fornication, and going after strange flesh, are set forth for an example, suffering the vengeance of eternal fire.
Some translators seem to think that "going after strange flesh" means homosexuality, but there's no reason to assume that. "Sarkos eteras" is not Greek for "homosexual."

Rrhain
WWJD? JWRTFM!

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berberry
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Message 232 of 276 (111724)
05-31-2004 4:11 AM
Reply to: Message 231 by Rrhain
05-31-2004 3:52 AM


Rrhain writes:
quote:
The phrasing used in Genesis 19 is used over 100 times in the Bible and it is never translated as meaning sex in any of those other times. Why is this one, single time different?
Where is the research on this? I don't doubt you because I've checked into some other things you've said that sounded incredible to me. I can't find the research on this, though (perhaps I'm just not searching correctly). I know that there are two possible meanings for 'know', but as I understand the majority of biblical critics, both Christian and secular, assign the carnal definition to this word as used in Gen 19.

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Rrhain
Member
Posts: 6351
From: San Diego, CA, USA
Joined: 05-03-2003


Message 233 of 276 (111725)
05-31-2004 4:15 AM
Reply to: Message 220 by TheNewGuy03
05-30-2004 9:02 PM


Re: Only One Unambiguous Reference.
TheNewGuy03 responds to me:
quote:
Well, God's most blatant disagreement was concerning the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah, two cities in the Middle East.
But the destruction of Sodom had nothing to do with homosexuality. It had to do with inhospitality. As I described previously, when the townsfolk (and remember, the entire town was outside Lot's door) say, "Bring them out so that we may know them," they do not mean "so that we may have sex with them." They really did mean "know" as in "identify."
Go back and read Genesis 14 and then go on to Genesis 19. If you had just been defeated in battle and the brother of the guy who saved your asses but publically humiliated your king brought in a couple of strangers, what would you do?
Suppose we had our butts kicked in Iraq. We then find Saddam Hussein's brother living in Washington, DC and has with him two guys who never went through immigration.
Do you think the FBI and the INS would be knocking on the door in order to have sex?
quote:
1) What defines love? Is it sexual love (eros), or is it unconditional love (agape)?
Why can't it be both? You seem to think that being gay is all about lust and can't possibly be about romance.
quote:
2) Many people tell me what's wrong with homosexuality. What's right with it?
Nice try, but you're the one making the claim. It is your burden of proof.
Gay people love each other. Isn't that what's right with it?
quote:
3) We accept people for who they are, but should we accept their behaviors on the same scale?
If they don't cause you any harm and actually bring joy and fulfillment to the people who engage in them, we most definitely should.
For someone who is part of a religious group that claims to preach love, peace, and joy, why are you trying to deny that love, peace, and joy to certain individuals?
quote:
4) Do you think that there is a standard upon which our life should be based on?
Yes.
If it neither breaks your leg nor picks your pocket, you had better have a damned good reason for trying to stop other people from doing it. "My god says it's icky" isn't a good reason, let alone a damned good one.
quote:
5) Why are homosexuals pushing to get their behavior taught in schools? Why not teach heterosexuality also?
They aren't. Therefore, your question is meaningless.
And they do teach heterosexuality in schools. What do you think sex education is about except to explain how people get pregnant? You do understand that when pregnancy is brought on by sex, it is because of heterosexual sex, yes?
quote:
6) If all behavior should be allowed, then why not legalize polygamic and polyandric marriages? How about bestiality? Public sex? Nothing's wrong with it, right?
Wrong.
First, not all behaviour should be allowed.
Second, polygamy (which includes polyandry. "Polygamy" is having more than one spouse, no matter what the sex. "Polygyny" is having more than one wife) has nothing to do with homosexuality. There are specific legal and financial questions that need to be answered with regard to polygamy that makes it distinct from same-sex marriage.
Third, bestiality violates consent. An animal cannot give consent, therefore it is disallowed.
Fourth, public sex is a health hazard.
Thus, none of your arguments stand up.
Now, do be a dear and hold up your end of the bargain:
What would be the harm in treating gay people equally under the law? Since the US has a constitutional requirement to treat all citizens equally under the law, what is the basis for doing away with that requirement when it comes to gay people?

Rrhain
WWJD? JWRTFM!

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Rrhain
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Posts: 6351
From: San Diego, CA, USA
Joined: 05-03-2003


Message 234 of 276 (111726)
05-31-2004 4:15 AM
Reply to: Message 220 by TheNewGuy03
05-30-2004 9:02 PM


Re: Only One Unambiguous Reference.
TheNewGuy03 responds to me:
quote:
Well, God's most blatant disagreement was concerning the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah, two cities in the Middle East.
But the destruction of Sodom had nothing to do with homosexuality. It had to do with inhospitality. As I described previously, when the townsfolk (and remember, the entire town was outside Lot's door) say, "Bring them out so that we may know them," they do not mean "so that we may have sex with them." They really did mean "know" as in "identify."
Go back and read Genesis 14 and then go on to Genesis 19. If you had just been defeated in battle and the brother of the guy who saved your asses but publically humiliated your king brought in a couple of strangers, what would you do?
Suppose we had our butts kicked in Iraq. We then find Saddam Hussein's brother living in Washington, DC and has with him two guys who never went through immigration.
Do you think the FBI and the INS would be knocking on the door in order to have sex?
quote:
1) What defines love? Is it sexual love (eros), or is it unconditional love (agape)?
Why can't it be both? You seem to think that being gay is all about lust and can't possibly be about romance.
quote:
2) Many people tell me what's wrong with homosexuality. What's right with it?
Nice try, but you're the one making the claim. It is your burden of proof.
Gay people love each other. Isn't that what's right with it?
quote:
3) We accept people for who they are, but should we accept their behaviors on the same scale?
If they don't cause you any harm and actually bring joy and fulfillment to the people who engage in them, we most definitely should.
For someone who is part of a religious group that claims to preach love, peace, and joy, why are you trying to deny that love, peace, and joy to certain individuals?
quote:
4) Do you think that there is a standard upon which our life should be based on?
Yes.
If it neither breaks your leg nor picks your pocket, you had better have a damned good reason for trying to stop other people from doing it. "My god says it's icky" isn't a good reason, let alone a damned good one.
quote:
5) Why are homosexuals pushing to get their behavior taught in schools? Why not teach heterosexuality also?
They aren't. Therefore, your question is meaningless.
And they do teach heterosexuality in schools. What do you think sex education is about except to explain how people get pregnant? You do understand that when pregnancy is brought on by sex, it is because of heterosexual sex, yes?
quote:
6) If all behavior should be allowed, then why not legalize polygamic and polyandric marriages? How about bestiality? Public sex? Nothing's wrong with it, right?
Wrong.
First, not all behaviour should be allowed.
Second, polygamy (which includes polyandry. "Polygamy" is having more than one spouse, no matter what the sex. "Polygyny" is having more than one wife) has nothing to do with homosexuality. There are specific legal and financial questions that need to be answered with regard to polygamy that makes it distinct from same-sex marriage.
Third, bestiality violates consent. An animal cannot give consent, therefore it is disallowed.
Fourth, public sex is a health hazard.
Thus, none of your arguments stand up.
Now, do be a dear and hold up your end of the bargain:
What would be the harm in treating gay people equally under the law? Since the US has a constitutional requirement to treat all citizens equally under the law, what is the basis for doing away with that requirement when it comes to gay people?

Rrhain
WWJD? JWRTFM!

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custard
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Message 235 of 276 (111727)
05-31-2004 4:17 AM
Reply to: Message 229 by berberry
05-31-2004 3:25 AM


Re: Here we go again! The story of Lot and the city of Sodom.
Berberry challenges:
I challenge you to find me, in any work of literature ever written in any language, any character who was a greater coward than Lot.
Chicken Little

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Rrhain
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Posts: 6351
From: San Diego, CA, USA
Joined: 05-03-2003


Message 236 of 276 (111728)
05-31-2004 4:20 AM
Reply to: Message 225 by riVeRraT
05-30-2004 10:34 PM


Re: Only One Unambiguous Reference.
riVeRraT responds to me:
quote:
quote:
If it is difficult to understand your point because of poor writing skills, wouldn't you want to know?
This hasn't happened yet,
It most certainly has. In this very thread, you have claimed to love gay people and yet followed it immediately by saying you would perform a very unloving action.
Those two statements cannot both be true. It is a poor writer who contradicts himself in literally adjacent sentences.
So which is it? Do you love gay people or do you wish to vote against laws requiring equal treatment for gay people?
quote:
Don't take my word for it
But you're the one making the claim. Therefore it is up to you to justify it.

Rrhain
WWJD? JWRTFM!

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Rrhain
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Posts: 6351
From: San Diego, CA, USA
Joined: 05-03-2003


Message 237 of 276 (111729)
05-31-2004 4:21 AM
Reply to: Message 226 by riVeRraT
05-30-2004 10:40 PM


Re: Only One Unambiguous Reference.
riVeRraT avoids the question:
quote:
Thats all fine and dandy and wrong and has nothing to do with the topic.
You didn't answer my question. This is most definitely on topic because you are claiming that being gay is a choice...an immoral choice...and that choosing heterosexuality is the moral choice.
How did you come about your heterosexuality? Did you make a careful analysis of the situation, experiment with various sexual techniques, and realize that while that humpy dock-worker had his appeal, he just didn't have the breasts you really craved?
So you're saying if you wanted to, you could have a hot, sweaty, steamy man-sex session without any reservations?
I think the word you're looking for is "bisexual."

Rrhain
WWJD? JWRTFM!

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berberry
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Message 238 of 276 (111730)
05-31-2004 4:28 AM
Reply to: Message 235 by custard
05-31-2004 4:17 AM


Re: Here we go again! The story of Lot and the city of Sodom.
I've forgotten so you'll have to remind me: what did Chicken Little do that was even more cowardly than offering one's own virgin daughters to be gang-raped?

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Rrhain
Member
Posts: 6351
From: San Diego, CA, USA
Joined: 05-03-2003


Message 239 of 276 (111731)
05-31-2004 4:34 AM
Reply to: Message 230 by berberry
05-31-2004 3:41 AM


Re: Only One Unambiguous Reference.
berberry responds to me:
quote:
A kid can be made to feel worthless if he's found to be gay.
A kid can be made to feel worthless over any trait you care to consider. Why is homosexuality any more worrisome than being left-handed, needing to wear glasses, needing braces, develops breasts early, is overly tall, is overly short, has a lisp, or any of the other myriad things that will cause people to tease and torture their fellows?
By this logic, parents of children who aren't white shouldn't have children but instead should try to adopt white children since racism is still a huge problem in this country. Oh, but that would invite the taunts of those who would make fun of the white child for having non-white parents...so best that non-whites never have children at all.
You do see the ridiculousness of what you're saying, yes? That because there is a problem, we shouldn't work to fix it but rather coddle those who are the instigators of the problem.
I will certainly worry about the emotional health of my children. I will not, however, obsess over the particular details. Sooner or later, that kid is going to walk in the door in tears because of how the other kids treated him. The last thing I want is for there to be any doubt that I think there is something wrong with him or that I wished he were any different than he is.
To do anything else is to blame the victim.
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It depends on the attitudes of the other kids, mostly, but if I were a parent here in Mississippi and my kid showed signs of being gay, I would worry about it.
Personally, I'd be worried for the other kids, their parents, and the school system that would allow such things to happen. I was bullied as a kid and there is no way in hell anybody is going to do that to my child and get away with it. We're the adults. We are the ones that are supposed to be looking out for our children and making sure they don't do things they're not supposed to do. We don't accept other adults doing the things we let children get away with. The sooner the kids learn that it is not alright to make fun of others, the better. The sooner the kids learn that their actions have real and significant consequences, the sooner they'll learn to think before acting.

Rrhain
WWJD? JWRTFM!

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custard
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Message 240 of 276 (111732)
05-31-2004 4:37 AM
Reply to: Message 238 by berberry
05-31-2004 4:28 AM


Re: Here we go again! The story of Lot and the city of Sodom.
berberry queries:
I've forgotten so you'll have to remind me: what did Chicken Little do that was even more cowardly than offering one's own virgin daughters to be gang-raped?
Well, it might just be me, but I thought it was pretty crappy how he/she ended up getting Turkey Lurkey and Goosey Lucy killed. Don't know if they were virgins though. Not sure how that whole cloaca thing works.
But for all time human cowards, I'd say you made a compelling case for Lot.

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