Welcome, LudoRephaim. Were glad to have you join in.
I cant seem to get mine to work
Is there any particular problem you are having?
It looks to me as if you have not yet uploaded an avatar graphic. Click on the "Profile" link near the top left of most forum pages, and you should see how to upload your avatar.
To comment on moderation procedures or respond to admin messages:
If you look at the top right of the message, or the bottom left, you will see where it says: "Reply to: Message 24 by AdminNosy". We look for that to see who you are replying to. It helps when reading.