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Trump won 
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Message 76 of 165 (49227)
08-07-2003 5:26 PM
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07-20-2003 1:00 PM


yeah.
Same sex marriages have just become illegal in the USA, but whats really causing a stir here is how theyre might be a gay bishop. A gay person as one of the figureheads of a church is fundamentally wrong on every level. In the bible homosexuality has been noted as a sin many times. I mean to ignore many, many parts of the bible and accept a gay person as a bishop is just wrong.
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crashfrog
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Message 77 of 165 (49234)
08-07-2003 5:37 PM
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08-07-2003 5:26 PM


Re: yeah.
Same sex marriages have just become illegal in the USA,
Only in some states. In others they're becoming legal. And the Constitution has a clause that states have to accept the marriages (and other certifications) of other states.
An increasing number - almost a majority - of Americans support same-sex civil unions that are the same as marriage.
but whats really causing a stir here is how theyre might be a gay bishop.
You're a little out of date. There is a gay bishop now. That happened. It's old news, now.
A gay person as one of the figureheads of a church is fundamentally wrong on every level.
Why? Why are gay people any worse than anybody else? We're all sinners, remember? Gay people don't sin any more than you or I. Or do you demand that your clergy be perfect?
In the bible homosexuality has been noted as a sin many times.
In your translation, maybe. Rrhain has made a pretty convincing case, however, that homosexuality is not mentioned in the oldest texts. Perhaps he'd be willing to make that case for you if you asked him.
Certainly Jesus never mentions it, so it can hardly be a major issue for God, right?
I mean to ignore many, many parts of the bible and accept a gay person as a bishop is just wrong.
We're talking about 3 lines of the bible that, in modern translations, say that homosexuality is wrong in the context of ritualistic sex. But a same-sex unions is blessed in the bible, and the Catholic church has very old rites for same-sex marriage.
So no, it's not "just wrong". It's inclusive, and progressive, and very, very much something Christianity has been needing to do for some time.

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Message 78 of 165 (49235)
08-07-2003 5:41 PM
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08-07-2003 5:26 PM


Re: yeah.
messenjaH writes:
quote:
Same sex marriages have just become illegal in the USA
Really? Was there a court decision just now?
The current state of the law as I understand is that there is a Federal law saying that the Federal government will not recognize same-sex marriage and 36 states have enacted similar legislation.
However, the Massachussetts Supreme Court is set to rule regarding same-sex marriage in that state and are expected to say that it is unconstitutional to bar same-sex marriage.
So I'm wondering where you got the "just become."
quote:
A gay person as one of the figureheads of a church is fundamentally wrong on every level.
Only if you think that you're the only one who has a correct view of how a church is supposed to be.
Fortunately, the Episcopalian church is only beholden to its congregation, not you.
quote:
In the bible homosexuality has been noted as a sin many times.
No, in the Bible, homosexuality as we understand it is never mentioned. Instead, there are 4 (or 6, depending on how you interpret it) admonitions against temple prostitution and ritualistic sex.
This is in comparison to over 300 admonitions against various types of heterosexual sex (including heterosexual temple prostitution and ritualistic sex.)
This doesn't mean god loves straights any less than gays...just that they need more supervision.
quote:
I mean to ignore many, many parts of the bible
Have you considered the possibility that the Bible doesn't say what you think it says?
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Message 79 of 165 (49252)
08-07-2003 6:31 PM
Reply to: Message 78 by Rrhain
08-07-2003 5:41 PM


Re: yeah.
Have you considered the possibility that the Bible doesn't say what you think it says?
Inconceivable!!!

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Message 80 of 165 (49451)
08-08-2003 4:31 PM
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08-07-2003 6:31 PM


oops
I have been working like crazy since I started this topic and have not had a chance to sit down and keep up with this thread. After starting to read through this thread, I'm really wondering why on earth I chose to start this conversation on this board.
At the time that I began this thread the idea of same sex marriage/adoption seemed like a big deal to me, however God has given me peace about this now.
I stated in my first post that I would do whatever I could to stop same sex adoption in my community, I will still stick to that (although this only entails petitions to the powers that be).
It was also stated that heterosexual families are not perfect either, which is obviously true as they are made up of people. I think this was a weak argument for same sex adoption.
Someone also asked why I would not agree with same sex adoptions, from a secular standpoint. Well first it seems completely un natural to me. (this is very weak but it's big in my mind.) The second and biggest reason is that I know how hard it is to be a child, and deal with other children. Can you imagine the kinds of things these kids will have said to them in the school yard, or when they get to highschool? It hardly seems fair to add this ammunition to their peers, in an already difficult environment.
This all said, these children need families, they need people to care for and love them. I still do not agree with same sex adoption, however these childrens' lives are still in God's hands, and though it seems wrong to me I will trust that God will work this for good.
I really wanted to clarify that I do not hate gay people, I did not want to come across like I was condemning homosexuals. God loves all of us, and we all have sin in our lives. I guess if I really look at, God does not see homosexuality as any worse than lying or stealing. So as a Christian I guess I should know better than to say because "they are gay (sinners) they should not adopt children", because it would then follow that "because they are liars (sinners)the should not be allowed to adopt children. This would very quickly eliminate the entire human race from having children.
So forgive me for bringing this topic up without thinking it all the way through first.
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Message 81 of 165 (49453)
08-08-2003 4:43 PM
Reply to: Message 80 by funkmasterfreaky
08-08-2003 4:31 PM


Re: oops
Well first it seems completely un natural to me. (this is very weak but it's big in my mind.)
Unnatural? Why? Especially given that there's some 500 recorded instances of homosexual behavior in animals; and that the genetic basis of homosexuality is finally beginning to be uncovered, it seems to me that there's nothing unnatural at all about homosexuality, just as there's nothing unnatural about preferring mint ice cream to vanilla.
The second and biggest reason is that I know how hard it is to be a child, and deal with other children. Can you imagine the kinds of things these kids will have said to them in the school yard, or when they get to highschool? It hardly seems fair to add this ammunition to their peers, in an already difficult environment.
But this is a problem with culture, not with gay adoption or marriage. And preventing gay adoption isn't going to promote the acceptance of gay adoption. What will promote it is more gay adoption - when gay adoption becomes so normal that nobody thinks twice about it, your problem goes away.
I can appreciate that the last part of your post seems to be concilliatory. It seems pretty arrogant of you to suggest that you'll single out gay people to combat their adoptions while giving a pass to every other sinner.

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Message 82 of 165 (49482)
08-08-2003 7:51 PM
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08-08-2003 4:31 PM


Re: oops
quote:
Someone also asked why I would not agree with same sex adoptions, from a secular standpoint. Well first it seems completely un natural to me. (this is very weak but it's big in my mind.)
quote:
The second and biggest reason is that I know how hard it is to be a child, and deal with other children. Can you imagine the kinds of things these kids will have said to them in the school yard, or when they get to highschool? It hardly seems fair to add this ammunition to their peers, in an already difficult environment.
This is exactly the same two reasons people used to (actually, many still do) offer as reasons black people and white people shouldn't get married and have children; it was unnatural and the children will have a hard time.
You have just substituted "gay" for "mixed race". You are just bigoted against another group.
Oh, and I agree with crashfrog; homosexuality is pretty common in the animal kingdom. Do you know how cattle ranchers know when their cows are coming into season? They start mounting each other.

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Message 83 of 165 (49631)
08-09-2003 2:03 PM
Reply to: Message 78 by Rrhain
08-07-2003 5:41 PM


Re: yeah.
The bible says clearly that homosexuality is a sin, are you that blinded?
Genesis 19 (Sodom and Gomorrah destroyed)
The mob wanted to "know" the angels. When offered the virgin daughters they declined, Lot offered them because he knew the indescent acts they were going to do.
Genesis 19: 4-5 Before they had gone to bed, all the men from every part from the city of Sodom- both young and old- surrounded the house. They called to Lot, "Where are the men that came to you tonight? Bring them out so we can have sex with them."
Soon as you may already know the city was punished, for obvious reasons. Lot said "do not do this wicked thing" to the mob also. The angels soon told Lot to leave with his family for the city was to be punished for that act.
Other verses and chapters are:
Leviticus 18 and 20
1 Kings 14:24, 15:12, 22:46
2 Kings 23:7
Judges 14:14-29
Romans 1:26-27
1st Corinthians 6: 9:
1 Timothy 1:9-10:
Homosexuality has also been exploited in Matthew, John and Jude.
You see, I stand to my words as homosexuality has been mentioned in the bible as an evil doing many many places in the bible.
For a gay person to become a figurehead of a church is to ignore almost every book in the bible. That is ignorance or denial, however you want to take it.
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Message 84 of 165 (49651)
08-09-2003 3:19 PM
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08-09-2003 2:03 PM


Re: yeah.
The Bible also plainly states that catfish and shrimp are "an abomination" - Leviticus 11: 9-12. Have you been to Red Lobster lately?

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Message 85 of 165 (49652)
08-09-2003 3:24 PM
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08-09-2003 3:19 PM


Re: yeah.
quote:
Have you been to Red Lobster lately?
No. And I am not happy about it.
I wonder if messenjah is wearing mixed fiber clothes? Or mixes meat and milk products? Ohhh.... wait! THOSE rules no longer apply! Jesus 'fulfilled' them. But the queer laws... those still apply.
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Message 86 of 165 (49654)
08-09-2003 3:38 PM
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08-09-2003 2:03 PM


messenjaH writes:
Genesis 19 (Sodom and Gomorrah destroyed)
Sorry, but the destruction of Sodom is about something much more than homosexuality. Yes it doesn't help matters that they are lusting after men, but the main point is the poor treatment of strangers.
This same theme was repeated in another biblical passage... Judges 19:22-29... but without the complete anti-homosexual overtones. In that case the mob did the "right" thing and raped the woman they were offered. But still it was understood [in that passage] that they were bad for having come to rape strangers.
But don't worry, some of your other citations support the anti-gay bigotry you say the Xtian church has, as I will elaborate in my own response to Rrhain.
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Message 87 of 165 (49655)
08-09-2003 3:39 PM
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08-07-2003 5:41 PM


Okely-dokely, I want to start by making something very clear. I have nothing against homosexuality. I support the legal institution of gay marriages (or civil-unions if it'll make Xtians cringe less). I am even for gays adopting children.
But let's get serious, in order to make Xtianity look gay-friendly one has to really twist and turn biblical passages to one's own agenda.
Since I do not read Hebrew or Greek, I admittedly cannot speak firsthand about the actual meaning of words used in the original versions of the Bible, and must rely upon English translations and comparative (translation) research done by others. Yet I do not feel I am left at some major disadvantage (given the amount of research out there).
Rrhain writes:
No, in the Bible, homosexuality as we understand it is never mentioned. Instead, there are 4 (or 6, depending on how you interpret it) admonitions against temple prostitution and ritualistic sex.
The first sentence is absolutely correct. The ancient world had no conception of a "homosexual lifestyle", or of a person confined to a strict life of homosexuality.
The second sentence is way off. Just because the Bible does not talk about homosexuality itself, does not mean the Bible was incapable of blasting into specific sexual practices which define homosexuality as we know it today.
Leviticus 18:22--- "Thou shalt not lie with mankind as with womankind: it [is] an abomination."
Now before someone from version control rips my head off, I am well aware that the original (ie non-English) passage is said to read: "Two men must not engage in sexual activity on a woman's bed: it is ritually unclean."
Even so, is that some sort of acceptance of male on male sex? There is a reason it is unclean and that is because male on male sex is so unclean it defiles the "marriage" bed.
We can further put this into context, a little bit further on.
Leviticus 20:13--- "If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have commited an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them."
This is not simply an admonition against ritual sex, or at least not a simple admonition. If the original version says something different I have not seen any mention of it in articles meant to defend homosexuality from Xtian teachings.
Anyway, I think it is somewhat deceptive to label all anti-gay-sex-act commentary as relating to temple prostitution and ritualistic sex, when Corinthians sets things out in a pretty straightforward manner and does not put its labels "in context".
1 Corinthians 6:9--- "Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived; neither fornication,... nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,... [will get into heaven]"
One can desconstruct the reasons for this any which way, but when all is said and done, it is obvious that--- like all the other evils on that long list (for example: theft)--- homosexual sex acts are not supposed to be engaged in.
And for those that think none of this is supported more than once in the New Testament, Paul practically restates Corinthians in 1 Timothy 1:8-10.
Rrhain writes:
This is in comparison to over 300 admonitions against various types of heterosexual sex (including heterosexual temple prostitution and ritualistic sex.)
This hardly cuts down the argument that homosexual sex acts are bad according to the Bible. If anything it should indicate how bad homosexual sex acts are. There may be 300 admonitions that whittle down what heterosexual sex acts are allowed, but you only need one admonition if you are wiping out a whole class of sex acts altogether.
Your argument would be much more persuasive if those 300 admonitions pertained to both, so that we could see the Bible setting up under what conditions both are allowed.
Rrhain writes:
This doesn't mean god loves straights any less than gays...just that they need more supervision.
Exactly right. And I think this is where both camps get their arguments all bunched up.
The anti-gay Xtian side misses the point that none of these passages state that people who engage in sex acts are ultimately more or less bad or irredeemable than other sinners.
Corinthians and Paul's restatement of this passage makes this quite clear, especially given the punchline to both...
1 Corinthians 6:11---"And such were some of you, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God."
So yes, God can forgive and love people who commit homosexual sex acts, just as much as others on that nice long list of bad people (again, let's use thieves as an example).
On the other hand, pro-gay Xtians are majorly missing the point in believing this forgiveness or love somehow legitimates the practice of homosexual sex. I mean come on, to think so is the DIRECT equivalent of a thief feeling his actions are somehow okay, because God will forgive him. Does ANYONE really believe a thief should come away from Xtianity feeling that?
And this is easily carried over to the topics at hand.
Should the Xtian church sanctify the union of two men as blessed before God? Well... should it bless--- or otherwise recognize as legitimate business--- a carjacking operation?
Should the Xtian church support gay adoptions? Uhhhh... should the Xtian church accept babies being adopted by known thieves, who continue to openly ply their trade? If there were no other options, then maybe. But in reality, not likely.
Should the Xtian church allow gay clergy? Sure. They certainly have accepted all sorts of sinners into the ranks of clergy. But should the Xtian church allow ACTIVELY gay clergy? Ahem... should it allow active thieves into the clergy? Wouldn't that make most of the teachings ring just a little hollow?
Remember, I'm not saying I'm for any of this bigotry. I'm simply saying once moral lines are adopted (and in the Bible it is clear that homosexual acts are at least the equivalent of acts of theft), certain decisions or judgements are clearcut. It is just a matter of following moral proscriptions to their logical conclusions.
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Message 88 of 165 (49656)
08-09-2003 3:41 PM
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08-08-2003 7:51 PM


schraf writes:
This is exactly the same two reasons people used to (actually, many still do) offer as reasons black people and white people shouldn't get married and have children; it was unnatural and the children will have a hard time.
You have just substituted "gay" for "mixed race". You are just bigoted against another group.
Oh, and I agree with crashfrog; homosexuality is pretty common in the animal kingdom. Do you know how cattle ranchers know when their cows are coming into season? They start mounting each other.
This is MY line schraf, not yours.
Or are you finally admitting my arguments for legalized prostitution were correct?
Given my respect for many of your arguments I was extremely hurt to see you mysteriously drop out of that thread without stating one way or the other whether my arguments had any effect or merit. Yet here you are restating them for your own position.
If my arguments truly meant nothing, as you blankly asserted then disappeared, then your argument here is as cogent and convincing as the pot arguing the kettle is black.
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Message 89 of 165 (49686)
08-09-2003 11:45 PM
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08-09-2003 3:41 PM


I don't think it is the same argument.
Sorry.
I found myself unable to argue effectively about the whole prostitution thing because I was getting some pretty deep feelings about it, so I dropped out rather than get overly emotional and stupid.
Sex is one of the most powerful and primal expressions of intimacy that humans participate in with one another.
To turn it into a mere commodity; to turn bodies into mere commodities, is not a step in the right direction for us to go in. It is also highly disturbing to me that you seem unconcerned about what amounts to the commoditization of fake intimacy and fake personal connection at what might be some of the deepest levels we humans can feel.
I think that prostitution is a push away from learning how to acheive authentic intimacy in favor of fake, bought-and-paid-for intimacy. The US male population is already intimacy-phobic and unskilled at relationship-building, and prostitution provides them a "pretend girlfriend"; a maleable plaything which never disapproves, criticizes, or expects a single thing from them, emotionally.
It's a step backwards from learning to have equitable, healthy relationships if one can always pay money to have a fake one.

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crashfrog
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Message 90 of 165 (49691)
08-10-2003 12:15 AM
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The US male population is already intimacy-phobic and unskilled at relationship-building, and prostitution provides them a "pretend girlfriend"; a maleable plaything which never disapproves, criticizes, or expects a single thing from them, emotionally.
Isn't that, frankly, a sexist stereotype? As though the only intimacy or relationship that could exist is the kind that women approve of?
Men may be just as able to be intimate or form relationships. They just may not be the kind of intimacy or relationships that women know.
And I don't see that men visit prostitutes - or strip bars - because they're looking for "pretend girlfriends". The way I see it they're looking for sex, because men seek out sex to a greater degree than women. And sex doesn't always have to be part of a deep, abiding intimacy. Sometimes it's just about deep biological directives. Just as eating isn't always about feasting with friends and family - sometimes it's about being hungry.

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