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Grizz
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Message 46 of 66 (408603)
07-03-2007 5:48 PM
Reply to: Message 42 by anastasia
07-03-2007 11:46 AM


'A life of pleasure' is a euphemism for a sinful indolency. I consider myself to be surrounded by pleasures of the appropriate kind, but it's not so much of wondering what is pleasurable, but of how one uses pleasurable things correctly.
Without going in circles here -
What is an appropriate pleasure? I assume your answer will be a pleasure that divine revelation allows us to engage in without there being any moral indescretion.
Back to my original hypothesis - In this case your decision to act is ultimately driven by 2 alternatives.
One would choose not to engage in forbidden pleasure out of love - the feeling of guilt or shame brought about by engaging in the illicit act would comparitively bring more distress and negative feelings than the pleasure brought about by sampling the forbidden fruits.
Or
One acts out of fear of punishment - the short term benefit of the pleasure is outweighed by the potential negative benefit of receiving eternal punishment. For some this choice to follow the law also adds to one's chances of insuring eternal pleasure.
So my original hypothesis still remains uncontested - we all act and make decisions based on the principle of maximum return - we weigh suffering vs pleasure and so act to come out on top. Regardless of what your decision is the motive was ultimately based on one's desires and the goal to come out ahead. We do nothing without gaining some type of benefit.
Edited by Grizz, : No reason given.

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anastasia
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Message 47 of 66 (408619)
07-03-2007 8:10 PM
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07-03-2007 5:48 PM


Grizz writes:
We do nothing without gaining some type of benefit.
I have already concluded thusly elsewhere.
The only instance where I could say that we do anything without recompense is in a true act of love.
Edited by anastasia, : No reason given.

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pelican
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Message 48 of 66 (408621)
07-03-2007 8:16 PM
Reply to: Message 43 by anastasia
07-03-2007 11:53 AM


Re: Happiness is too expensive?
You are the one defining pleasure as hedonism or self-indulgence, not I. However, sacrificing on any level for any reason perpetuates sacrifice. Our children are far closer than we imagine. They learn a way of being rather than a way of doing. Sacrifice is martyrdom. Is that who you are?

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Grizz
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Message 49 of 66 (408623)
07-03-2007 8:51 PM
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07-03-2007 8:16 PM


Re: Happiness is too expensive?
You are the one defining pleasure as hedonism or self-indulgence, not I. However, sacrificing on any level for any reason perpetuates sacrifice. Our children are far closer than we imagine. They learn a way of being rather than a way of doing. Sacrifice is martyrdom. Is that who you are?
????

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Grizz
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Message 50 of 66 (408625)
07-03-2007 9:07 PM
Reply to: Message 47 by anastasia
07-03-2007 8:10 PM


have already concluded thusly elsewhere.
The only instance where I could say that we do anything without recompense is in a true act of love.
An act of love is an act of emotion. Emotions certainly motivate us to perform actions. However we only act if we believe this action will produce a benefit - either physical or psychological.
An act is either an act or it isn't. There is no True act of love anymore than there is a True act of fear.

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anastasia
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Message 51 of 66 (408628)
07-03-2007 9:53 PM
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07-03-2007 9:07 PM


Grizz writes:
However we only act if we believe this action will produce a benefit - either physical or psychological.
I don't know about all that. Why can't someone just act because they love? I mean, it may be rare...

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anastasia
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Message 52 of 66 (408629)
07-03-2007 9:56 PM
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07-03-2007 8:16 PM


Re: Happiness is too expensive?
dameeva writes:
You are the one defining pleasure as hedonism or self-indulgence, not I.
Yes, that is how I used the expression 'a life of pleasure'.
They learn a way of being rather than a way of doing. Sacrifice is martyrdom. Is that who you are?
I don't know what this has to do with the topic, but yes, I am often a martyr when it comes to my children. It is not about 'being' but about doing what needs to be done.

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pelican
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Message 53 of 66 (408701)
07-04-2007 6:21 AM
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07-03-2007 9:56 PM


Re: Happiness is too expensive?
I suppose matyrdom brings its own rewards. Whatever makes you happy, I guess.

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Grizz
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Message 54 of 66 (408728)
07-04-2007 9:49 AM
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07-03-2007 9:53 PM


I don't know about all that. Why can't someone just act because they love? I mean, it may be rare...
But my whole question at the start of the post was why do we do anything at all? Why don't we just sit there like a tree stump? The anwswer is because we have an organ called a brain. This organ has been programmed to react to external and internal stimulii and impusles. Like any other living thing it does not react without an impulse. It demands payment for an action.
I am not trying to negate the subjective importance of emotions and turn them into mechanical appendages without meaning. After all it is the emotions themselves that give our lives meaning and purpose. Regardless of who you are or what religion or creed or position you hold your emotions are the source of the joy and love and all those other nice things that for me are the foundation for an objective human morality. Our positive experiences and emotions are the basis of good - pain and suffering are evil.
I am not a Christian. I respect your views and your right to hold them. Although I remain agnostic on the more general postion of a 'first cause' I do not hold a belief in a personal deity. What I see from many who do hold belief in divine revelation is the claim that without a religion one cannot live a moral life. My emotions of empathy,guilt, and shame keep me from killing, stealing, raping, ect. I could not live with myself in the morning. My brain would weigh the consquences and decide the payment for the actions is too small - the result is unbearable emotional pain. I am not denying the importance of Civil Law either. It certainly is needed to keep people from bringing pain and hardship on others as there are those who might not feel the payment is too small - potential guilt or remorse over stealing or killing would not be a sufficient impusle to negate the action. This is where the threat of suffering kind of evens it out and makes the payment potentiall a bit too much.
Anyways Happy 4th to those here in the States. Speaking of brains I have a whopper headache today from losing a few brain cells last night.

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anastasia
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Message 55 of 66 (408735)
07-04-2007 10:49 AM
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07-04-2007 6:21 AM


Re: Happiness is too expensive?
dameeva writes:
I suppose matyrdom brings its own rewards. Whatever makes you happy, I guess.
This is some kind of tongue in cheek look-at-the-irony stuff that I find funny because I am fully aware of life's contradictions.
I am only saying that martyrdom isn't always a state of mind, it can just be a necessity.

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anastasia
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Message 56 of 66 (408736)
07-04-2007 10:59 AM
Reply to: Message 54 by Grizz
07-04-2007 9:49 AM


Grizz writes:
What I see from many who do hold belief in divine revelation is the claim that without a religion one cannot live a moral life. My emotions of empathy,guilt, and shame keep me from killing, stealing, raping, ect.
Personally I am more interested in understanding how it is that people make assumptions about what IS moral, before they go speculating about whether an agnostic is MORE moral.
There are many threads past and present on the subject, and I believe it is a waste of time at this point to compare apples to oranges. You and I have different moral codes. Without religion, people don't lose morality, thet change what it entails.

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riVeRraT
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Message 57 of 66 (409408)
07-09-2007 11:03 AM
Reply to: Message 1 by Grizz
06-19-2007 8:11 PM


Would one continue to conduct one's life as in the past or would one attempt to maximize the pleasurable experiences available in the life still left in the world? To put it bluntly would it be time to party or to pray? Wold one's Love for God be lessoned or greatened?
I think this is an unfair question based on the circumstances you are presenting.
I don't think you can take away heaven, and have all the other things that God created in us to remain.
We were created to worship Him (our spirits) but our bodies want to party. That's the battle. Heaven is part of that equation, and your plan is less than perfect.
But having said that, I feel inside of me a general notion to do good. Going to heaven, or how that's all gonna work, is only a faith thing anyway, so I can't prove that heaven exists. But that doesn't stop me, from having a conscience.

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Grizz
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Message 58 of 66 (409480)
07-09-2007 5:38 PM
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07-09-2007 11:03 AM


But having said that, I feel inside of me a general notion to do good. ... I can't prove that heaven exists. But that doesn't stop me, from having a conscience.
Why would a non believer such as an athiest or an agnostic not have a 'general notion' to do good as well? Having faith or holding religious beliefs is not the cause of having a conscience.

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riVeRraT
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Message 59 of 66 (409499)
07-09-2007 9:33 PM
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07-09-2007 5:38 PM


Why would a non believer such as an athiest or an agnostic not have a 'general notion' to do good as well? Having faith or holding religious beliefs is not the cause of having a conscience.
Why are you asking me?
What does that have to do with the OP?
What do you think, I was always a believer?
You seem like another person prejudice against Christians.

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Grizz
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Message 60 of 66 (409678)
07-10-2007 7:48 PM
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07-09-2007 9:33 PM


Why are you asking me?
What does that have to do with the OP?
What do you think, I was always a believer?
You seem like another person prejudice against Christians.
Not prejudice. Just skeptical of certain claims regarding the nature and origin of morality. I am just trying to further the discussion. My goal was to get people talking about what motivates us to behave the way we do with the hope that it would eventually lead to a discussion of issues such as morality.
My contention is our system of morality is ultimately derived from our collective emotions. Many religious insitutions believe morality is revealed by and derived from divine revelation.

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