crashfrog writes:
I thought that was pretty reasonable at the time, and I still do. If NJ had really been interested in making and participating in arguments about moral relativism, he would have modified his language to remove the offense, which was acting as a significant obstacle to debate. Just out of self-interest.
Instead he doubled-down on that language. Because he wasn't interested in moral debate, he was interested in trolling homosexuals and their allies, like myself, Taz, and Dan.
I agree that the point you made to NJ was well argued, and seems reasonable. However, I do think his distaste for moral relativism was genuine, and that his religion was very important to him.
As for trolling, there's a point about NJ's experience on this site that maybe should be mentioned. He used to get attacked, slagged off and insulted all the time. Those of us who pretty much disagreed with him on just about everything might argue that he asked for it, but we should admit that he was on the receiving end of far more insults than he gave out.
Looking through his posts, I came across a reply to one by a character called "bluegenes" which said something like "only superstitious fools would base their morality on texts from a semi-barbaric bronze age culture."
That's really just like saying "you're a superstitious fool, mate", and is arguably treading on the board's guidelines.
So, when you look at his posts, read some of the replies from many different people. The guy took a lot more stick than he gave, I think, and perhaps that puts what appears to you to be trolling into context.
I'm not sure about people participating on this board claiming a right not to be offended. I don't claim it. I've been told that I'm going to hell, and I think it's fine for people to express that opinion on this board, or anything else they believe, and I wouldn't dream of complaining to the mods about such things.
I'm well aware that the religious people here can be very offended by the views of people like myself, but I don't think they have a right not to be offended. Offence is inevitable here.