OK writes:
Then support your claim. The definition is not arbitrary at all. It is quite specific.
All definitions of life are arbitrary.
For example:
John decides that he defines life as x, y and z.
Bob decides to define life as x, y and q.
Both are specific definitions of what Bob and John think life is. They agree on somethings and not others.
As there are no letters of fire in the sky that say life is x, y and z or x, y, and q we have no reason to believe either definition has a mandate from heaven for being correct.
Similar example:
John defines tall as 6'2'' or higher.
Bob defines tall as 6'4'' or higher.
The definition of both tall and life are arbitrary because there is no absolute point where tall can be pin pointed in the same way there is no absolute point at which life can be pin pointed.
Both tall and life are categorical constructs that vary with the definer i.e. the one defining the category.
There I've done it; I supported my claim with reasoned arguement.