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iceage 
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Message 1 of 260 (360015)
10-31-2006 12:41 AM


In the "Bible: Word from God or Not" thread Message 1
The treatment of virgins in the following passage from Numbers came up
Numbers 31:17-18 writes:
Now therefore kill every male among the little ones, and kill every woman that hath known man by lying with him. But all the women children, that have not known a man by lying with him, keep alive for yourselves.
This passage was defended as not constituting rape since Deuteronomy 21 details the law in this respect.
Deuteronomy21 writes:
10 When you go to war against your enemies and the LORD your God delivers them into your hands and you take captives,
11 if you notice among the captives a beautiful woman and are attracted to her, you may take her as your wife.
12 Bring her into your home and have her shave her head, trim her nails
13 and put aside the clothes she was wearing when captured. After she has lived in your house and mourned her father and mother for a full month, then you may go to her and be her husband and she shall be your wife.
14 If you are not pleased with her, let her go wherever she wishes. You must not sell her or treat her as a slave, since you have dishonored her.
Not wanting to take the topic off course I thought it best to suggest a new topic.
The question is, does this passage describe rape?
If this is rape, how does one who believes the Bible is the "Word of God" reconcile this issue? Does the process described in Deuteronomy change this act to something else?
Definition of Rape from Answers.com
Rape
1. The crime of forcing another person to submit to sex acts, especially sexual intercourse.
2. The act of seizing and carrying off by force; abduction.
3. Abusive or improper treatment; violation: a rape of justice.
I would guess this would go into "Bible Study" or "Faith and Believe" forum.
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Message 2 of 260 (360041)
10-31-2006 5:58 AM


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Message 3 of 260 (360050)
10-31-2006 6:39 AM
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10-31-2006 12:41 AM


Rape is not explcitly stated but it seems to be a likely fate.
However, I find the supposed defence rather more disturbing. The passage in question states that an Israelite can forcibly marry one of the captives. Presumably the idea is that there can be no rape in marriage even if the bride is forced into marriage and then forced into sexual activity. And the only penalty for divorce here is that the man can no longer sell his ex-wife as a slave - a financial penalty of course, but hardly a benefit for the woman who could simply be expelled with nothing and could even be worse off than if she were kept as a slave.
So the passage from Deutronomy is both disturbing because it does condone what I would consider rape and because the person proposing it also apparently condones those acts.

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Message 4 of 260 (360061)
10-31-2006 7:54 AM
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10-31-2006 12:41 AM


Ofcourse it's rape!
The question is, does this passage describe rape?
Ofcourse it does! It may not be explicitly stated but it's certainly implied.
Deuteronomy 21 confirms this: "...and be her husband and she shall be your wife." No word about conscent here. Just shave her head and keep her captive for a month and then you can rape her all you like!
Also: "If you are not pleased with her, let her go wherever she wishes" (emphasis mine) Again, note the lack of conscent. What happens if 'she's not pleased with him' ? ..err.. nothing.....tough!
Simply put, Yhwh is a war god who rewards his faithful with rape and pillage.

"In life, you have to face that some days you'll be the pigeon and some days you'll be the statue."

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Message 5 of 260 (360063)
10-31-2006 8:04 AM
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10-31-2006 12:41 AM


quote:
The question is, does this passage describe rape?
As we understand it today, yes.
But remember, females were property back then, not much different from cows or one's house.

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Message 6 of 260 (360092)
10-31-2006 10:34 AM
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10-31-2006 12:41 AM


Sure it was what we would call rape.

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Message 7 of 260 (360098)
10-31-2006 11:06 AM
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10-31-2006 12:41 AM


Where is Buzsaw when you need him?
I need to stop forgetting about these passages whenever buzsaw starts ranting about how Islam is a murderous religion grown by rape and pillaging.
Hmm....

Of course, biblical creationists are committed to belief in God's written Word, the Bible, which forbids bearing false witness; --AIG (lest they forget)

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Message 8 of 260 (360105)
10-31-2006 11:45 AM
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10-31-2006 11:06 AM


Re: Where is Buzsaw when you need him?
These startling passages remind me of Dawkins' comment that the god of the old testament is a character that no decent person would want anything to do with.

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Message 9 of 260 (360109)
10-31-2006 12:08 PM
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Re: Where is Buzsaw when you need him?
Or Iano ? I wonder if he'd say that it isn't rape if the woman is "unrighteous".

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Message 10 of 260 (360124)
10-31-2006 12:38 PM
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10-31-2006 12:41 AM


I have spent years making the argument that the god(s) of the old testament condoned, and sometimes encouraged, genocide, incest, rape, etc. Haven't had much luck...
But specifically, I have pointed this little passage out before. The following explanation is what I got from fundamentalists.
old testament writes:
Now therefore kill every male among the little ones, and kill every woman that hath known man by lying with him. But all the women children, that have not known a man by lying with him, keep alive for yourselves.
The word rape is not specifically used here, so we can safely assume that it's not rape. They were probably forced to do dishes, wash dirty clothings, and cook to repent their sins in their former lives. In other words, these were acts of mercy by the conquering army.

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Message 11 of 260 (360131)
10-31-2006 12:52 PM
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10-31-2006 12:38 PM


The word rape is not specifically used here, so we can safely assume that it's not rape. They were probably forced to do dishes, wash dirty clothings, and cook to repent their sins in their former lives. In other words, these were acts of mercy by the conquering army.
That is one of the weaker excuses I have ever heard of.
Why the need for them to be virgins then?
Why kill the little boys and pregnant women?
The indication by the reason for their exclusion from the genocide is ENTIRELY based on sexual purity!

Of course, biblical creationists are committed to belief in God's written Word, the Bible, which forbids bearing false witness; --AIG (lest they forget)

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Message 12 of 260 (360134)
10-31-2006 12:58 PM
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10-31-2006 12:08 PM


Re: Where is Buzsaw when you need him?
But all women (and men) are unrighteous! So now what?

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Message 13 of 260 (360136)
10-31-2006 1:05 PM
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10-31-2006 12:52 PM


Jazzns writes:
That is one of the weaker excuses I have ever heard of.
And yet I continue to see this excuse come up everytime I point to this passage.
Why the need for them to be virgins then?
I don't know... something about their virginity... actually, I never understood the whole men attracted to virgins thingy.
Why kill the little boys and pregnant women?
Little boys annd pregnant women can't do dirty dishes, wash dirty clothes, AND cook.
The indication by the reason for their exclusion from the genocide is ENTIRELY based on sexual purity!
Like I said, the fundies' excuse is there is no word like rape or sex in the passage.
Added by edit.
Anyway, I'm gonna sit back and watch how the fundy inhabitants of this forum explain this passage.
Edited by gasby, : No reason given.

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Message 14 of 260 (360137)
10-31-2006 1:06 PM
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10-31-2006 7:54 AM


Re: Ofcourse it's rape!
"If you are not pleased with her, let her go wherever she wishes"
Is not Deuteronomy a later book so was this process in effect yet?
Actually I don't have time right now to look up the exact verses but in Numbers just a little further down the page there is some explicit text about using these "persons" as a "heave" sacrifice aka burnt offering. But keep in mind these persons were unrighteous.

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Message 15 of 260 (360142)
10-31-2006 1:32 PM
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10-31-2006 12:52 PM


actually pretty practical
Why the need for them to be virgins then?
Why kill the little boys and pregnant women?
The indication by the reason for their exclusion from the genocide is ENTIRELY based on sexual purity
The object was to kill the males that would grow up to be future threats as well as pregnant women (wives of husbands killed that were likely to instill hatred in their kids).
While we see such acts as abhorrent today, they did not seem so at the time. Just as a change of ruler (see the acts of David) meant that children of the previous ruler needed to be killed off seems really terrible today. At the time though it was a reasoned state behavior.
Today we call such behavior rape. At the time it was simple expediency.

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