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Tokyojim
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Message 136 of 152 (94924)
03-26-2004 10:27 AM
Reply to: Message 120 by Silent H
03-03-2004 2:59 PM


quote:
Holmes:
Your wallbuilders are just that... attempting to build walls between people of this society based on anachronisms.
TJ replies: It isn't my website, but please tell me how this site is attempting to build walls between people of this society based on anachronisms.
Thanks for the chance to learn a new word. anachronism - a person, thing or idea which exists out of its time in history, especially one which happened or existed later than the period being shown, discussed, etc.
This website is dedicated to the study of the works of the Founding Fathers, so that we can accurately interpret the Constitution. If there are any walls being built, they were built, not by the website, but by the Fathers themselves for our welfare and protection.
quote:
Holmes:
I assume these people believe that because slow loading muskets and cannons were the only weapons at the time the right to bear arms is only about muskets and cannons?
TJ replies: Careful about making assumptions. You know what they say about that.
I am curious though. Why in the world would you make such a ridiculous assumption? Are you insinuating that homosexuality didn't exist back then? Think again. It did exist and they clearly labelled it was an evil that was detrimental to society and therefore did not qualify for protection under the Bill of Rights.
quote:
Holmes:
That because the majority were for slavery that slavery should be reinstated today? After all that was Xian.
TJ replies:
Whoah, slow down, slow down a bit. I'm very interested in seeing documentation on this. Please back that bold claim up with referenced quotes from original sources. I will proceed to back up the opposite claim - that most were opposed to slavery. I'm curious to see what evidence you have for that claim.
quote: TJ:
Thanks to our Christian forefathers, we have a fair Constitution and a Bill of Rights. Now we're going to turn around and throw away the morality upon which it was all based and we think it won't matter? How smart is that?
quote:
Holmes:
It's fan-f'ing-tastic smart. After all it was their belief in individual freedom and secular government that gave us the Constitution and Bill of Rights and not their Xianity. If Xianity was the only requirement for those, the middle ages would have been vastly different.
Remember our founding fathers were breaking away from another Xian gov't. Their genius was losing the religious domination of gov't.
TJ replies: Holmes, all of a sudden you are making lots of bold assertions. Please support the above assertion with something other than your opinion and then we'll talk.
quote:
Holmes:
Perhaps they did not succeed in perfectly separating themselves from all ethnocentric beliefs of the time... such as sodomy. Niether had they separated themselves from concepts of slavery and anti-miscegnation.
And those last two points are of high interest to the discussion at hand. Jefferson may very well have disliked sodomy. But he also spoke and voted sometimes in support of slavery and separation of races. Yet at the time he was sleeping with a black woman, and at other times of his life wrote of his hopes that slavery would come to an end.
TJ replies:
miscegenation - inter-racial marriage, sex, etc. for those of you who don't know the term. I had to look this up too. My vocab is expanding!
Holmes, why do you say that their views on sodomy were ethnocentric? Who is to say that your views are not ethnocentric? Why are your views right as opposed to their views? Obviously they had a different view of morality than you did. Thank goodness, or we might not have the Constitution that we have.
Holmes, Here is a short section from Barton's book on the subject of slavery and the Founding Fathers. It is on line at this address if you want to read it. I already referred to it in a past post so you may have already read it, but I copied extensively from that site to show just how many Founding Fathers were against slavery.
Prior to the time of the Founding Fathers, there had been few serious efforts to dismantle the institution of slavery. John Jay identified the point at which the change in attitude toward slavery began:
Prior to the great Revolution, the great majority....of our people had been so long accustomed to the practice and convenience of having slaves that very few among them even doubted the propriety and rectitude of it. (John Jay, The Correspondence and Public Papers of John Jay, Henry P. Johnston, editor(New York:G.P. Putnam's Sons, 1891), Vol. III, p. 342 to the Rev. Dean Woodward on April 10, 1773 as quoted in Barton on p. 289)
But the Revolution was the turning point in the national attitude and it was the Founding Fathers who contributed greatly to that change. In fact, many of the Founders vigorously complained against the fact that Great Britain had forcefully imposed upon the Colonies the evil of slavery.
For example, Thomas Jefferson heavily criticized that British policy in his original draft of the Declaration of Independence:
"He(King George) has waged cruel war against human nature itself, violating its most sacred rights of life and liberty in the persons of a distant people who never offended him, captivating and carrying them into slavery in another hemisphere or to incur miserable death in their transportation thither....Determined to keep open a market where men should be bought and sold, he has prostituted his negative for suppressing every legislative attempt to prohibit or to restrain this execrable commerce(that is, he has opposed efforts to prohibit the slave trade). "
Franklin too said the same thing in 1773:
"A disposition to abolish slavery prevails in North America, that many of Pennsylvanians have set their slaves at liberty, and that even the Virginia Assembly have petitioned the King for permission to make a law for preventing the importation of more into that colony. This request, however, will probably not be granted as their former laws of that kind have always been repealed." (Benjamin Franklin, The Works of Benjamin Franklin, Jared Sparks, ed. (Boston: Tappan, Whittemore, and Mason, 1839), Vol. VIII, p. 42, to the Rev. Dean Woodward on April 10, 1773.)
Jefferson himself introduced a bill in the Virginia Assembly designed to end slavery!(Jefferson, The Writings of Thomas Jefferson, Albert Ellery Bergh, editor(Washington D.C.: Thomas Jefferson Memorial Assoc., 1903), Vol. 1, p.4 as quoted in Barton p. 290.
Here is another Jefferson quote on slavery:
"The whole commerce between master and slave is a perpetual exercise of the most boisterous passions, the most unremitting despotism on the one part, and degrading submissions on the other. . . . And with what execration [curse] should the statesman be loaded, who permitting one half the citizens thus to trample on the rights of the other. . . . And can the liberties of a nation be thought secure when we have removed their only firm basis, a conviction in the minds of the people that these liberties are of the gift of God? That they are not to be violated but with His wrath? Indeed I tremble for my country when I reflect that God is just; that his justice cannot sleep forever." THOMAS JEFFERSON (Thomas Jefferson, Notes on the State of Virginia (Philadelphia: Matthew Carey, 1794), Query XVIII, pp. 236-237.)
And here are some more quotes from the Fathers on slavery from this website: http://www.wallbuilders.com/resources/search/detail.php?R...
[W]hy keep alive the question of slavery? It is admitted by all to be a great evil. 10 CHARLES CARROLL, SIGNER OF THE DECLARATION
As Congress is now to legislate for our extensive territory lately acquired, I pray to Heaven that they may build up the system of the government on the broad, strong, and sound principles of freedom. Curse not the inhabitants of those regions, and of the United States in general, with a permission to introduce bondage [slavery]. 11JOHN DICKINSON, SIGNER OF THE CONSTITUTION; GOVERNOR OF PENNSYLVANIA
That men should pray and fight for their own freedom and yet keep others in slavery is certainly acting a very inconsistent, as well as unjust and perhaps impious, part. 12 JOHN JAY, PRESIDENT OF CONTINENTAL CONGRESS, ORIGINAL CHIEF JUSTICE U. S. SUPREME COURT
Christianity, by introducing into Europe the truest principles of humanity, universal benevolence, and brotherly love, had happily abolished civil slavery. Let us who profess the same religion practice its precepts . . . by agreeing to this duty.
14RICHARD HENRY LEE, PRESIDENT OF CONTINENTAL CONGRESS; SIGNER OF THE DECLARATION
I hope we shall at last, and if it so please God I hope it may be during my life time, see this cursed thing [slavery] taken out. . . . For my part, whether in a public station or a private capacity, I shall always be prompt to contribute my assistance towards effecting so desirable an event. 15 WILLIAM LIVINGSTON, SIGNER OF THE
CONSTITUTION; GOVERNOR OF NEW JERSEY
It ought to be considered that national crimes can only be and frequently are punished in this world by national punishments; and that the continuance of the slave-trade, and thus giving it a national sanction and encouragement, ought to be considered as justly exposing us to the displeasure and vengeance of Him who is equally Lord of all and who views with equal eye the poor African slave and his American master.
16LUTHER MARTIN, DELEGATE AT CONSTITUTIONAL CONVENTION
As much as I value a union of all the States, I would not admit the Southern States into the Union unless they agree to the discontinuance of this disgraceful trade [slavery]. 17
Honored will that State be in the annals of history which shall first abolish this violation of the rights of mankind. 18 JOSEPH REED, REVOLUTIONARY OFFICER; GOVERNOR OF PENNSYLVANIA
Domestic slavery is repugnant to the principles of Christianity. . . . It is rebellion against the authority of a common Father. It is a practical denial of the extent and efficacy of the death of a common Savior. It is an usurpation of the prerogative of the great Sovereign of the universe who has solemnly claimed an exclusive property in the souls of men.
19 BENJAMIN RUSH, SIGNER OF THE DECLARATION
Justice and humanity require it [the end of slavery]—Christianity commands it. Let every benevolent . . . pray for the glorious period when the last slave who fights for freedom shall be restored to the possession of that inestimable right.
20 NOAH WEBSTER, RESPONSIBLE FOR ARTICLE I, SECTION 8, 8 OF THE CONSTITUTION
Slavery, or an absolute and unlimited power in the master over the life and fortune of the slave, is unauthorized by the common law. . . . The reasons which we sometimes see assigned for the origin and the continuance of slavery appear, when examined to the bottom, to be built upon a false foundation. In the enjoyment of their persons and of their property, the common law protects all. 21 JAMES WILSON, SIGNER OF THE CONSTITUTION; U. S. SUPREME COURT JUSTICE
It is certainly unlawful to make inroads upon others . . . and take away their liberty by no better means than superior power. 22 JOHN WITHERSPOON, SIGNER OF THE DECLARATION
I can only say that there is not a man living who wishes more sincerely than I do to see a plan adopted for the abolition of it [slavery]. 33 George Washington
For many of the Founders, their feelings against slavery went beyond words. For example, in 1774, Benjamin Franklin and Benjamin Rush founded America's first anti-slavery society; John Jay was president of a similar society in New York. In fact, when signer of the Constitution William Livingston heard of the New York society, he, as Governor of New Jersey, wrote them, offering:
"I would most ardently wish to become a member of it [the society in New York] and . . . I can safely promise them that neither my tongue, nor my pen, nor purse shall be wanting to promote the abolition of what to me appears so inconsistent with humanity and Christianity. . . . May the great and the equal Father of the human race, who has expressly declared His abhorrence of oppression, and that He is no respecter of persons, succeed a design so laudably calculated to undo the heavy burdens, to let the oppressed go free, and to break every yoke." 23
Other prominent Founding Fathers who were members of societies for ending slavery included Richard Bassett, James Madison, James Monroe, Bushrod Washington, Charles Carroll, William Few, John Marshall, Richard Stockton, Zephaniah Swift, and many more. In fact, based in part on the efforts of these Founders, Pennsylvania and Massachusetts abolished slavery in 1780; 24 Connecticut and Rhode Island did so in 1784; 25 Vermont in 1786; 26 New Hampshire in 1792; 27 New York in 1799; 28 and New Jersey did so in 1804. 29
Pretty impressive, wouldn't you say!
The truth is that it was the Founding Fathers who were responsible for planting and nurturing the first seeds for the recognition of black equality and for the eventual end of slavery. This was a fact made clear by Richard Allen.
Allen had been a slave in Pennsylvania but was freed after he converted his master to Christianity. Allen, a close friend of Benjamin Rush and several other Founding Fathers, went on to become the founder of the A.M.E. Church in America. In an early address "To the People of Color," he explained:
"Many of the white people have been instruments in the hands of God for our good, even such as have held us in captivity, [and] are now pleading our cause with earnestness and zeal." 34
According to Jefferson, Madison, (both your heroes I assume) and John Rutledge, it was the Founders from North Carolina, South Carolina, and Georgia who most strongly favored slavery. 7
Not a very impressive lot I would think. Looks like they were far outnumbered.
While most states were moving toward freedom for slaves, the deep South (Georgia, South Carolina, North Carolina) was largely pro-slavery. Yet, even so, the Southern courts before around 1840 generally took the position that slavery violated the natural rights of blacks. For example, the Mississippi Supreme Court ruled in 1818:
Slavery is condemned by reason and the laws of nature. It exists and can only exist, through municipal regulations, and in matters of doubt,...courts must lean in favorem vitae et libertatis [in favor of life and liberty].( Harry v. Decker & Hopkins (1818), in West, p. 4.)
The issue of slavery was considered at the Constitutional Convention. Though most delegates were opposed to slavery, they compromised on the issue when the representatives from Georgia and South Carolina threatened to walk out. The delegates realized slavery would continue in these states with or without the union. They saw a strong union of all the colonies was the best means of securing their liberty (which was by no means guaranteed to survive). They did not agree to abolish slavery as some wanted to do,
but they did take the forward step of giving the Congress the power to end the slave trade after 20 years. (Congress banned the exportation of slaves from any state in 1794, and in 1808 banned the importation of slaves. The individual states had passed similar legislation prior to 1808 as well.
However, several Southern states continued to actively import and export slaves after their state ban went into effect.) No nation in Europe or elsewhere had agreed to such political action.
Even so, many warned of the dangers of allowing this evil to continue. George Mason of Virginia told the delegates:
Every master of slaves is born a petty tyrant. They bring the judgement of heaven upon a country. As nations cannot be rewarded or punished in the next world, they must be in this. By an inevitable chain of causes and effects, Providence punishes national sins by national calamities. (Mark Beliles and Stephen McDowell, America's Providential History (Charlottesville, Va.: Providence Foundation, 1991), p. 227.)
While the Constitution did provide some protection for slavery, this document is not pro-slavery. It embraced the situation of all 13 states at that time, the Founders leaving most of the power to deal with this social evil in the hands of each state. Most saw that the principles of liberty contained in the Declaration could not support slavery and would eventually overthrow it.. As delegate to the Constitutional Convention, Luther Martin put it:
"Slavery is inconsistent with the genius of republicanism, and has a tendency to destroy those principles on which it is supported, as it lessens the sense of the equal rights of mankind, and habituates us to tyranny and oppression."( Luther Martin, Genuine Information (1788), in Herbert J. Storing, ed., The Complete Anti-Federalist (Chicago: University of Chicago Press, 1981), vol. 2, p. 62. In West, p. 6.)
So Holmes, show me your quotes and the evidence with which you are basing your bold assertion on.
quote:
Holmes:
Perhaps there were others that said one thing while hoping for a future freedom, with regard to their sexuality.
Or perhaps there were people within the nation then, who were just as important, or more important than the founding fathers (if their own words are to be believed of the importance of the people), that wanted their sexual freedom. And without question there are now people who want their freedom. And without question there are now people who want their freedom.
TJ replies: Perhaps so, perhaps not. What does it matter? What we do know is that most of the Founders opposed slavery and took steps to abolish it based on the principles of the Word of God.
I'm sure there had to have been some homosexuals back then who wanted their sexual freedom. By the way, the idea of the people being important is rooted in the idea of majority rules and the homosexuals were not in the majority. In fact still aren't. Since when do the desires of a minority of people guarantee them the freedom to act on those desires? I never read that in the Constitution. There are lots of people who want to drive 70, 80, even 90 mph on the highway and in fact, they might even be in the majority, but they are not permitted to do so for very good reasons. So, irrelevant, it would seem.
Again Holmes, I think I asked this in another post, but why are you pushing so much for people to have sexual freedom? What are the benefits that society receives from such behavior? I can tell you the problems with it, but I'm very interested in knowing why you think this is such a good thing for society. Or is it just a selfish desire that you have - rather that we all have because we tend to be self-centered and want to please ourselves before we think about how our actions will affect others? Just curious.
quote:
Holmes:
Are the personal beliefs of a specific group of men over 200 years ago, supposed to bind them in chains today? Shall we go about in knickers and tripod hats as well, just because they fancied them the highest of fashion of that day?
TJ replies: No, but the Constitution is binding, isn't it? I guess you would then say that we can change the Constitution however we want, right? I mean, why allow people freedom to worship as they want? Let's have a national policy of no religion in the public arean. Who cares what the majority of the Fathers thought? Who cares that we have been created equal? In fact, many people don't even believe in that today, so there is no fundamental basis for equality other than we know in our hearts that it is right because God has created us with that knowledge. But if we can ignore the ideas of the Fathers, we can certainly ignore the idea of personal freedom too or of religious freedom, right?
quote:
Holmes:
Hmmmmm, maybe Jefferson has something to say about that...
"The Gothic idea that we were to look backwards instead of forwards for the improvement of the human mind, and to recur to the annals of our ancestors for what is most perfect in government, in religion and in learning, is worthy of those bigots in religion and government by whom it has been recommended, and whose purposes it would answer. But it is not an idea which this country will endure." --Thomas Jefferson to Joseph Priestley, 1800.
Heheheh... thanks Tom.
TJ replies;
Ooh, you got a good juicy quote there, didn't you. I'd like to read the context in which this was written though. Priestly himself was a clergyman which is interesting. I wonder what the point/subject of the letter was. Sounds like an interesting letter.
But just don't forget that Tom also said things like this:
"The practice of morality being necessary for the well-being of society, He[God] has taken care to impress its precepts so indelibly on our hearts that they shall not be effaced by the subtleties of our brain. We all agree in the obligation of the moral precepts of Jesus and nowhere will they be found delivered in greater purity than in His discourses."
(The Writings of Thomas Jefferson, Albert Ellery Bergh, editor(Washington, D.C.:The Thomas Jefferson Memorial Association, 1904), Vol. XII, p. 315, to James Fishback, September 27, 1809.(as quoted in David Barton's Original Intent, pg. 321)
I said this to Crash and I'll say it to you. If you really want to know what Thomas Jefferson thought about Christianity, religion, government, and separation of church and State, then look at these actions and quotes from him all referenced at this site: http://www.wallbuilders.com/resources/search/detail.php?R...
+ Jefferson urged local governments to make land available specifically for Christian purposes; [5]
+ In an 1803 federal Indian treaty, Jefferson willingly agreed to provide $300 to "assist the said Kaskaskia tribe in the erection of a church"and to provide "annually for seven years $100 towards the support of a Catholic priest." He also signed three separate acts setting aside government lands for the sole use of religious groups and setting aside government lands so that Moravian missionaries might be assisted in "promoting Christianity."[6]
+ When Washington D. C. became the national capital in 1800, Congress voted that the Capitol building would also serve as a church building. [7] President Jefferson chose to attend church each Sunday at the Capitol [8] and even provided the service with paid government musicians to assist in its worship. [9] Jefferson also began similar Christian services in his own Executive Branch, both at the Treasury Building and at the War Office. [10]
+ Jefferson praised the use of a local courthouse as a meeting place for Christian services; [11]
+ Jefferson assured a Christian religious school that it would receive "the patronage of the government" [12]
+ Jefferson proposed that the Great Seal of the United States depict a story from the Bible and include the word "God"in its motto; [13]
+ While President, Jefferson closed his presidential documents with the phrase, "in the year of our Lord Christ; by the President; Thomas Jefferson."[14]
Furthermore, Jefferson would especially disagree with those who believe that public prayers should be non-sectarian and omit specific references to Jesus. Jefferson believed that every individual should pray according to his own beliefs. As Jefferson explained:
"[The] liberty to worship our Creator in the way we think most agreeable to His will [is] a liberty deemed in other countries incompatible with good government and yet proved by our experience to be its best support. [15] (emphasis added)
Critics, therefore, would be particularly troubled by President Jefferson's words that:
No nation has ever existed or been governed without religion. Nor can be. The Christian religion is the best religion that has been given to man and I, as Chief Magistrate of this nation, am bound to give it the sanction of my example. [16]
Thanks Tom!
Regards,
TJ

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RAZD
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Message 137 of 152 (94960)
03-26-2004 1:01 PM
Reply to: Message 136 by Tokyojim
03-26-2004 10:27 AM


and others ...
Just a small note from before I got bored with the data dump:
Thanks to our Christian forefathers, we have a fair Constitution and a Bill of Rights. Now we're going to turn around and throw away the morality upon which it was all based and we think it won't matter? How smart is that?
Thanks to our christian and non-christian forefathers we do not have a theocracy or a state endorsed religion but freedom for all to believe according to their faith. The morality of the constitution and the bill of rights are the basic principles of the American republic: equality, justice, freedom.
As marriage is essentially a religious definition it should be regulated by the churches and government should get out of the process totally.
Enjoy.
[This message has been edited by AbbyLeever, 03-26-2004]

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Message 138 of 152 (94962)
03-26-2004 1:12 PM
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03-26-2004 10:27 AM


TJ - just wanted to draw your attention to my reply in your thread Here's why I believe in God. I apologize for missing it the first time around - I wouldn't even have seen it if schraf, for some unfathomable reason of her own, hadn't resurrected the thread. Apparently it got posted while I was absent over a year ago, and then got buried under the usual deluge before I got back. Since there was no "reply waiting" indicator in my user profile, and I generally don't go back over Faith and Belief threads to see what I missed when I was gone, your topic completely slid through the cracks. If you'd like to take it up again, I'm willing. Again, apologies.

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Tokyojim
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Message 139 of 152 (95013)
03-26-2004 6:00 PM
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03-26-2004 1:01 PM


Re: and others ...
Abby,
Good point. I didn't mean to say that Madison, Jefferson, and Franklin or any other non-christians had nothing to do with the Constitution and Bill of Rights, but just to say that the majority were Christians which is something we hear less and less of these days. Thanks.
TJ

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Tokyojim
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Message 140 of 152 (95014)
03-26-2004 6:05 PM
Reply to: Message 138 by Quetzal
03-26-2004 1:12 PM


Hi Quetzal,
It's been a while. I actually took a long break from the boards and probably will again soon. It is taking up too much of my time. Back in December, I popped in to read a bit and saw something I couldn't pass up on this thread. My posts have been sporadic and I have gotten myself in over my head already. I have one more post to reply to Rrhain from way back in December and after that I don't know how long I'll last. Thanks for the offer. To be honest, I don't think I have the energy right now.
TJ

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Message 141 of 152 (95036)
03-26-2004 10:20 PM
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03-03-2004 2:59 PM


Have you been duped by the press like I was?
Holmes,
I forgot to mention one other thing in my reply to your post #119. In it you accuse Jefferson of immorality with a black woman. I assume you are referring to Sally Hemings. I used to think the same thing until I learned "the rest of the story." Here is an article that presents little known facts that cast serious doubts on these accusations. It will show another side of the story which I am sure you have not heard. I think we should all be aware of these facts before jumping to conclusions.
http://www.wallbuilders.com/resources/search/detail.php?R...
I'm wondering Holmes, if you have actual proof of his infidelity or are just regurgitating what you hear in the media? Let's respect him enough to give him the benefit of the doubt. I think you would agree that it is a very serious thing to make unfounded accusations that attack someone's character and malign their reputation. Again, I do not think that you have any malicious intent in this, but you may be may have been duped by the media just like I was. Anyway, you quote him so extensively that it seems you do respect the man, as we all should. Perhaps we'll never know the answer to the question although the article gives very good reasons for doubting the accuracy of the charges levelled against him. That in itself should be enough to cause us to be careful how we speak of Jefferson. After reading the article, I'm sure you will agree that stating his infidelity as fact is stretching things. At least, that was my conclusion after reading it. Anyway, just wanting to present another side of the story in the interest of fairness and truth.
Let me know what you think.
Regards,
TJ

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Message 142 of 152 (95085)
03-27-2004 5:12 AM
Reply to: Message 133 by Tokyojim
03-26-2004 5:38 AM


Ok, I'm finally going to get to this. I'm going to concatenate my responses to your two posts into this one. Also I suspect you'll find my posts significantly shorter than yours. This should not be taken as evidence that I'm dismissing your posts or your arguments, but rather, that I clearly don't care about this issue as deeply as you seem to. I hope you're ok with that. The reason I don't so much care is because it's obvious to me that, like any civil rights issue, gay marriage is an inevitable reality, no matter the outcome of this amendment situation.
Ok, on with the show.
Yes, it is a free country and people are given the freedom to believe in other religions, but the Founding Fathers saw a very important corellation between the Judeo-Christian code of ethics and a successful country.
Remember, not just believe, but also exercise. That's the First Amendment.
And I agree that many, most, maybe all of the Framers felt that they were incorporating Judeo-Christian principles into the Constitution - certainly your wealth of quotes demonstrates that - but for the life of me I just can't see any evidence that they actually did so.
CRASH, SHALL I GO ON?
Yes, please. By all means, go on and tell me which state it is that legislates that the God of the Bible is "the Lord thy God; thou shalt have no other law but me." Go on and tell me which state it is that prohibits the consumption of shrimp and ham. Go on and tell me which state it is that bans tattoos within it's borders. Go on and tell me which state it is that bans the wearing of clothing spun of mixed fibers.
In other words, you keep making the claim that we have all these laws based on Judeo-Christianity, but where are they? All you have are quotes of people saying we do. The simple truth is, throughout the history of our country, laws actually based only on Judeo-Christian traditions, and not a more plural tradition, don't tend to withstand scrutiny.
Religion was allowed to have a part in government and they saw no problem or inconsistency with that at all.
Certainly, and neither do I. But religion exceeds its alloted part when it seeks to dictate terms based not on what's good for society, but based on what it views as God's mandate.
You say that the risks of early term abortions are a lot lower than actually carrying a baby to term, especially for a young mother. Surely you are not bringing this up to mean that we are justified in taking the life of the baby in the womb!
Why would I bring up abortion in a debate about homosexuality? As I'm sure you suspect, we disagree on abortion but that's hardly the topic at hand.
I brought it up to point out that there are significant, fatal risks to the hetersexual lifestyle - risks that are not in the least ameliorated by marriage or monogamy.
Yes, only greater. Unprotected homosexual sex is much more efficient at passing on STDs than heterosex.
Hrm, it's about at this point that you start to get misleading. Are you doing that on purpose, or is it just carelessness?
Here, you overlook the fact that homosex covers as many sexual activites as heterosex and cherry-pick the activity widely known to be most dangerous. What you don't seem to see fit to mention is that some kinds of gay sex are less likely than coitus to transmit disease. For instance, two lesbians using their own dildoes have no chance of disease transmission unless they swap them.
And I beg to differ with you. The risks cannot be "safely managed with forethought and planning." You need to get your facts straight.
And you need to get your statistics straight. Hidden in your statement is the assumption you fail to make clear - the statistic is the likelihood of transmission from a positive carrier to a negative partner. There's obviously no chance of infection when neither partner has a disease!
Gay sex - or sex of any kind - doesn't create STD's where there are none before. That's why testing, communication, and sex within a context of emotional openness are a part of sexual maturity - a part of managing the risks of any kind of sex. It's ludicrous at best to claim that the risks of gay sex are so high they can't be managed.
Plus they change partners much more often than heterosexual couples do.
Again with the misleading use of statistics, Tokyojim. That's a dishonest, sloppy habit, and it doesn't become you or your position.
You've presented much data on homosexual relationships, but none on the length of similar, non-married, heterosexual couples. How do you conclude therefore that gay folks "change partners much more often than heterosexual couples?"
The answer is, of course, "based on your own prejudices about gay people." Also you might note that every single study you cited concerns gay men only. You don't think that perhaps there might be differences between gay and lesbian couples?
Of course, the other reason I know your conclusion is based only on prejudice is because the evidence suggests that you're wrong, according to Rrhain in another thread:
quote:
berberry responds to me:
quote:
quote:
Even in the US, the average same-sex relationship lasts longer than the average mixed-sex relationship.
Where do you come by data to support this? I ask because I've not noticed this at all
Oh, I'm going to have to search for the notes again. The study found, if I recall the numbers correctly, that gay men actually tended to have the longest-lasting relationships, about 8.9 years on average, compared to something in the 7s for lesbians and 6s for straights.
This study of only gay couples found that gay men tended to have longer relationships than gay women (6.9 years to 4.9):
Partners National Survey of Lesbian & Gay Couples
Overlooked Opinions published in the mid-90s that straight relationships were about 7 years, gay male about 9, and lesbian about 20. And if we look at the divorce rate of heterosexual to homosexual couples in those countries that do allow same-sex marriage, we find that it's less than half.
quote:
Is my experience misleading me?
According to the studies I've seen, yes.
Crash, one thing I have in mind here is the brevity of relationships. Here is one gay man's take on this:
If you're so concerned about the brevity of gay relationships, shouldn't you be on board for gay marriage? Won't marriage make the relationships last longer? That's certainly what happens for straight couples, don't you think?
These are the types of things I had in mind.
And certainly these are social problems facing people in any kind of relationship, gay or straight. But we don't ban straight marriage just because not all straight relationships are free from abuse. So what makes that a justification for doing it to gays?
Back to the Framers and your first post, to bring us back to the topic, which was why anti-gay sentiment should be encoded in the Constitution:
What I'm saying is that the Founding Fathers had very
strong feelings against homosexuality itself.
Oh, absolutely. But the fact that they chose not to embed those feelings in the Constitution is very telling.
Well, you know Crash, I doubt the Founding Fathers would agree with you on that. Jefferson himself, although acknowledging the need for change, specifically says that when you do go to make changes, you need to consider the original intent of the Constitution and remain faithful to it.
Fine. And what language in the Constitution do you believe supports the position that the "original intent" was to ban homosexuality and gay marriage?
The problem with your "original intent" argument is that clearly, the original intent was to have a document sufficiently flexible as to change with the morals of the time!
There are so many other court cases that state that Christianity IS the basis for common law that I can't take the time to quote them.
Fuck the quotes. Show me the laws! Show me where it's against the law for a man to fail to marry the widow of his brother. Then I'll grant you that Judeo-Christianity is the basis of our laws.
OK, he may be wrong here in the sense that there have been nations since then which have been governed apart from theistic religion, but we have all seen and experienced the tragic results of such governments.
Oh, yeah. Those Scandinavian countries are in real trouble, what with their consistently higher-rated quality of life, and all.
The Founders believed that religion and morality were inseparable from good government and that they were essential for national success.
You seem to imply that I hold a position that laws should never legislate morality, or that any moral position held by a religion is automatically wrong. Nothing could be farther from the truth.
The position I hold is simple: let's determine American morality by what is most positive for our society, not what is closest to some 2000-year-old fairy tale.
This whole idea that denying marriage to homosexuals is a violation of their civil rights is a 20th century re-interpretation of the Constitution and the Bill of Rights.
A re-interpretation that is both valid and supported by the Ninth Amendment. What do you think the Ninth Amendment means if not this?
You may think differently, but I just do not believe that homosexuality has a positive impact on society.
So prove it, already. That is indeed what it comes down to. Is gay marriage bad for society? Let's look at it.
Two lesbians marry in San Francisco, hypothetically. Show me whose civil rights, as outlined in the Constitution, are violated. Show me the person whose pursuit of life, liberty, and happiness are threatened. Show me the person who is harmed in any way by two women making a loving commitment. And moreover, show me that the harm is bad enough to warrent the first amendment of it's kind - an amendment to codify a tradition of religious hatred.
You're free to think that Christianity is the foundation of our government. Me, I've read the Constitution, and I've read the Bible, and while the first says "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion", the second says "I am the Lord thy God; thou shalt have no other gods but Me." What Biblical passage inspired the freedom of the press? From what chapter and verse is derived the right of women and minorities to vote? Which prophet spoke the words "Excessive bail shall not be required, nor excessive fines imposed, nor cruel and unusual punishments inflicted"?
The Constitution is a remarkable document indeed. Remarkable in it's departure from Scripture - while the Bible claims to be the unchanging word of God, the U.S. Constitution was designed from the ground up to be an evolving foundation of practical government.
If I go any longer with this, it won't be at all coherent.

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Message 143 of 152 (95093)
03-27-2004 8:26 AM
Reply to: Message 140 by Tokyojim
03-26-2004 6:05 PM


No problem TJ - I just felt really badly about not seeing your efforts. I may, if I get the time and energy myself, reply to the other posts you made in that thread just to close the loop. If you can jump back in, great. If not, I understand. However, I did want you to know that I hadn't intentionally ignored your efforts.
Best of luck. It's been a pleasure.

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Message 144 of 152 (95163)
03-27-2004 5:45 PM


Many the defenses that christens say "prove" the country was founded Christen Principles are not true.... for Instance contrary to Popular Belief "In God We Trust" HAS NOT always been on our money... it was put on it in the 1860s... From what I can see... The Country wasn't founded on Christianity but Freedom itself... Saying and proving the framers were Christen doesn't prove it was founded of Christen Principles! The Framers were all for Freedom!

  
sincere6
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Message 145 of 152 (97497)
04-03-2004 1:09 PM


replies to Tokyojim, & Rrhain
From "Marriage Amendment" - page 1
Tokyojim said (on 12-25-2003): "As you know, Christians believe in a God who Himself is the defining factor of absolute morality. For instance, because God is love, humans are also to love."
[Well then...because God loves everyone, we also should love everyone? And why can a husband not be faithful to two wives? Can he not also be faithful to two of his children?]
"A conscience is a very interesting thing. Where did it come from? "
[I was just thinking about this today - for the first time in years. "Your conscience is what tells you 'someone may be watching.'"]
"If not from God, then it [conscience] is meaningless and we are really free to ignore and trample them."
[You say "ignore and trample," I say ignore what has become dead; and continue to grow, as all life, as much as possible.]
"1) Being married is in our best interest because married people enjoy on the average better health and well-being than others."
[Well that's an EXCELLENT reason for gays (or others) to get married.]
"2) Marriage is the most significant factor in children having happy and well-adjusted lives."
[Well well - this just gets better!]
"...a proper order for love... "
[Is there a strong basis for that statement. A proper order for sex; maybe. But a proper order for LOVE?]
"All things being equal, children with married parents consistently do better in every measure of well-being than their peers who have single, cohabiting, divorced or step-parents,..."
[Chalk up one more for "reasons for gays to get married."]
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phil said "(I don't if that made much sense, but whatever -- there's my two cents.) [sic]
[It made sense up until the point you said, "(I don't if that made much sense, but whatever -- there's my two cents.)" But what do I "know"?]
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Rrhain said (on 12-25-2003): "What is the relationship between the children [in a polygamous family] and the non-biological parent?"
[Well, one may ask, "What is the relationship of a child to any step-
parent," and you might approximate an answer to your question - (which was a good question, btw.)]
and..."but the justifications for it cannot be found in the same ones
for same sex marriage."
[How about this justification...That they LOVE each other.]
and..."Because children and animals, by definition, can't give consent."
[And keep in mind that a child {as a human} is a type of animal too.]) You fail to recognise just how very very much of a social construct we put upon how we think of children. I have learned a lot from reading books such as "The History of Childhood," or books by L.L.Constantine - whose titles evade my memory.
and ..." A loving, mutually supportive relationship automatically leads to coercive, manipulative relationships or desire to have sex with something that isn't even alive."
[W.T.F.? You need to re-think something there!!]
and..."over one who cannot give consent."
[I believe you mis-stated that. It should perhaps read, "...over one who is not allowed, at present, by many countries' laws, to give consent." After all, even in the 'grand ole' U.S. not much more than just 50 years ago the A.O.C. was ten (10!).]
"that clearly shows that homosexuality is rampant throughout the rest of nature."
[Now why didn't I think of that?]
"Why do specific Christian beliefs allow Christians to dictate what
everybody can or can't do?"
[That's still a good question; especially if this God is supposedly all-powerful (though apparently not all-powerful enough to succeed w/o Christians pouring money into Washington.) If I may try to quote a good comedian "Here's some money - pass a law - they're *&$#%* our daughters!"]
- "Cuando el amor no es locura, no es amor."

  
sincere6
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Message 146 of 152 (97972)
04-05-2004 7:22 PM


replies to Abby., crash., schraf., gods., Tokyo., & Dan
from page 10 (This page?)
AbbyLeever said: "As marriage is essentially a religious definition it should be regulated by the churches and government should get out of the process totally."
Why is marriage "essentially...religious"? It is between two people - not between God and two people, unless those two want God to be a part of it. (And yes, there's a lot of things the gov't needs to get back out of. [Iraq to start with, our bedrooms, and D.C., as well!])
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crashfrog said: [quoting someone else?] "What I'm saying is that the Founding Fathers had very strong feelings against homosexuality itself.
Oh, absolutely. But the fact that they chose not to embed those feelings in the Constitution is very telling."
That's an interesting point. (And you said "embed!")
"There are so many other court cases that state that Christianity IS the basis for common law that I can't take the time to quote them."
But if courts are using such reasoning, that’s weight in their decisions. (You don't actually SEE the base for sky-scrapers, but are they not there? If it were written into the law that beer couldn't be sold on Sunday, it need not be stated that, "It's because of the Bible," right?)
"There's obviously no chance of infection when neither partner has a disease!"
That's obvious, but being practical, what is never obvious is who has no disease. But I suppose, in keeping with your context, that would be the problem of statistics.
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(So where is Prior Lake? I can't find it on my map. (I can almost make out China on it.))
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From page 9
Since someone brought it up...slavery...I think it'll be back within 50 years. Do we not already have laws that say some of our parent's debts need to be paid by the surviving (adult) children? Is that not a beginning? (I'll admit I don't know much of this.)
from schrafinator: "...or, a father and many mothers, such as in the very historically common practice of polygamy."
"...very historically common..." Interrresting. Very interrrresting. Got any good info on that?
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from godsmac: "Oh, so what you're looking for in a wife is to purchase a twelve year old girl, in order to squeeze out more kids to work on the farm?"
Actually the mean age of menarche in the U.S. is 13.4, not 12.
[I don't know if that's true or not...just figured I'd throw it in as, kind of a joke.] [Laugh, it won't hurt.] [Just one "ha," it wasn't that funny.]
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from godsmac: "And what rights are being denied homosexuals? They have exactly the same right to marry a member of the opposite sex that everyone else has."
Oh that is such a backhanded compliment. (And congratulations...I've waited 15 years to use that phrase; though, it was a slight stretch for it.)
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from Tokyjim: "Sodomy is an act against both 'the laws of nature, and of nature's God.'"
I think if you'll look to the Rhesus monkey, you'll find sodomy in nature. (As well as a few more sexual surprises as well.)
"...We all agree in the obligation of the moral precepts of Jesus and nowhere will they be found delivered in greater purity than in His discourses."
But Jesus didn't write ANYTHING.
"Our Constitution was made only for a moral and religious people. It is wholly inadequate to the government of any other."
But why in the world would a "moral and religious" group ever need laws to follow? If they're truly moral, then they will never do what is wrong anyways.
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If I may ask, whatcha doing in Japan;
and (from one of the best movies on Earth) What's up in Japanwith those Japanese?
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AbbyLeever said: ...why whould it even be regulated at the state level? Let each church regulate it's requirments for marriage according to it's faith."
Not all marriages take place in or of a church. We can get married at a court-house. That’s why the state regulation, I assume.
"...and that any children are properly cared for."
Now wait a minute...wasn't a law just passed a couple of years ago ... Whereas parents have the right to expect government to refrain from interfering with them in fulfilling their sacred duty and to render necessary assistance
Tokyojim said: (quoting John Adams) "...unalterable as human nature."
Now what is "human nature?" Give me an example, and I can probably give you an example of it being changed by someone. (Unless it’s to poop.)
It seems to me more and more that their babble about God and ethics was just that. (At least when I disagree with them :-) )
"...not Christianity with an established church . . . but Christianity with liberty of conscience to all men."
Oh...THAT Christianity.
Tokyojim: "Yes, I apologize for the large posts. I've been working on them for a while. To be honest, I'm not sure how long I can keep this up. Take all the time you need."
I don't think I have that much time! hahaha (Guess I'm gonna need a ghostwriter someday if I want to keep reading and replying.)
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From page 8
Tokyojim said: "Well, Crash, here is where we differ. The gays cannot/shouldn't claim victim mentality here. There may be some of that pressure, but that doesn't give them the right to ruin someone else's life and maybe the lives of kids fathered."
I don't think those guys ever got into a marriage thinking, "I can just do this for at least 10 years and then I’m out." They were probably at the end of their ropes internally...praying this marriage will change them; or hoping that they can stay hidden in the closet.
"...I do not think that we should be giving society the message the homosexuality is just another valid lifestyle that we can choose from."
I think that's one of their main points. It's not a choice, unless you're bi.
"TJ replies: Yes, Crash, I would be against single-parent adoption for the same reasons. I don't think it is fair to the children."
So if one parent dies...it's forced marriage for the living parent or lose their kids to the government?
"And we all need to be more careful when we choose our mates to begin with."
??WHAT?? AND YOU WOULD HAVE THE PARENTS JUST MARRY THE GIRLS OFF AS CHATTEL TO SOME MIDDLE-AGED SLOB WHEN SHE'S AGE 13 ?? GOD YOU GOTTA BE KIDDING ME!!!! YOU GUYS ARE ALL OVER THE INTERNET! I think I'm through with you.
Actually, it was me kidding. Yes, we gotta be more careful...rely less on the feelings of love, and have more integrity about it, and realize that you gotta change a little. And maybe let our parents choose our mates.
quoting Fisher Ames... "The known propensity of a democracy ..."
Just how many democracies before his time did he have to learn from to know their propensities?
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Crashfrog said: "And an extended family, with grandparents, etc. in the household, is usually better than just the parents. So much so that that was the family norm for thousands of years."
NOW you're talkin'! We gotta git something like that back somehow.
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schrafinator said: "The frank and graphic talk about sexuality in front of even the youngest children in school, church and family would certainly not pass muster with today's parents or school boards or politicians."
We need to be more realistic in what we let children know about their own bodies and minds. (Human instincts are very much ubiquitous.) They’re human too.
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TJ: Man, you are just chock-full of copy/pastes...(I will [try to] continue to read what you've wrote and think about it. [time constraints, y' know]) Also, (a feeling/memory I just had) I read awhile ago that it is not good logic to appeal to authority - as authority often changes (and even reverses) its decisions.
Tokyojim said: "The extended family living together probably worked very well. But all the role models for marriage and family were of a father and a mother."
Not...if you're living in an extended family, then you're probably going to learn that the extended family, (not just the egg & sperm donors) make a family.
"That is how it was designed to work. That is why it takes a man and a woman to make a baby!"
It is not just about "making babies." (And if it were, modern medical science is changing the way we make babies.)
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Dan Carroll said "However, despite their failings in these areas, they were smart enough to know that they were not perfect, and that their intentions should not rule America forever."
Well-said, Dan.

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Message 147 of 152 (97975)
04-05-2004 7:48 PM
Reply to: Message 146 by sincere6
04-05-2004 7:22 PM


Re: replies to Abby., crash., schraf., gods., Tokyo., & Dan
Even the most backwards states sell beer on sunday now...I think you should drink more of it.

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Message 148 of 152 (98043)
04-06-2004 2:54 AM
Reply to: Message 146 by sincere6
04-05-2004 7:22 PM


Re: replies to Abby., crash., schraf., gods., Tokyo., & Dan
Why is marriage "essentially...religious"? It is between two people - not between God and two people, unless those two want God to be a part of it.
Not all marriages take place in or of a church. We can get married at a court-house. That’s why the state regulation, I assume.
Or by a Justice of the Peace in your own home, but it is still mostly done in a church with very heavy religious overtones ("let no man assunder"?). The civil ceremonies have only been a fairly recent addition to the mix and are further extended by "common law" legislations.
The question is - what is the real interest of governement and why is it in the business of regulating which people chose to live with whom?

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Message 149 of 152 (98048)
04-06-2004 4:09 AM
Reply to: Message 148 by RAZD
04-06-2004 2:54 AM


Re: replies to Abby., crash., schraf., gods., Tokyo., & Dan
AbbyLeever writes:
quote:
The question is - what is the real interest of governement and why is it in the business of regulating which people chose to live with whom?
Excellent point, but I would rephrase your question thus: What is the real interest of government in the religious sacrament of marriage?
Since government has no interest in marriage beyond the concomitant civil union, it should recognize no more than a civil union. Recognition of marriage should be left to the churches.

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Message 150 of 152 (98059)
04-06-2004 9:08 AM
Reply to: Message 149 by berberry
04-06-2004 4:09 AM


Re: replies to Abby., crash., schraf., gods., Tokyo., & Dan
it should recognize no more than a civil union.
Why does it even need to do this? The "common law" legislations take care of similar arrangements where no paper is attached. What laws are affected if gov't just drops the whole finaglemesss? The only ones I know of are medical benefits, income tax, child care, inheritance and bigamy types laws. The last becomes a non-issue and the rest shouldn't be dependant on a piece of paper but on the actual living conditions.

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