Holmes asks:
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...please nobody think I am against gay marriage.
I don't, and I absolutely believe that if the government is going to confer the title of 'marriage' it should do so without regard to the sex of the partners. I just wonder what it is about the word 'marriage' that is so important to people. I suspect that for most, even those who would deny it, it is precisely because the word 'marriage' implies a type of blessing.
If this isn't true, then please explain to me just what it is about that word that is so critically important. If there is no legal difference in a civil union and a marriage, then why is it so crucial for the state to perform 'marriages' rather than just 'unions'?
If the word does imply some sort of blessing then why on earth do we want the government granting such blessings to anyone?
I seriously doubt that my point of view on this will become popular, so in practical terms I also fully support gay marriage.
I'm not sure I agree with you when you seem to imply that changing the laws to accomodate gay marriage will require a lot of work. It shouldn't take a major effort and besides I think most of us gays pay enough in taxes to warrant the expense. The language of these laws is not such that their logic fails if 'man and woman' were simply replaced with 'the two individuals seeking union' or 'spouse and spouse' or something like that.