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SinnerLloyd
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Message 166 of 174 (710197)
11-03-2013 1:16 AM
Reply to: Message 160 by roxrkool
10-29-2013 10:16 PM


Re: Yes!
I disagree, there's more women then men in the world. That's why there's an overflow of women to choose from at the dating site i visit. Such as cupidswand. I found it at freedatinghelper.com is for sale | HugeDomains and you can see it for yourself.
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foreveryoung
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Message 167 of 174 (710373)
11-04-2013 11:26 PM


I was thinking of sending a message from her flat when i get there but i dont think it would be a good idea that she knew i was talking about her on a public forum. I will let her know about the incredible amount of distrust people have for foreign women on these sites. I already told her she is the last time i am taking a chance since i already got burnt on this first lady who promised to come but never did.

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Message 168 of 174 (710374)
11-04-2013 11:30 PM
Reply to: Message 167 by foreveryoung
11-04-2013 11:26 PM


I wish you luck.
Watch your back!

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CosmicChimp
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Message 169 of 174 (710391)
11-05-2013 7:40 AM
Reply to: Message 167 by foreveryoung
11-04-2013 11:26 PM


Since it is the advice thread, allow me another dab of it. Don't waste time with informing her of the distrustful and suspicious perspective of internet trolls. Your visit is all about her and you. Every word is precious, every thought, every glance. Revel in your time together and make the most of your chance.

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frako
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Message 170 of 174 (710493)
11-05-2013 7:09 PM
Reply to: Message 166 by SinnerLloyd
11-03-2013 1:16 AM


Re: Yes!
mostly because women live longer so have your pick of the GILF'S

Christianity, One woman's lie about an affair that got seriously out of hand
What are the Christians gonna do to me ..... Forgive me, good luck with that.

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onifre
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Message 171 of 174 (710637)
11-07-2013 6:44 PM
Reply to: Message 167 by foreveryoung
11-04-2013 11:26 PM


I was thinking of sending a message from her flat when i get there but i dont think it would be a good idea that she knew i was talking about her on a public forum. I will let her know about the incredible amount of distrust people have for foreign women on these sites. I already told her she is the last time i am taking a chance since i already got burnt on this first lady who promised to come but never did.
You'll be fine. Nothing weird about what you're doing at all.
- Oni
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Shield
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Message 172 of 174 (710647)
11-07-2013 10:30 PM
Reply to: Message 167 by foreveryoung
11-04-2013 11:26 PM


I really do hope that your adventure will be successful.
However, watch your back. You are traveling to a significantly more poor country than where you left. You dont seem to have any experience traveling outside of the US and that's whats makes me nervous. You will be far from the US Embassy, you will be on your own.
Where are you meeting her? At the airport or 'down the road'?
Did you pay the datingsite/agency any money? Any promise of you paying money? Did you give her money for the ticket to the US, a visit that never came to be?
I see so many red flags here...
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Shield
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Message 173 of 174 (710852)
11-11-2013 5:39 PM


http://i.imgur.com/EWwAWgk.jpg
Ukraine: Reinforced alertness.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=2008112915365...
Well. I am from Ukraine, and I came to America five years ago. Basically, it is not safe to visit Ukraine period. You can get robbed in the middle of the capital. The police is corrupt.. For example if you get stopped for speeding, you just give the guy a bottle of vodka and you are good to go. You know what I mean? Ukraine is where the freedom is in my opinion. Go anywhere, do anything. Crime rate however is very high. For example where I was from it wasn't that safe to walk around with a cell phone outside. I am sure it is the same way right now as it was before. If you go outside make sure you don't have any electronics with you.. It will get stolen on the first day.. I am not trying to scare your or anything, but that is just the way it is there. By the way, I was living in a city called Zaporozhye.
Danger signals
These presented to you are dangerous situations, those of tricksters and with risks of rip-offs:
The Ukrainian girl after a few contacts will ask you for money for the visa.
This is a 99% con trick after you send the money she runs away and you will not be able to contact her again.
Don't send money, in general these requests are around about 300/500 Euros or dollars but could also be only 100, don't send money.
The Ukrainian girl after a few contacts will ask for money for her mother who needs to buy expensive medicine. This is a 99% con trick, after you send the money she runs away and you will not be able to contact her again.
A wedding agency gives you an appointment with Ukrainian girls only saying that they have agreed to meet you, of which you have only seen them in photos. You arrive for the appointment and don't find the girls in the photos. We will call this a deception instead of a swindle but you have paid money to the agency and you will get to know only girls that are in the agency and not the beautiful ones you have seen in the photos.
Websites that sell e-mail addresses
Attention with these sites, it's very probable to be cheated (50% but not the fault of the sites) from letters very feminine but written by men or also by women that live on one's sentimental wits to swindle money from its victims.
How to behave oneself, to invite the girl to present herself near a web cam to see her while talking on the telephone or to say that you have a friend in that town who could meet her.
Never give information of credit cards
I believe that this rule is well-known by all but it is always better to remember it.
Personal and Weddings Agencies
This is a particular key, rich of uncertainty.
There are many serious agencies and as such not serious.
From those not serious the major dangers are:
- Professional escort girls that make the lure
- False appointments with non-existent girls
- Appointments of love that work out to be payment appointments
- Fixed payment without resulting in a meeting.
Advice is always to rely on agencies with premises also in your country of origin or with secure references and documentations of true and real experiences.
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Theodoric
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Message 174 of 174 (710867)
11-11-2013 11:05 PM
Reply to: Message 173 by Shield
11-11-2013 5:39 PM


dating scams
The US embassy in the Ukraine even has a web page about this issue.
http://ukraine.usembassy.gov/scams.html

Facts don't lie or have an agenda. Facts are just facts
"God did it" is not an argument. It is an excuse for intellectual laziness.

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