The last month on this board has consisted of you and Holmes bashing your heads against the damn walls.
I have not enjoyed this experience and I am not wanting it to continue. I realize I made a huge mistake trying to argue things out with him in those earlier threads, I apologize for that behavior, and will try not to let it happen again. On the flipside I'm not sure what else I am supposed to do now.
Not talking to him still results in replies from him as well as accusations about me in other threads (like this one). What's worse is he then uses my lack of taking his bait as a reason to doubt me and believe him (I am not defending myself).
Perhaps you (and others) can give me a suggestion, suppose someone was saying the same things about you. What would you do about it? I am quite serious with this question as I am trying to find a solution, and you don't even have to deal with the specifics of this case.
Is it better for me to ignore such accusations, or am I better off saying nothing? Maybe trying to present my case in a neutral form?
Again, I am seriously seeking guidance here for my own behavior. I am feeling compelled to defend myself, or at the very least explain myself, but realize it may feed a cycle. I need an outside perspective/suggestion.
holmes {in temp decloak from lurker mode}
"What a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away." (D.Bros)