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onifre
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Message 31 of 92 (507751)
05-07-2009 6:33 PM
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05-06-2009 7:30 PM


However, some have proposed a much broader religious freedom protection to accompany gay marriage legislation that would allow any individual to opt out of participating in a gay marriage in any fashion (photographer, florist, etc) if the marriage violates their sincerely held religious beliefs.
I notice it states "individual" not a "businesses", so it doesn't actually give the right to the business itself, right? More so to an independent person, perhaps working for the company?
In this case I would say that CS is on point about individual rights, both for the couple, and the individual photographer, caterer, trumpetist, etc.
I guess my question is, does this law protect the "businesses" rights or just an "individuals" right to choose to deny service on the basis of religious beliefs?
Surely a company can't claim religious affiliation, right?
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Taz
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Message 32 of 92 (507759)
05-07-2009 7:39 PM
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05-07-2009 4:00 PM


Re: Missed it Taz
subbie writes:
First off, tone down the snark.
That's the way I talk, so bite me.
But in most cases, it's a small hardship. Moreover, in the case of a photographer, I'd rather not have someone taking pictures at my wedding who didn't want to be there, for whatever reason.
I'm not suggesting we force the photographer to be at your gay wedding at all. I'm saying we treat it like we treat racism. As I understand it, if you're a KKK member or for whatever reason you don't like black people and you're a photographer, no one can force you to take a job at a black wedding. But if you're a restaurant or a catering business and refuses to serve a black wedding, we'd be seeing nothing but that on CNN for the next month.
This brings me back to the original question. Why does religion get a free pass on hate?
Assuming that in most cases the hardship on the engaged couple is slight, how does that weigh against compelling someone to do something that goes against their religious beliefs? Or do you discount that factor to nothing?
Did you click on my link to Tyra Hunter? Are you proposing we allow professionals to not give us service simply because it's against their religion? We as a society don't allow them to do it based on attitudes of racism. Why then should we allow them to do it based on religious beliefs? Why does religion get a free pass?
However, there is an accommodation for sincerely held religious beliefs.
I'm sure there were those that were against interracial marriage for sincerely held religious beliefs. We as a society got over that. To loosely paraphrase Rrhain, if it was a crap argument then, why does it suddenly have merit now?

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Message 33 of 92 (507760)
05-07-2009 7:50 PM
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05-07-2009 3:44 PM


Re: Missed it Taz
True, but the state allows religious figures (priests, rabbis, etc) to act on behalf of the state and issue marriage licenses
They allow them to sign and witness the marriage, but you still have to goto the Clerk of Court or some other government office yourself to get the marriage license to hand over to them to sign. They are more like a public notary then anything else as far as the government is concerned.

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Message 34 of 92 (507761)
05-07-2009 8:25 PM
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05-07-2009 7:50 PM


Re: Missed it Taz
They are more like a public notary then anything else as far as the government is concerned.
True, but being a PUBLIC notary and acting as an agent of the state means they should not be allowed to discriminate. So if they want to discriminate then they should not be allowed to act in that position. Besides I think the point of the thread was more about the businesses involved in marriage, not the churches themselves, which makes my point off topic anyway.
Edited by Stagamancer, : redundancy

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Message 35 of 92 (507764)
05-07-2009 9:34 PM
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05-07-2009 2:36 PM


for the most part good points.
I think that we shouldn't really even question him about his reason. When his discrimination becomes noticeably invidious, that's when you step in with the legislation.
I disagree here, I dont think you can ever prove that business X who refuses to do a Gay wedding is being discriminatory, nor waste time trying to force them to do something, well maybe in some socialist commie country, but not here.
Say you are a Judge who signs marriage certificates, it is you job to determine if the requesters should be married or not. its your conscience, and your opinon, if you happend to be a judge who held strong religious feeling against gay marriage, then dont sign the marrige liscense, you are not discriminating, and the law can force you from your religious beliefs. wow now that i think of it this point is crucial.
similar things happen in other states. Technically California is a consealed carry state, but you ahve to get the sherrif to sign your paper work, most sheriffs in CA are against it and refuse to sign it. so while its technically legal and your could have the right, in reality very few do.
the people of Maine are lucky. where i grew up in the People's Republic of Illinois, they have a "morning after" abortion pill, and the Great Democratic Governor CORRUPTavich (Blagojevic), made it illegal for pharmacists to refuse to give out the drug even on religious grounds. I count my lucky stars to be out of that liberal corrupt communist blue state all the time.

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Message 36 of 92 (507769)
05-07-2009 11:00 PM
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05-07-2009 9:34 PM


quote:
made it illegal for pharmacists to refuse to give out the drug even on religious grounds.
If they want to impose their morals they need to find a different profession. Try some sort of lame ass ministry maybe. They are licensed by the state so they need to to what ever is legal, not what they feel is moral.

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Message 37 of 92 (507773)
05-08-2009 12:32 AM
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05-07-2009 9:34 PM


Artemis Entreri writes:
I count my lucky stars to be out of that liberal corrupt communist blue state all the time.
Sounds like you belong in Iran or should have been in Nazi Germany.

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Message 38 of 92 (507775)
05-08-2009 12:58 AM
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05-07-2009 9:34 PM


if you happend to be a judge who held strong religious feeling against gay marriage, then dont sign the marrige liscense, you are not discriminating,
sure you are, you're just discriminating based on your religious beleifs.

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Message 39 of 92 (507832)
05-08-2009 11:54 AM
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05-07-2009 9:34 PM


???
Artemis Entreri writes:
I count my lucky stars to be out of that liberal corrupt communist blue state all the time.
I'm confused??? I had you pegged as being gay. Why else would you have a gay pride flag as your avatar? Are you trying to be ironic?

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Message 40 of 92 (507834)
05-08-2009 11:58 AM
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Re: ???
SammyJean writes:
I'm confused??? I had you pegged as being gay. Why else would you have a gay pride flag as your avatar? Are you trying to be ironic?
It's not a gay pride flag. It's a christian symbol that god would never flood the entire Earth again.

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Message 41 of 92 (507836)
05-08-2009 12:03 PM
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05-08-2009 11:58 AM


Re: ???
WOW, Big difference! Thanks Taz, for clarifying that for me.

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Message 42 of 92 (507846)
05-08-2009 12:55 PM
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05-07-2009 9:34 PM


What?!!!
Artemis Entreri writes:
Say you are a Judge who signs marriage certificates, it is you job to determine if the requesters should be married or not. its your conscience, and your opinon, if you happend to be a judge who held strong religious feeling against gay marriage, then dont sign the marrige liscense, you are not discriminating, and the law can force you from your religious beliefs. wow now that i think of it this point is crucial.
What if you happened to be a judge who held a strong religious belief against Buddhism? Should you be allowed to determine that 2 Buddhists shouldn't get married so the religion is not spread through their children? What if the judge had a religious conviction against interfaith marriage?
Let's broaden this a bit. Substitute any other discriminating parameter for "gay" in the argument.
Should a caterer be held accountable for refusing to provide service for an interracial wedding because of his personal religious objections?
Should a caterer be held accountable for refusing to provide service for an interfaith wedding because of his personal religious objections? In this case a pastor would probably be well within his rights to refuse to officiate at the marriage.
In both cases I think that the caterer in question would be vilified in the press. Do you believe that he should not?
For the others who are undecided about the caterer-and-gay-wedding issue. Are you also undecided about the two cases I proposed above?

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Message 43 of 92 (507903)
05-08-2009 7:22 PM
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05-07-2009 7:39 PM


Re: Missed it Taz
That's the way I talk, so bite me.
I'll do my best to not let the fact that you are a dick affect my analysis of the substance of your argument.
As I understand it, if you're a KKK member or for whatever reason you don't like black people and you're a photographer, no one can force you to take a job at a black wedding. But if you're a restaurant or a catering business and refuses to serve a black wedding, we'd be seeing nothing but that on CNN for the next month.
Granted, but only part of the story.
You are correct that nobody will force a KKK member of perform services for anyone. You are also probably correct that a restaurant or a catering business that refuses to serve a black wedding would garner a lot of press. In both cases, however, each offending party would be subject to civil liability and sanctions from the state's anti-discrimination agency. Also, for purposes of anti-discrimination legislation, the distinction between a part-time business person and a full-time business person is irrelevant. If someone holds himself out as providing a service for the general public, even part-time, they are subject to anti-discrimination laws.
subbie writes:
Assuming that in most cases the hardship on the engaged couple is slight, how does that weigh against compelling someone to do something that goes against their religious beliefs? Or do you discount that factor to nothing?
Taz writes:
Did you click on my link to Tyra Hunter? Are you proposing we allow professionals to not give us service simply because it's against their religion? We as a society don't allow them to do it based on attitudes of racism. Why then should we allow them to do it based on religious beliefs?
Yes, I did. It's an outrageous situation. Were I involved, those responsible would have faced criminal charges as well as civil liability.
You alluded to that outrage in response to my question about what effect it has on the calculus when the burden suffered by the offended party or parties is slight. I'm quite certain you don't think that the burden suffered by Ms. Hunter was slight. Are you ignoring my question? Or are you equating what happened to Ms. Hunter to a refusal to cater to a party? Or do you not comprehend that there are different levels of burden?
Regardless of your answer (or lack thereof) to the immediately preceding questions, please answer this one:
Assuming that in most cases the hardship on the engaged couple is slight, how does that weigh against compelling someone to do something that goes against their religious beliefs? Or do you discount that factor to nothing?
Finally, you repeatedly ask:
Why does religion get a free pass on hate?
I believe I've already given an answer to that question; our country's deep commitment to accommodating religious diversity. At this point, I'm trying to explore the limits of that accommodation. You repeating the question really isn't advancing the analysis, so this is the last time I'll address it.

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Message 44 of 92 (507904)
05-08-2009 7:35 PM
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05-07-2009 9:34 PM


Say you are a Judge who signs marriage certificates, it is you job to determine if the requesters should be married or not.
Wrong. A judge has no discretion to determine whether applicants should be married. In theory, I suppose, a judge would be justified in refusing to marry if he was aware that the applicants were not legally entitled to marry. In fact, I've never heard of a judge refusing to perform a marriage ceremony. I suspect you haven't either and are simply talking out of your ass about things you know nothing about.
if you happend to be a judge who held strong religious feeling against gay marriage, then dont sign the marrige liscense,...
Wrong again. A judge, in his official capacity, is an agent of the state. As such, he has no more right to discriminate than the state does. What's more, judges are expected and required to put their personal feelings aside when acting in their official capacity and administer the law.
...you are not discriminating,
0 for 3. Assuming a state that has allowed gay marriages, if a judge refused to allow a gay couple to marry, of course he would be discriminating. What else would you call depriving someone of something that they have a legal right to just because of their sexual orientation?

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Message 45 of 92 (507905)
05-08-2009 7:41 PM
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05-08-2009 12:55 PM


Re: What?!!!
Let's broaden this a bit. Substitute any other discriminating parameter for "gay" in the argument.
Should a caterer be held accountable for refusing to provide service for an interracial wedding because of his personal religious objections?
Should a caterer be held accountable for refusing to provide service for an interfaith wedding because of his personal religious objections? In this case a pastor would probably be well within his rights to refuse to officiate at the marriage.
In both cases I think that the caterer in question would be vilified in the press. Do you believe that he should not?
Irrelevant to the topic. We all have the right to do innumerable things that would we be vilified in the press for doing.
For the others who are undecided about the caterer-and-gay-wedding issue. Are you also undecided about the two cases I proposed above?
I can see no principled basis for making an distinction between the two in the analysis of the issue.

For we know that our patchwork heritage is a strength, not a weakness. We are a nation of Christians and Muslims, Jews and Hindus -- and non-believers. -- Barack Obama
We see monsters where science shows us windmills. -- Phat

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