What attaches the "I" to a body or to some set of cells?
Why does it need to be attached? Can't it be inseparable from the body, without ever having been attached? I think it is this idea of "attached" that leads you to the idea that it could be detached and have a separate existence.
Unless you think that consciousness emerges from individual cells (seems unlikely to me), then consciousness emerges from something a bit more abstract.
I see consciousness as emerging from processes. In this case they are biological processes, although I don't think the biological aspect is essential. The processes are intimately connected to the physical survival of the body, so I don't see how one can make sense of these processes as detached.
..., then I don't see why consciousness could not be shared, why it is necessarily personal.
What's a person? If the person is a product of the processes involved in producing consciousness, then how could consciousness be anything other than personal?