There's a lot I could say, but to stick to the more relevant points.
Firstly, I don't have to second-guess who is and is not Elect. You do. If you say that Jesus died for my sins then you're saying that I am one of the Elect. I don't have to justify your statements.
And, in case you hadn't noticed this is a debate. If you're just preaching at me in the hope of convincing me to be saved, don't bother. It's hard not to respond sarcastically, but suffice to say that when I went to Church I was taught that we should be good examples, that people should wish that they could be like us. And you are a long, long way from that.