Your head would catch up with your feet and you would be concertinaed, go “squish”, and arrive at the event horizon as a thin pancake. In fact this would happen so fast that you would go “splat” as you pass through the event horizon.
I'm not so sure. You are looking at a Kerr solution since the black hole is rotating. That means, IIRC, there is a hyper-photon sphere just outside the event horizon. Photons trapped in orbit about the black hole without falling in and without the momentum to escape. This, I would think, would give you a really nice instant tan before you are disintegrated into high energy plasma the next instant.
As an observer I would expect to see you slow to imperceptibly slow motion as you very slowly burst into flame and are consumed, slowly, over days, as your pain contorted image fades into the far infrared. Though you would have to follow the image around as it too orbits the black hole at incredible speeds due to frame dragging.
Under your time dilation scenario, by the time your head was ready to enter the splat zone, the rest of you has already been dissolved and has been dragged on while still millimeters off the event horizon. There is nothing there for the incoming new plasma to splat on.
Maybe you were right. The slow, yet instant, flash of your being sublimated from person to plasma, sped across the scene around the orbit might very well look like a slow motion splat except this splat would soon span the entire orbit.
To splat or not to splat? Too many variables.
Edited by AZPaul3, : No reason given.
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