Christianity - faith or act?

Is there something about you that you think women react negatively to? Disfiguring ugliness? Poor hygene? Bad reputation? Criminal record?There has to be a unifying reason that you get these negative reactions, and I doubt it's some kind of magic anti-woman field.

The problem with your explanation, here, is that none of those things - dreams, auras, etc. - have a basis in fact. Oh, I mean I'm sure that you had a dream, and that your aura photo is red, but none of those things have any effect on your life. I'm certain that your aura photo has nothing to do with your troubles with women because your "aura" has nothing to do with your "soul" or whatever.But it's possible that your "aura" represents physiological indicators of stress. You sound stressed. Do you meditate much?

That's probably what they're picking up on. You need to learn ways to de-escalate your body's responses to stress. Take a class on meditation, or take up yoga. (Great way to meet girls, btw.)

Funny thing is, I figured that if he was going to ask about women, I thought we could give him advice about actual women in the 21st century, not mythical sexist female ideals. But maybe that's just me?Personally I try to ignore advice from people who's model of interpersonal relationships ascribes behavior to demon possession.Oh, one thing I forgot to ask: SA-XHBK, are you a guy? I'm not sure your gender was mentioned, but I've been laboring under the assumption you're male. If you're a lesbian asking for advice about women, I can't help you.

There's no way this can be true.You just have to stop caring so much about it, and it'll happen.

Maybe because it's largely true, and because you obviously haven't done it yet?

Be that as is may, women like that aren't going to take kindly to the idea that they need their daddy's permission to date, especially if they don't live at home, which, in the year 2004, is likely. You know, with women going to college and having jobs and all. Or maybe you thought women just sat around at their homes still, waiting for suitors, like in the old days?Trying to get to know their dad as a precursor to romantic approach is useless advice in a world where women live on their own.

Yeah, but who'd want to date them? You couldn't go to any good movies, or any good concerts, you couldn't pull over and make out...If I have to talk to your dad before I can talk to you, why bother? There's many more reasonable women for me to pay attention to. I agree. Are those the kinds of women that the guy wanted to date? I sure don't think so, based on his statements. But Stephen apparently makes no allowances for individual family situation.